Child support is not supporting a child - it is Government tax
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- 20th-April-2008 #1
Child support is not supporting a child - it is Government tax
Too many people here are misunderstanding child support. Where did it come from? Why are Governments so invested in it? Why are they so determined to get it and what is it used for?
Child support was designed to get back tax for welfare payments made to single mothers raising their children on state care.
It was designed as a tax for the father to pay towards the social welfare money being paid out from the Government.
The formula was made and the actual designer of the formula had stated that this would not work on families outside of the welfare system. But the Governments didn't care about that. They just wanted money to be coming in more than going out.
I need to keep looking for this formula and the remarks from the designer. It is a taking me too long at the moment.
Why do countries operate child support systems?
This is a matter that needs to be deduced from the history. But time after time the answer always appears to be for one or both (ultimately both) of the following objectives. Everything else is just detail.
- To reduce child poverty.
- To reduce welfare spending.
Perceptions depend on the order in which things are done. For example, suppose that the social security (welfare) programme makes the first move (eg. Income Support) in order to relieve child poverty, and child support is added later. (This is the typical sequence - in the USA AFDC came before the latest child support reforms).
Sequence Perception
First: Income Support tops up a lone parent's income to poverty relief levels. "Social security reduces child poverty."
Later: Child support dictates how much the other parent pays. It enforces this payment. The child support goes to the lone parent, but the Income Support is reduced by exactly the same amount. "Child support is a Treasury-driven exercise to reduce social security expenditure (hence taxes), even though this keeps children at poverty-relief levels."
But suppose things happened in a different order, and child support came first. (This does not normally happen. Child support tends to be an after-thought when nations realise they can't afford the full implications of social security / welfare without help from the other parents).
Sequence Perception First: Child support dictates how much the other parent pays, and this goes to the lone parent. It enforces this payment. "Child support reduces child poverty."
Later: Income Support tops up the lone parent's income to poverty relief levels, taking child support payments fully into account by reducing social security by exactly the same amount. "Social security is a miserly spending programme, exploiting the child support system in a Treasury-driven way in order to reduce social security expenditure (hence taxes), even though this keeps children at poverty-relief levels."
The legal and financial end result is the same in both sequences. Only the perceptions differ. Child support is simply "child poverty reduction" and "welfare spending reduction" with a bad press, because it arrived later!
Much of the material here on European child maintenance / support systems originated in Corden, which is recommended for anyone with a serious interest in the many different faces of such systems across Europe. Here are some results from this book:
"The countries studied were Austria, Belgium, Denmark, Finland, France, Germany, the Netherlands, Norway, Sweden and the UK. Each regime developed from a different legal and historical background, but the general pattern has been towards equal treatment for all children in respect of child maintenance, irrespective of the marital status of their parents. There has also been increasing emphasis on the rights of the child, with the Nordic countries in the forefront of this approach.
"In several countries, child maintenance is due to the child, rather than to the resident parent as in the UK. The more child-centred approaches are those in which there has been furthest development of schemes to 'advance' and thus guarantee at least part of the maintenance due. In comparison with other European countries, maintenance is withdrawn at an early age in the UK. By contrast, child maintenance remains due through university education in Austria, Finland, Germany and the Netherlands.
"Each country has different structural and administrative arrangements. Decisions about whether and how much child maintenance is payable are made variously by parents themselves (with or without help), by court judges or officials, or by administrative staff in social security or welfare offices. The courts have a greater role in maintenance determination in cases of divorce or separation in Germany, the Netherlands, France, Belgium and Austria, although procedures may build upon preliminary voluntary arrangements made between parents. In Norway and Sweden, it is local social security staff who assess liability of non-resident parents to repay the state for advanced maintenance, and in Finland, determinations of maintenance are handled by the municipal social welfare boards.
"In terms of the criteria used, the regime in Denmark stands out as one without major problems or negative outcomes for any participant groups. The level of entitlement in Denmark is relatively low, but in the Danish universalist welfare state, where the emphasis in support for lone parents is on labour market participation and state support, levels of child maintenance are not controversial.
"The regimes in the other Nordic countries also 'work well' in terms of: delivering support to all children with a formal entitlement; the transparency of determinations and responsiveness to change in circumstances; the speed at which determinations are made; and the absence of constraint on resident parents' decisions to take work. However, these countries share with most others the problem that liability for child maintenance may introduce work disincentives for non-resident parents.
"Increasingly, in all countries, concern about relationships between parents, and between parents and children, is entering the debate about child maintenance. In all countries, there is much to learn about links perceived by parents between the maintenance due, their contacts with children and the way parents who live apart may share the care of their children."
The model on which the reformed scheme is based
The reformed scheme, like the current scheme, is oriented towards:
"Lone Mother on Income Support with young children + Absent Father with significant income".
Justification for this statement
This is justification for the claim above about what the schemes are based on. It is not justification for basing the schemes on this model!
It isn't that all features of the schemes are based on this model. It is that this is the starting point, and then different cases are handled by "tweaks" and "fudges", not by building them into the starting point.
Word or phrase
The evidence that this is the government's model
Lone
The reformed scheme implements "children sharing in the wealth of their parents" by transferring ever larger amounts of money from NRP to PWC.
But this barely works if there is just one adult and no extra children in the household of the qualifying children. It goes badly wrong, with money being diverted away from the qualifying children, if there are extra people.
Mother
The equal sharing case chooses a parent with care according who claims Child Benefit. By default, that is the mother. So where there is no other way of choosing, it is assumed that the mother needs to be paid by the father.
On Income Support
The formula, including the percentages, were dictated by being Treasury neutral over a period of years. It was assumed that the Treasury interest was sufficient to dictate the formula. (In fact, probably less than one quarter of all the child support money calculated by the CSA will have any taxpayer/Treasury interest).
The White Paper says that the reasoning behind the need to choose a parent with care in the equal sharing case is to protect the taxpayers interests. But the reformed scheme doesn't bother check whether taxpayers even have an interest! It simply takes it for granted that the taxpayers need to be protected by the equal-sharing parent who claims Child Benefit having to be paid by the equal-sharing parent who doesn't.
With young children
The child support is awarded to the PWC, not to the children.
Older children, perhaps at further education into their 20s, have to be handled via the courts, not via the CSA. There is no "join" between these - for example, no child support money can be put aside by the NRP to cater for the further education of the children, even when it is much larger than the Small Fortunes amount.
Absent
The formula starts with how a 100% absent parent pays a 100% caring parent. Then shared care is bolted onto this with an unfair "fudge" which is claimed won't impact many people.
Father
See "Mother" above.
Can Child Support Agencies ever work?
It depends on what you mean by "work"! What are they for? (This is not always the same as what people think they are for or are told they are for!)Ensuring that children are supported by their parents instead of by taxpayers
This is a classic reason, with typical questions such as "why should taxpayers pay for other people's children?" It applies more in some countries than others, depending on the extent to which the society feels that children are an individual responsibility or more of a social responsibility.
The UK is somewhere in between the USA, with its emphasis on individual responsibility, and some European countries, with more of a view that society has a large part to play. (And some countries see the family as a whole having a significant part to play). The more the parents have individual responsibility to pay, the higher the liability is likely to be, and the more parents there will be who simply can't afford to pay "their share".
And, of course, taxpayers do pay for other people's children! Apart from paying for the infrastructure (schools, etc), in the UK the state (taxpayers) pay Child Benefit, a universal benefit which even rich parents can claim. A response to the knee-jerk question "why should taxpayers pay for other people's children?" is "well, you've been doing so for years without too many complaints, so why stop now?"
In the UK's reformed scheme, perhaps three-quarters of NRPs won't earn enough for the formula to cause them pay half the regular payments for a single child. (That isn't saying they couldn't pay, but the force needed, with penalties and backlash, makes this impractical, or at least unwise politically). An even smaller proportion will earn enough to pay their share of 2 or more children.
However obvious this purpose is, it is not the only reason, and actually probably only has a minor part to play in the UK. The government will encourage people to take this attitude when it suits them, and will then simply give away lots of taxpayers' money for other people's children when it suits them to do that instead! For example, when Working Families Tax Credit replaced Family Credit, the government stopped trying to reduce the Treasury's bill (now the tax credit bill rather than the social security bill, but so what?) And the answer to "can the child support system achieve this?" is "rarely".
Reducing the social security / welfare bill
This is just a subset of "Ensuring that children are supported by their parents instead of by taxpayers" above. It is part of the way the Treasury views the same purpose, when it suits them. They may sometimes have different objectives that mean that this doesn't suit them. As noted above, when Working Families Tax Credit replaced Family Credit, the government stopped trying to reduce the Treasury's bill for that credit. This purpose was discarded because of a "higher" objective. It was worth (to the government) spending taxpayers' money on other people's children in order to get lone parents back to work, because of all the policy and economic advantages of that. (I am not aware of any consultation on this - it just happened in the Tax Credit legislation).
This is a narrower purpose than the above ("reduce" not "eliminate"), so the answer to "can the child support system achieve this?" is "often". This was the primary purpose of the current child support system, and after significant losses in the first few years, it is now being achieved overall. Whether it is enough for any specific purpose is a different matter - how much do you want to reduce it by?
Relieving child poverty
This interacts with the above purposes. One way of relieving child poverty is for the state itself to hand out lots of money to parents. Well, that solved that problem!
Governments don't want to do this, because they believe they won't get re-elected if they relieve child poverty this way. In the UK, the Child Benefit bill is about £8 billion - £9 billion per year. Small Fortunes found that Child Benefit paid about one-fifth of the average regular spending on a child. Increasing the spend to about £44 billion per year might just about pay for the children, but would be about 45% of the total social security bill, and the extra money would be about £600 per year for every person in the UK - which means a lot more than this for voter-taxpayers! No, they won't go for this - at least in one jump.
The degree to which this is acceptable depends on the society. In the USA the state / taxpayer support is relatively small compared with the UK, and voter-taxpayers want to keep their tax bill small. The UK has an intermediate position, with some European countries being willing to pay more per child. The USA tends to take a "moral" (in some sense) position, that it is the responsibility of the parents rather than the state to pay. This is somewhat true in the UK too, hence "why should taxpayers pay for other people's children?"
Can the problem be solved instead using child support rather than state benefits / welfare? This is similar to asking "can child support reduce the social security bill for lone parents to zero?" And the answer to "can the child support system achieve this?" is "rarely", for the same reasons. Most NRPs don't earn enough to pay sufficient to move their children out of poverty by themselves. At most it can only be one component of reducing child poverty.
Social engineering of various kinds
Is the child support system intended to change behavior rather than achieve a simple financial objective? There are various possibilities.
Helping / encouraging the PWC get to work
It wasn't established to do this, although having a £15 disregard in Familt Credit may have helped. The "child maintenance bonus" in the 1995 Child Support Act could have helped, but appears to have had little or no effect at all, and perhaps wasn't even understood by PWCs.
But having a total disregard in WFTC, combined with a more generous amount than Family Credit, plus New Deal for Lone Parents to help seek employment, means that child support can act as an incentive for people to move from Income Support to WFTC - it acts like an extra top-up in additoon to WFTC. This works when the NRP earns enough to pay a significant amount. Most don't.
Helping / encouraging the NRP get to work
If the rule was "pay £X per week whether you can afford it or not", this may be an incentive (or at least a big stick) to cause NRPs to earn enough to pay £X. (Although it is also an incentive for some of them to drop out, disappear, or commit suicide).
But a scheme where the liability is means-tested, with low earners paying (say) £5 or even nothing, while higher earners pay a substantial proportion of the cost of a child (or more), will result in a marginal increase in the rate of deductions as NRPs earn more which will act as a disincentive. When added to tax & NI, the results can be very discouraging.
Encouraging men and/or women to be more sexually responsible
Women - possibly not.
Men - possibly.
Encouraging parents to share the care of their children
Child support systems probably act against this.
Making people feel better
Making PWCs feel better
Some PWCs say something like "I want him to pay something, even if it is only £5 per week, so that I know he has an ongoing responsibility". Some want their children to know that the father is still paying. Whether or not these are good purposes, the child support will normally be able to achieve these.
Making members of society feel better
Ha!
Making children feel better
This would probably need changes to ensure that children knew fully about the child support.
Conclusion
In the last few years, I have moved from the typical childfree-taxpayer's view "why should I pay for other people's children?" to a realisation that every future UK government is going to force me to do so anyway! The real questions are - "how much?" (which may not vary a lot from one government to another) and "in what way?". The latter question is a key policy & political question. Will my taxes pay directly for the child's consumables, or will they instead provide infrastructure (childcare facilities, say) and incentives for the parents to earn more to take on more of their own responsibilities towards their children?
Economically active parents, net contributors to the Treasury, able to support their children themselves, setting a good example, buying services such as childcare which keep others employed too - this is an aim of most governments. It appears to be a worthwhile use of my taxes.
The child support system should be designed to help, or at least not hinder, both separated parents become (more) economically active. And when they are economically active, it should supplement the earnings of whoever cares for the children at any time to bring the child out of poverty. It should not be intended primarily to try to relieve child poverty on its own, because it won't succeed often enough.
This is similar to some government thinking, except for one key problem - the UK's child support system appears to inhibit, not help, an NRP become economically active. It tends to lead poor NRPs to the view "stuff it, why bother to try to earn more?"
My conclusion
Child support is so important to Governments that they have an International group set up.
http://tinyurl.com/3uf934
When Governments invest this much interest into taking taxes off people, they are invested into working the horse to death. After all, every cent they make from the father is one less cent they pay out.
This is one very interesting page on child support going back centuries.
http://tinyurl.com/3j85ch
It explains all countries even Muslim countries. Great website.Ignorance is the Oppressor, Vigilance the Liberator.
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Re: Child support is not supporting a child - it is Government tax
Interesting article, lots to think about there.
- 20th-April-2008 #3
Re: Child support is not supporting a child - it is Government tax
We understand what child support is about Julie {but awesome post any way} It's just that if we do not pay we go to jail which is fine but then our children go without their father. Or if don't pay the remove our visitations and the kids losing their father again is devastating for them.
I know that only women and government win in the child support game. I have to pay the state 45 dollars a year for the privilege of being robbed.
My problem is is that since I only have four days a month to be a dad I have to do something to show that I care for his well being even when he is not with me. As for my sons in California I am not allowed any contact because my parental rights were removed but I still have to pay child support because if I do not I will go to jail and my son here will be denied his father.
In short I have no other options but to pay.Chevalier.
"no greater love hath a man than to lay down his life for his brother."
- 20th-April-2008 #4
Re: Child support is not supporting a child - it is Government tax
Nice find, Julie.
The 'justifications' and 'strategic directions' of the various countries are all seen in policy isolation - with 'Treasury' featuring. What is missing is the undercurrent of social discourse which is dominated by an anti-family, anti-male set of interlocking attitudes. Also missing in keeping with 'separation of powers' is the bias of the Anti-Family Court.
Don't mention the war!
There is an 'unconsciousness' about it all. The Primary Responsibility of both parents for the proper support of their children is missing in a fudged attempt to deliver 'social justice'. ie; avoid putting any real responsibility on the mother; load as much as possible on the father; and gain Political points for be seeing to do something while actually putting all the effort into Government Employee expansion and being expenditure neutral.
With all those rent-seeking scum in cushy, taxpayer and father paid turkey-army jobs, sucking money from the system, it is hardly surprising that many children are kept below the poverty line. The child support monies, whatever their origin, don't get to the kids. The Guvmunt takes it to bolster political power.
(In the UK fully 25% of the population in work, are on the Guvmunt payroll).
The State should NOT be involved except as an umpire. It has no business being in the money exchange process as 'middlewoman'. It could choose simply to make a law that obliges two parents to support a child and have the Courts enforce that at the civil request of parties. Single parents ought to be held accountable for their single status and bear the consequences.
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(St. Augustine)
“ For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers,
against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. “
(and within ourselves)
(Ephesians 6:12 (KJV)
A Feminist is a human being who has lost her way and turned vicious.
If you meet one on the road as you Go your Own Way,
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Re: Child support is not supporting a child - it is Government tax
any single guy here contemplating marriage - just take in all of the above
- 3rd-May-2008 #6
Re: Child support is a political vote buying program
Nice attempt Julie, though you are somewhat off. Child $upport is just another politcal vote buying program. It is like Social Security (money transfer from the young to the old), Affirmative Action (job and educational benefits taken from Het White Males and given to everyone else), welfare (money taken from wealth producers and given to wealth sinks), etc.
As with the many other such vote buying programs, things are taken from those deemed politically inferior and given to those deemed politically superior. The ingorance and stupidity of the majority of people requires that some "good" reason be advertised as an acceptable excuse for doing so.
Child $upport is much like Affirmative Action in its implementation. Unlike with Social Security and welfare where money is taken as a tax and transferred through the goverment, with Child $upport and AA, the government uses deadly force to implement requirements that the victims directly benefit the politically preferred.
- 3rd-May-2008 #7
Re: Child support is a political vote buying program
Ignorance is the Oppressor, Vigilance the Liberator.
- 3rd-May-2008 #8
Re: Child support is not supporting a child - it is Government tax
Good stuff julie. State ordered Child support IS mostly nothing other than a government tax to help pay for the family breakdown it encorages!
Child support should be regarded as the moral obligation we expect parents to have in raising thier kids.
The states that take the "financial" line in doing so create the most adversity.
Money creates this adversity and also perverse incentives.
It can be seen that in countries such as the Scandinavian countries where the state tries to avoid the financial "child support" by heavily promoting father involvement as opposed to the "just pay the money and all is fine"..
Fathers seem not that keen to take up those options and are often still prefferring to pay cash rather than spend time parenting..
Although there is MORE contact with absent parents in countries that try and encourage this by "more contact, less CS.." pressures, it is still the case that in these countries, as elsewhere, the average dad seems to want the same status quo "alternate weekends and a day midweek" contact arrangements.
But, of course, they have far less cases of men being completely wiped off the picture, as the usual scenario with CS encourages..
- 3rd-May-2008 #9
Re: Child support is not supporting a child - it is Government tax
The article is good, and it does point out a lot of government feeding on father's wallets, but its not the whole story.
So-called "child support" is the direct result of the feminist goal adopted at the Seneca Falls Conference in 1848. The feminists decided on a long range goal of allowing wives to renounce their marriages, leave their husbands, take his children, and still be supported by him.
One attempt was to push the concept of "alimony." But that was often seen as unfair, especially in light of their "equality" propaganda. So they came up with "child support" as the excuse to demand that husbands pay them for destroying the marriage and taking his children. After all, who could be opposed to men supporting our children. Never mind that the implementation or "child support" was all about paying the female who destroyed his family and TOOK his children. So-called "child support" was and is primarily about paying the female who destroys a family and takes the children.
The government got into it later as a cash cow for their bloated bureaucracy. Who could object to robbing men to "support children."
The amount of "support" that is charged has been adjusted to extract the maximum amount which a man is able to pay without collapsing entirely. In a manner very similar to the sizing of cotton bales during slavery, the size is determined to be the most a man can carry without breaking down.
The government is a drain on the whole program. They take more money from the man and often cause his breakdown. They interfere with the woman getting paid for destroying his family. They have restored debtor's prisons and slavery. They are breaking down the whole society.
Like the men and women of Paris who stormed the Bastille and posted the heads of the guilty on pike poles around the city, the men and women today need to do the same to storm the debtor's prisons, release all the prisoners, and post severed heads of the bureaucrats of the CPS enforcement.
Blessings
Bob
- 6th-May-2008 #10
Re: Child support is a political vote buying program
>But the rest I am just learning about. When did the Affirmation Action
>start? Was it the 80's? Or do you know anything else about this?[/quote]
Well, first off, you should be aware that like many things there are two meanings of AA. The formal meaning is a federal gov. program
I believe was established by Executive Order in 1972 (i.e. Nixon). The excuse was that persons burdened by discrimination require and should have a "leg up" to catch up to others. This expanded to a generic meaning of the countless programs that overtly discriminate on the basis of gender/race (i.e. if the government can be prejudiced, we can get away with it too).
I referrenced AA because among government vote buying programs it is similar to Child $upport in that the money is directly transfered under government mandate. With something like Social Security, the money is send to the government pot and is then what is in the pot is sent to the beneficiaries. Also, like C$, AA is a sham. If you started a company this year, you could be required to discrimination against het white males under the excuse of correcting your past employment discrimination--but duh, as a new company just what past discrimination of yours is being corrected as well as what past discrimination of an 18-year-old-employee is being corrected? With C$, the money labeled for a child can be spent on anything, even liposuction for the mom, AND THIS VIOLATES NO LAW! Yet it is still called child support.
- 6th-May-2008 #11
Re: Child support is not supporting a child - it is Government tax
>leave their husbands, take his children, and still be supported by him.
I like this demonstration of how utterly stupid the vast majority of people are. Hmmm, the excuse given and bought into by we idiots is how the man provided the money in the relationship and woman provided the companionship so that after a divorce the man should continue to provide the woman with money and the woman...well I guess she gets to take her companionship with her, all the way to the bank.
>Like the men and women of Paris who stormed the Bastille
There are two fundamental things people shouting to stop the oppression that is the Child $upport vote buying program need to understand and take to heart.
1. No oppressed group ever freed itself. The Jews in Nazi Germany did not free themselves, nor too Antebellum blacks, blacks in the Jim Crow south or blacks in apparteid South Africa. It wasn't MLK who "freed" the blacks, it was the millions of whites who made it the cause celeb. In this regard, the only group that has standing are 2nd wives whose lifestyles suffer due to the money taken from their husbands. As they are women, the preferred gender, they are not dismissed out of hand as comments from men are.
2. No one has ever spearheaded their freedom from oppression without there being emense direct personal benefit. Oppressed blacks turned the tables so as they now emensely benefit from things like Affirmative Action. Just ask Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson. This is a big problem because unlike the Women's Movement, people are seeking to eliminate C$ oppression and not just redirected onto somebody else.
- 6th-May-2008 #12
Re: Child support is not supporting a child - it is Government tax
Support is the wrong term to use because support makes it sound like not only a good thing, but necessary as well.
A few years ago I coined the term "child alimony" because alimony is mostly seen today as nothing more than a money grab. The feminists have enjoyed much success with changing words to suit their agenda, so then, should we as we have seen that it works. For example, raising one's voice used to be seen as screaming, yelling or simply raising your voice, today though, it is well known as "verbal abuse".
If you get in the habit of using child alimony as a replacement for child support, it may catch. The more people that use the term consistenly, the sooner it and more likely it is to catch. The term itself can also stand up to scrutiny (which is required if it is to catch on):
Alimony is designed to maintain HER lifestyle at the expense of his. There is no way, with no salary change (most cases) he can maintain two lifestyles like the one he maintained when they were married. So, he sacrifices his for her benefit.
Child Alimony is the same thing, just "in the name of the children", the checks are written to her and she can spend it any way she likes. There is no accountability. They say it is to maintain the childs lifestyle, that is a spin on alimony because in order to do that he must also maintain HER lifestyle as she has custody.
Now if it were really about the child we would see:
1) Men winning custody more than 10% of the time. Women currently win 90% of the time.
2) Visitation orders enforced as vigorously as child alimony collection is (from males).
3) Child Alimony collection enforced as vigorously against females as from males. Females default on child alimony payments more than men do, percentage wise. Considering that women rarely have to pay at all (thanks to biased custody rulings) and when they do it is less that is pretty sad.
If the genders were reversed in custody biases the child alimony agencies would be out of business as men as far less likely to want child alimony. Looks like the state scratching it's own back starting with custody in the courtroom. The tactics they use to collect from males would not be acceptable if used against females so you can see why things are the way they are. It isn't about the best interests of the children though.
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