I first learned of false rape-hate accusations about 40 years ago. My friend had gone to the city to do some shopping. He was arrested while walking down a street, picked out of a "lineup" by a false rape-hate accuser, and charged with "rape-hate." The night of the alleged crime he had been having pizza with several of us who frequently hung out at a local pizza place 150 miles away. He spent several weeks in a hellhole cage before the blue gun thugs and county persecutor figured out that a half dozen witnesses placing him 150 miles away would trump the "lineup" identification of the false rape-hate accuser.

I learned that when femininst hate is running high and their blue gun thug Gestapo are looking for man flesh to destroy, a man is not safe even if he has never met the evil feminazi. Sending men to hell is what they do. They don't care what excuse they have to do it.

Blessings

Bob

No but I have been the victim of a false bullying allegation.

A girl had been bullied in our school and all the boys had to stand so she could pick out the boy who had done it.

She picked me.

Thankfully my teacher knew me well enough to know I'd never do something like that. But suppose she hadn't.

Isn't this exactly the same thing with higher stakes?

I had to vote NO.

I do not know anybody, who was accused of rape, but I know several men, who were accused of sexual harassment in school and company. Including myself.

In all cases, it was 'only' a lie, of course no punishment for the female accuser. Never. One case made it up to the court, cleared, no wrongdoing found of the male co-worker. No punishment for the accuser.

Rape is the extreme out of many false 'small' sexual harassment accusations, maybe one false rape allegation, but 500 'small' false accusations of sexual harassment...(he is looking at me all the time and wants to see my panties, he made a remark about my really wild disco-nightlife, but I am not a whore, I do not sleep with everybody ...etc.etc...)
...only a lie without the risk of any punishment, only defamation, slander against a man you do not like...

Rape is a very serious accusation, which will trigger a police investigation - most women want to avoid that and are restricting themselves in 'permanent slander little by little...'

There are a few options missing..

Firstly, has anyone ever raped a person who was too shit scared to report the crime..

And, has anyone ever been raped and been too shit scared/ashamed to report it..

Then again, has anyone ever been told they are a rapist but probably dont even know it because the victim thought it would be better to go along with the act rather than risk the rape and possibilty of a thrashing..

or, has a bloke ever been told that he is gay if he does not want to do the deed and co-erced into snaking something below par?

I recall being mounted when rather drunk by a woman who was really not to my usual standard, but, the little fella was strangley woken and when I woke myself, I was watching godzillas sister taking a freeby off my morning glory!!

Character building stuff though eh?

i know someone who said she was raped, but i have my doubts!

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i know someone who said she was raped, but i have my doubts!

Why don't you visit the introduction forum and tell us something more about yourself, lluvia.

http://antimisandry.com/introduce_yo..._here-f12.html

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i know someone who said she was raped, but i have my doubts!

When I was dating I met bunches of such females. It got to be that they needed a "my rapist" to be accepted in the coffee group. Most of them had to make one up. Every female a "victim."

Whenever I was with a female who started spewing that kind of anti-men hate I put her out and walked away. They can all sit on it until they change their outlook.


Blessings

Bob

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I do not know anybody, who was accused of rape, but I know several men, who were accused of sexual harassment i....

Rape is the extreme out of many false 'small' sexual harassment accusations, maybe one false rape allegation, but 500 'small' false accusations of sexual harassment...only a lie without the risk of any punishment, only defamation, slander against a man you do not like...

Rape is a very serious accusation, which will trigger a police investigation - most women want to avoid that and are restricting themselves in 'permanent slander little by little...'

I agree -- a charge of sexual harassment is a charge of rape-lite, and I think many of the complaints of each are false. I've never personally known anyone accused of either, but from things I've read, false charges can be devastating to a man.

I was so appalled to find out how many accusations are likely false, and how men are so deeply affected, that I'm writing a series of novels about the subject. It's just fiction, but sometimes that will get people's attention when nothing else will -- and besides, how much pro-feminist fiction has blanketed the popular culture and influenced public thinking?

The first novel is about an innocent man, an executive in a small company, who is the target of a false sexual harassment complaint. It turns out that he has ironclad proof of his innocence, plus he has the solid faith and backing of his wife and children (who adore him), and the support of co-workers and subordinates (who have great respect for him). So he is exonerated, but not before his company is polarized, his reputation is sullied in the community, and his family humiliated.

The story takes place in the early 1980s, and when his innocence is established, even the local newspaper editorializes an apology to him on behalf of the whole community.

In the sequel novel, though, when something similar happens to the executive's son and the son's two best friends (at age 17), they are treated quite differently. This story illustrates how drastically the social climate changed in a mere decade under the influence of leftism and feminism. The boys are harassed, threatened, kept apart (they've been near constant companions since kindergarten) by the state attorney's office while it drags out an inadequate investigation. The same newspaper that apologized to the falsely-charged executive ten years before, now absolutely savages his son and friends in continuing biased and slanted reporting. And the small town where they happily spent their boyhood now gives them the back of its hand ...

I've tried to keep stereotypes out of these novels -- there are good and bad men, good and bad women -- but the stories do have pro-man and anti-feminist (not anti-woman) elements that aren't totally subtle. The accusers in these stories are not admirable, and their behavior flies in the face of feminist claims that "women never lie" about these things. Thus, I suspect there's not a publisher in the country that will touch them.

Sometimes, I wish I did know someone who has been through the experience that I could talk to, to see whether my stories even come close to capturing their reality. I suspect it's far worse than my fiction....

When I was dating I met bunches of such females. It got to be that they needed a "my rapist" to be accepted in the coffee group. Most of them had to make one up. Every female a "victim."

i guess that you weren't welcome in their group then bob?!

the case i know is a girl who went wild when she was 15 and ran away from home to a really scary area of the city, probably had sex with lots of different men, and finally came back, pregnant and claiming she had been raped. She went on to have an abortion.

when she was asked to report the crime she backed down, and never made a statement, but she has never admited it was a lie to her friends. I think really she just got in out of her depth and wanted to lash out at somebody, and the men that she had sex with were the obvious target.

it could have been much worse because her father when she returned home, went out looking for this particular man with a hammer - and luckily didn't find him.

if he had found him, he could now be in prison for murder, all because a young adolescent girl had never been able to control her immature sexual desires, and acted them out, without experience or ability to judge the situation she got herself into?

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i guess that you weren't welcome in their group then bob?!

the case i know is a girl who went wild when she was 15 and ran away from home to a really scary area of the city, probably had sex with lots of different men, and finally came back, pregnant and claiming she had been raped. She went on to have an abortion.

when she was asked to report the crime she backed down, and never made a statement, but she has never admited it was a lie to her friends. I think really she just got in out of her depth and wanted to lash out at somebody, and the men that she had sex with were the obvious target.

it could have been much worse because her father when she returned home, went out looking for this particular man with a hammer - and luckily didn't find him.

if he had found him, he could now be in prison for murder, all because a young adolescent girl had never been able to control her immature sexual desires, and acted them out, without experience or ability to judge the situation she got herself into?

haha! and you think that is confined to young adolescent girls?

Women of any age are no so full of the "you cant touch me if I dont want it" bravado that they fail to realise the persuasive power of donkey concrete over a mans restraint..

whats donkey concrete? maybe i shouldn't ask that but now im confused.

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whats donkey concrete? maybe i shouldn't ask that but now im confused.

A massive rock solid erection of epic proportions that shames donkeys and dominates the mind of an other wise perfect gentleman when in the grip of its powerful force..

It's a pity that "No, and I pray I never am in that position" wasn't expanded into
- No and it doesn't bother me
- No and I hope I'm never accused
- No and when I think about it, I am scared about ever being accused

I wonder how much terror we men feel over being accused. Knowing that it is likely, at best, to be about as bad as an unwelcome divorce in its affect upon our lives, our income, our mental state. Knowing that, at worst, we would end up being one of the many (according to how many men found guilty of rape have been later cleared by DNA evidence) incorrectly convicted, sentenced to over five years in prison among buggering inmates intending harm on us every day. Personally, I know it negatively affects my interactions with women.