A perfect example of a woman who uses a mental checklist and compares men to a standard even God couldn't even match. I find the women in their late 30's to be still Princess material, they really think the world revolves around them, their men especially. When a woman suddenly realizes that she pushed Mr Right out of her life, it's all boo-hooing and drama because she made the wrong choice. Somehow it's the mans fault no matter what, even if he was super dreamy and the one she had waited for all her life.

Western women are pricing themselves out of the market with their inflated view of themselves. I have no sympathy for any of the Princesses who thought they could always do better, always get a better man by snapping their legs open and expecting a man to suddenly become enchanted with her because she owns a vagina.

Just more proof that feminists are making heterosexual woman miserable by creating an impossible standard for the men they desire, for that matter impossible for any man to live up to.

So what do you think Ladies? Stick with your view of how an ideal man should be, or join the rest of us in reality?

Where have all the good men gone? They are right in front of you, next to you, behind you. Yes, we men are a devious sort. We hide in plain view so you can't find us even with a battalion of feminist therapists at your service.

I have a sickening realisation that holding on to Paul is partly why I’m nowhere near starting the family I dream of.

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She left out the part where she decided that she wanted a career first and she ran off "Mr. Right". It isn't possible to have your cake and eat it too. If she really wanted a family, she should have gotten married much younger, before she started "her own life". Once you have children, they become your life. She had already made her choice and now she's paying for it.

A guy should wait until he can take care of a family before he gets married; however, a girl only needs to wait until she can birth children.

Another narcissistic, new age slag gets trumped.
The story is always the same.
The belligerent, spoiled princess wants to have her cake and eat it. Then suddenly, her MTV fantasies come crashing down when the man she's with, grows tired of her raw narcissism and tells her to hit the bricks. Now with her biological clock ticking, she starts adjusting to fact that she's more of a picture perfect loser than the man she was with.

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She left out the part where she decided that she wanted a career first and she ran off "Mr. Right". It isn't possible to have your cake and eat it too. If she really wanted a family, she should have gotten married much younger, before she started "her own life". Once you have children, they become your life. She had already made her choice and now she's paying for it.

A guy should wait until he can take care of a family before he gets married; however, a girl only needs to wait until she can birth children.

And there is one of the major fallacies of Feminism: Women can have it all, a high power career, a nice house, gardener, nanny, maid, a subservient husband that earns more than she does but puts his earning in to the joint family account.

Unfortunately a lot, and I mean a lot of women have bought into this self-defeating viewpoint. When they age and the bottom drops out, they suddenly realize that there is something missing in their life. Reality is a real bitch when it slaps you silly after trying to live up to an expectation that is incompatible with true happiness.

I know a few women in the above category. They pine for times past so they could spend more times with their children. Some come to the realization that their career wasn't what they really wanted out of life and now they are divorced and alone with only the trappings of material goods to comfort them.

As long as women believe the illusion rather than the reality, they will suffer. Somehow it will be a man's fault even though the women bought the feminist ideal of the successful woman hook, line and sinker.

Does anyone else understand why relationships are a shitty deal no matter what?


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As long as women believe the illusion rather than the reality, they will suffer.

An they will continue to suffer because their MTV fantasies make them feel good. .
It's same idiotic notion that led kids to their deaths back in the 70s.

Not even close. Seven years later, single and now 38 years old, (P. She was 31, going on 12, and hasn't aged a day) I am no closer to my dream of starting a family.

That about sums it up!!

A good movie on the perils of feminism: Otis (2008) - IMDb
It's a bit of a morbid comedy though.

What about kidnappers? In a way they are saving the girls from these problems.
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/28/us/28abduct.html
Bride kidnapping - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

These females are the Prince Charming/Shining Night chasers. They hold men to ridiculously high standards, yet huff n puff when men expect them to look like a Victoria Secret model and cook like Julia Child.

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Does anyone else understand why relationships are a shitty deal nor matter what?

Relationships depend on the people involved, whether platonic or romantic. Takes work, trust, compromise and communication to make any relationship work. Even Christians in relationships have issues at times, which is why you need God to guide you and help you every day.

Most women who want a family these days just stop taking contraception and get pregs.. Standard entrapment usually works well..