The bimbo is an asshole for calling her blowjob "rape." But he is not.This IMO, IS an example of an asshole. And if there is such a thing as "gray rape" by definition, then this "COULD" be considered it; I am just not sure.
She learned about natural men and our natural sexual responses including thrusting deeper during ejaculation. It was educational for her. Many females enjoy a man's normal sexual reaction to her stimulation. If she doesn't enjoy it she shouldn't be going over to his home to give him blowjobs.
Let's not be calling other men "assholes" in order to placate the feminists. That's too close to feminist dogma for me.