Before I filed for divorce, I vowed never to hit a woman. My ex-wife took advantage of that several times. When the police would show up, they would separate us and question us. When we were in counseling, I decided to get a copy of the police reports and bring it in. To my horror, in the police reports was her claiming that I was hitting her. They police also noted that she was laughing when they asked her what happened and she responded "He was asking for it, so I gave it to him".

In the divorce proceedings, I asked to have her psychologically evaluated by a third party. The man that did the psyc-eval was 100% on her side. He stated that it was his professional opinion that we "engaged in mutual combat". Complete bogus lie.

Since the divorce was final, I make it a point to let everyone know that I strike back now. FUCK YA I WILL. If I'm going to be accused of doing it anyway, there is ABSOLUTELY NO REASON NOT TO DEFEND MYSELF!!!!!!!!!! I don't care if you have a dick or a vagina. Your getting a fist right back at you!

That said, I don't resolve my differences with violence, it is a last resort. I ONLY make an except to violence when it is directed at me.

To my delight, I have NEVER EVER been physically attacked by a female ever again, and till this day I have not yet struck a female.

The magic line right here;

Before I filed for divorce, I vowed never to hit a woman. My ex-wife took advantage of that several times.

antimisandry.com A woman attacks or hits you, what next?

This is why they know they can hit with impunity.

They're showing us that it's not about right or wrong but about winning. Can we win against an opponent who doesn't care about right and wrong using the moral high road? If so, how? If your suggestion of how works then why aren't we doing it? If we already are doing it then why isn't it working? And if it's working then why are we losing?

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We need to learn from history. The KKK used to be influential because they were in powerful positions in office. Right now the feminists have influence. We need to figure out how the KKK were removed from office and how to do the same with feminists (if it is possible).

Good approach. but i'm not so sure using that method would work. the feminists doesn't just influence in the office,they influence almost everything, to our media, schools, homes, churches, military, and so on. Heck, they even influence our very though (i'm pointing to manginas).The feminist movement has spread across to almost all nations, races, and tongues like an plaque. They can destroy your live by uttering a few words (accusations) and you are powerless and can do so legally. I'm VERY ignorant of history so I couldn't tell or prove to you anything. but I'm not so sure if the same approach that was used to remove the kkk would work on the feminists just based on that facts of the amount of power they have now then the kkk or any hate group has ever had in the past....

I like your style, samofsons.

Look at my avatar there is my philosophy!

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If she continues to attacking me while i'm ignoring her, I would power bomb her into a coma.

You know that you're bigger than her, why so serious? Couldn't you restrain her without putting her in the hospital? I mean, if she's got a weapon, go ahead and "power bomb" her but that seems a bit harsh otherwise lol

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You know that you're bigger than her

You don't know that.......

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You know that you're bigger than her, why so serious? Couldn't you restrain her without putting her in the hospital? I mean, if she's got a weapon, go ahead and "power bomb" her but that seems a bit harsh otherwise lol

We don't owe them protection for attacking us. We're not necessarily bigger but if we are they know that too. So why would they attack a man knowing he's bigger? Because they know they live in a society that allows them to get away with it. Basically, they take advantage of the leverage they have. Are you saying that it's okay for women to exploit the fact that they are female, and that men are taught and reinforced not to hit them, but that it's not okay for a man to take advantage of his size?

Attacking a man under the rules that "he can't fight back" is a dirty game. Don't be surprised when men break those rules. All is fair in love and war and this certainly isn't love.

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Attacking a man under the rules that "he can't fight back" is a dirty game.

Those rules didn't keep a pair of lesbian thugs safe when they entered McDonalds.....

I have a three strike rule. (pun intended)
The first time she hits me I say NO!
The second time I try to restrain her.
If she hits me a third time she just grew a mustache...

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You know that you're bigger than her...

This is one of the biggest lies that both men and women propagate about domestic violence.

For a start, not all men are bigger than their partner. Nor are all men bigger than a group of females that decide to attack them in the alley at the back of the nightclub.

Even if the man is physically bigger, this is only an indicator of his ability to fight. Most of us learn in school that the smaller guys are the ones who are often the bully.

Even if the man is a better fighter, if he is in a domestic fight this often won't count because he doesn't want to fight the woman he loves.

Can you imagine how boring boxing or wrestling matches would be if the larger one always combatant always won? The fight decision might as well be decided as soon as they are weighed. The size, weight, height, etc. is not a reliable indicator of who will win a fight. Anyone who looks upon some smaller stranger and assumes they can beat them up - whatever their gender - is an idiot.

So, let's put this nonsense about "men are bigger therefore..." into the trash bin where it belongs. If someone attacks you verbally, feel free to verbally defend. If someone attacks you physically, feel free to physically defend. If you are a man defending, just be aware that you will be automatically be in the wrong whatever you do and therefore are likely to be accused of attacking even if you chose not to defend yourself.

My brother in law .... I love him to bits but he got involved with the Maori culture and thus got in trouble with the police.

One night his girlfriend and him had a fight (nothing out of the ordinary, lol) and he tried to leave. He was drunk so he was strong and she put her arms around his leg while he was walking away.

He walked to a phone booth and phoned the police and said, "come get me before I hurt her".

Next moment he was surrounded by the arm defenders squad who had guns pointed at him.

Yep, he was put in prison. I think he did 3 months for that time.

Ummm, has anyone hear actually been in a situation or are we just discussing something that may happen like a plane crash might happen? (except Marx)

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Ummm, has anyone hear actually been in a situation or are we just discussing something that may happen like a plane crash might happen? (except Marx)

I assume most of us. Part of modern dating/relationships.

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You know that you're bigger than her

A sexist says what?

You don't know that at all. In fact, all my long term partners, have been broader/stockier than me. I'm quite thin and have thin legs/arms/limited muscles. Even my current partner, who is a little shorter, has bigger muscles than me.

Such a sexist comment, to assume women are always smaller, weaker and physically inferior to men. They aren't. Many women nowadays are stockier than men and have little reservations when it comes to violence.

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why so serious? Couldn't you restrain her without putting her in the hospital? I mean, if she's got a weapon, go ahead and "power bomb" her but that seems a bit harsh otherwise lol

Why is it harsh? Dr.E said if she continued attacking her. One punch/slap/shoe heel from a woman is enough to cause serious damage. If someone hits you more than once, then you may have little luck restraining them with the injuries so far, so you may have to fight back.

Would you be saying the same to a woman that got hit multiple times by a man? Would you say to her, "can't you restrain him?". No, you would cheer as she drives a stiletto heel in to his head.