Top 10 Reasons Women Don't Want Sex

[Incognito]

I am guessing most women are lesbians since they generally don't desire men as much as they want to be desired or as much as they desire themselves or other women.

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Haahoo,

Have you ever had sex that lasted longer than five minutes? It's been my experience (granted, I'm a woman), that the longer at play, the more intense the orgasm.

[musicman.2]

Right.



Haahoo,

Have you ever had sex that lasted longer than five minutes? It's been my experience (granted, I'm a woman), that the longer at play, the more intense the orgasm.

Really? Then why don't women initiate sex as much as men, give as many compliments, as much foreplay, as much pleasure etc? Every woman I know said women are more beautiful than men. Either women are narcissists or lesbians. Most likely both.

That only applies to the woman. Men would have to think about non sexual stuff to avoid orgasm for her benefit.

[Incognito]

Really? Then why don't women initiate sex as much as men, give as many compliments, as much foreplay, as much pleasure etc? Every woman I know said women are more beautiful than men. Either women are narcissists or lesbians. Most likely both.

That only applies to the woman. Men would have to think about non sexual stuff to avoid orgasm for her benefit.

MM, that's just silly. Most women are not lesbians.

And if women really do find other women's bodies more appealing somehow than men's, it's probably because of the way that women's bodies have been overly-sexualized/glamourized in the media. Personally, I think men's bodies are highly sexy and I'd much rather see a man naked (or in a nice-fitting pair of jeans, for that matter) than a woman. I doubt that I'm an exception to that rule!

[musicman.2]

MM, that's just silly. Most women are not lesbians.

And if women really do find other women's bodies more appealing somehow than men's, it's probably because of the way that women's bodies have been overly-sexualized/glamourized in the media. Personally, I think men's bodies are highly sexy and I'd much rather see a man naked (or in a nice-fitting pair of jeans, for that matter) than a woman. I doubt that I'm an exception to that rule!

As I said before : Really? Then why don't women initiate sex as much as men, give as many compliments, as much foreplay, as much pleasure etc?


And I think haahoo was kidding but if men have to think about other stuff during sex then i see his point/

[Incognito]

As I said before : Really? Then why don't women initiate sex as much as men, give as many compliments, as much foreplay, as much pleasure etc?


And I think haahoo was kidding but if men have to think about other stuff during sex then i see his point/

I don't know, MM...I suppose it depends on the person. I *hear* that women take longer to orgasm than men do...but I don't know how true or untrue that really is. I only know what my own experience is, and really I have always had the opposite problem..I can have orgasms in less than five minutes. Don't know if that's common or unusual. I suppose it's more common in a woman who knows what pleasures her and is communicative and interactive before, during, and after sex.

[musicman.2]

I don't know, MM...I suppose it depends on the person. I *hear* that women take longer to orgasm than men do...but I don't know how true or untrue that really is. I only know what my own experience is, and really I have always had the opposite problem..I can have orgasms in less than five minutes. Don't know if that's common or unusual. I suppose it's more common in a woman who knows what pleasures her and is communicative and interactive before, during, and after sex.

Really? And let me guess you can do it over and over too?

Actually that would be a very lucky man. I think you said you then spend all your time on the man after.

Actually that would be a great woman. Finishes off quickly and then makes love to his body. Since she was done he can focus on his pleasure and what she is doing. I couldn't think of anything more relaxing or low pressure.

But why exactly do men have to hold off on their orgasm? Is that under the assumption he can only have one and can't separate orgasm and ejaculation?

[Incognito]

Really? And let me guess you can do it over and over too?

Actually that would be a very lucky man. I think you said you then spend all your time on the man after.

Actually that would be a great woman. Finishes off quickly and then makes love to his body. Since she was done he can focus on his pleasure and what she is doing. I couldn't think of anything more relaxing or low pressure.

But why exactly do men have to hold off on their orgasm? Is that under the assumption he can only have one and can't separate orgasm and ejaculation?

Anyone can be multi-orgasmic...it probably just takes different people different amounts of time to "recover" in between each one.

Is there a difference between male orgasm and ejaculation? If there is, I didn't know that..!

[Feckless]

Ugh....sometimes I just need to make the safe....

I am guessing most women are lesbians since they generally don't desire men as much as they want to be desired or as much as they desire themselves or other women.

I believe womens sexualite is different from mens sexuality and a lot about womens sexualite is about feeling sexy. Read this post for explanation.

Really? Then why don't women initiate sex as much as men, give as many compliments, as much foreplay, as much pleasure etc? Every woman I know said women are more beautiful than men. Either women are narcissists or lesbians. Most likely both.

That only applies to the woman. Men would have to think about non sexual stuff to avoid orgasm for her benefit.

Well sexuality is difference for a lot of people so again it is hard to apply black and white thinking but I believe that beauty in this society is seen as sth typical female not male. If you look arround though you will find as many men are chasing beauty standards than women.

I don't know, MM...I suppose it depends on the person. I *hear* that women take longer to orgasm than men do...but I don't know how true or untrue that really is. I only know what my own experience is, and really I have always had the opposite problem..I can have orgasms in less than five minutes. Don't know if that's common or unusual. I suppose it's more common in a woman who knows what pleasures her and is communicative and interactive before, during, and after sex.

I read a statistic about it and there isn´t actually a big time difference

Really? And let me guess you can do it over and over too?

Actually that would be a very lucky man. I think you said you then spend all your time on the man after.

Actually that would be a great woman. Finishes off quickly and then makes love to his body. Since she was done he can focus on his pleasure and what she is doing. I couldn't think of anything more relaxing or low pressure.

But why exactly do men have to hold off on their orgasm? Is that under the assumption he can only have one and can't separate orgasm and ejaculation?

Argh...don´t generalize sex is so different among any giving person...I for sure don´t have problems to multiply....

Anyone can be multi-orgasmic...it probably just takes different people different amounts of time to "recover" in between each one.

Is there a difference between male orgasm and ejaculation? If there is, I didn't know that..!

Anyone can, and there is a different between ejaculation and male orgasm. If you can seperate those, you are in for multiple orgasms.

[musicman.2]

Anyone can be multi-orgasmic...it probably just takes different people different amounts of time to "recover" in between each one.

Is there a difference between male orgasm and ejaculation? If there is, I didn't know that..!

Yes there is. Most men can only have 1-3 ejaculatory orgasms. It is also possible for a man to have 30-40 dry orgasms.

True multiple orgasms would not have a recovery time. I am guessing you orgasm like the average man then.

[musicman.2]

I believe womens sexualite is different from mens sexuality and a lot about womens sexualite is about feeling sexy. Read this post for explanation.

This is the article that said female sexuality is about narcissism. This is the equivalent of men who believe there sexuality is about recieving pleasure. Both are selfish. I don't want to be with a woman who doesn't desire me just as much as I desire her just as what type of woman would want to be with a man who doesn't want to give her as much pleasure as she gives him?


Unless you are admitting female sexuality is selfish while male sexuality isn't?



Well sexuality is difference for a lot of people so again it is hard to apply black and white thinking but I believe that beauty in this society is seen as sth typical female not male. If you look arround though you will find as many men are chasing beauty standards than women.

The male was considered to be the more beautiful creature up until the 1900's. It was probably feminists who said women are pretty and men are ugly beasts.

I read a statistic about it and there isn´t actually a big time difference

[Incognito]

Yes there is. Most men can only have 1-3 ejaculatory orgasms. It is also possible for a man to have 30-40 dry orgasms.

True multiple orgasms would not have a recovery time. I am guessing you orgasm like the average man then.

Thanks for the explanation. I learned something new today!

Now about me "orgasming like the average man"....where do you come up with this stuff? I can't orgasm like a man if I don't have male equipment.!

[Aug9th-LiveOrDie]

I have found that in a relationship context, indifference to the woman makes her horny, or at least motivated to pretend to be horny
I know that sex was a big bone of contention between me and my son's mom, because she was a stimulant addict and had an immense sex appetite and I was an opiate addict with pretty much zero libido

[Incognito]

I have found that in a relationship context, indifference to the woman makes her horny, or at least motivated to pretend to be horny
I know that sex was a big bone of contention between me and my son's mom, because she was a stimulant addict and had an immense sex appetite and I was an opiate addict with pretty much zero libido

I wonder how it would have been if you both weren't on drugs?

[Aug9th-LiveOrDie]

I wonder how it would have been if you both weren't on drugs?

we probably would have had the mutual good sense to avoid each other

[Incognito]

we probably would have had the mutual good sense to avoid each other

I can personally relate to that.