Did you see this article http://guiltybydefault.blogspot.com/...amily-law.html .

I fear that the reality is that fellow German MRAs are too much centered on their own blogs and boards. Heck we even got our own fairly successful MRA organisation. On top of that, I believe quite a few can´t figure out the English language plus the general desinterest on what is going on in other parts of the world.

For clarification, there are several large MRA boards in Germany.

As far as I can tell the movement is heading in the direction of entering politics with a new party. It seems to me that international boards are not really the priority now.

Do you have ideas on how to increase activity in the german section?

Da bist du wohl vernünftiger als ich...haha

Ich weiß nicht was du meinst mit Domino Day. Ich schaue kein TV mehr.

Was hälst du eignetlich von diesem "Domino Day" nur mal so aus purer neugierde...

Auch gut, danke.

Gut und dir?

Wie geht's, mein Freund?

"(every post has to be approved by an admin if you are a new member)" Registered members should be free to post what they want. If they trespass rules they get a warning or banned.

There is nothing much to say on the first one....the situtation is compareable to fathers in Europe. I don´t think it is that much different in your country.

Isn´t there already a Killed-at-work-day thread in the activism section....I started two...hm

Can you make a thread about the Father's Rights situation in the German forum section?

Also, please make a thread about the Killed at Work day in the Activism section.

The problem with custody is the same as there is in other countries. No one can force her to let you see the children and the state agency is pretty much anti-male. I want the changes from Switzerland here!

So if you marry in Germany you automatically have custody of the children? That's pretty good. What you're tell me sounds quite good so is there no father's rights issue in Germany then?

In any way you should not rush for marriage, because the FACT is that for example the frequency of sex substantially drops like a stone after about 2 months after the marriage, just before the marriage you'll get hte best sex you'll ever get, and after marriage not so much. A marriage without sex is no marriage as some studies have pointed out. So you can postpone marrying and having children and enjoy freedom before getting stuck so to speak.

Tyr Tyr Tyr...I guess I have to explain the German system to you:
1.) If you marry you can marry in a church. If you don´t sign the contract, this is not possible.
2.) If you marry you can split your income tax. This adds an additional 2000-3000 € a year on my bank account. If you do not marry you can´t do that
3.) If you marry the breadwinners partner and children are automaticly insured. If you do not marry the one who stays at home has to pay for insurance
4.) If you marry you get one additional pension.
5.) If you marry and have children you automaticly as a man get custody. If you are not married you have to "beg" for custody as noone can force the mother to give it to you. (You have to pay though)
6.) If you marry and something happens to your partner you are allowed to visit and make certain decisions in a hospital. If you do not marry you have to fill out paperwork plus pay money to get one of these.
7.) If you marry and your partner dies you can demand a certain part of the inheritance and you have to pay much less tax for it. If you do not marry you can´t do that.
8.) Some even marry just for a green card so their partner (and children) can stay in this country.
9.) If you want to work for the church (which is a huge employer here (1.2 Million people working for them)) you can´t cohabit and have to marry.
10.) If you marry you don´t have to testify in a court situation. If you don´t you have.

That is the situation here and I am not even thinking about benefits you have when you start a company.

A lot of those are uninteresting if you don´t want to have a long term relationship and fuck arround. But, if you meet someone you plan to be together with your hole life, have children, a lot of these points (like what happens to you when I am not there anymore, hospital-, court-scenarios) become very important. Heck if you get children out of wedlock you have far less rights than a married father and still have to pay.



Given the fact that you still have to pay alimony for cohabiting (after some years) what is so great about that? What is your strategy? Only date women for some years?

You can actually. Financial benefits... you should be able to live comfortable yourself without needing to marry for financial benefits.

You don't have to sign away your rights so to speak with marriage. You could actually marry (ceremony, honeymoon etc)without signing the formal legal contract.

You can´t do everything and marriage has its financial benefits (here), but there are the risks of course. If it is worth it, is something the couple has to decide.

You can do everything without marriage, it's not worth it.

It sure has its benefits, but I agree those come with a lot of risks.

Yeah marriage is not worth it for a man in a western country like Germany.

Not to me...but I guess it is something like "Why the hell did you get married?"

Out of interest, isn't that obvious?

What is your point in having that conversation?

Maybe I use a proxy or something... I'm not telling. You don't need to get married at all, you can do everything without marriage. If you do marry get a prenuptial agreement.

I think I already know Tyr....but will keep it for myself.

And I wouldn´t get married if I wasn´t a 100 percent sure.

I don't want to reveal where I'm from sorry, I try to stay anonymous here. Well yes children cost a lot of money and you're sure that your wife will stay with you? You probably know all the risks.

One now...but maybe more in the near future. So where are you from?

How many children do you have? Yes that's costly, otherwise u could be driving a nicer car etc.

>>>I wasn't talking about mastering German, but getting decent at it for conversation and maybe reading, writing. With enough effort it is possible, but this also requires discipline and determination.<<<

I agree. You will however walk into a typical German grammar trap every now and then (and I have seen people living here for 30 years doing this)

I wasn't talking about mastering German, but getting decent at it for conversation and maybe reading, writing. With enough effort it is possible, but this also requires discipline and determination.

Just e.g. a BMW station wagon like 1997 BMW 528i. Second hand is not very expensive, but maintenance can be costly.

>>>I did not use a google translator! My language is quite closely related to yours as is English (I command english at native level). [...] Cologne is not so far away.<<<

So where are you from? (I still think it hardly possible to completely master German / Heck I can´t do it and I am German)

>>>So does your wife cost a lot of money?<<<

It is my wife not a prostitute. She does not cost money. Having a family isn´t cheap though

>>>Does she know you're a MRA and what does she think about that?<<<

She knows and I think she would fit in well into that forum....if she could speak English.

>>>Ford Focus ist nicht so Toll.<<<

What Focus like cars (is it a station wagon?) would you suggest?

I did not use a google translator! My language is quite closely related to yours as is English (I command english at native level). I have not studied German in years, but maybe I'll do so again. So does your wife cost a lot of money? Does she know you're a MRA and what does she think about that? Cologne is not so far away.

Ford Focus ist nicht so Toll.

A small town near Cologne.

Well it is a money problem I can use the equally slow car of my wife as well (a VW) but this is just a money problem. I mean I use cars to get from a to b and do not really need high speed (or luxury) cars.

I might get a larger car maybe in the near future and I am still thinking about Ford as I somehow like the Focus. A family car so to speak.

Oh on grammar and spelling. I believe it is almost impossible for a foreigner to completely understand German spelling. What you are able to write (or google-ly translate ;-P ) is very very good.

Deutschland is gross ja, wer ist deine Hause, dein Stadt?

Ford is nicht so super, du kannst besser ein Audi, BMW oder Mercedes kaufen und dan auf die Autobahn schnell fahren. (check grammar, spelling )

No....that is why I am only doing 100 mp\h (160 km\h). But what can you expect from Ford ;-P

Yeah Germany is very suitable for that with the autobahn that don't hae speed limits. Do you have a fast car?

We all do....that happens when you have places without speed limit...

Do you race on the Autobahn?

Sry Tyrael...I am in serious time trouble atm.

Would you like to be an editor for the Anti Misandry Report?

Thanks mate, I'm glad you like it.

It is great....ans I saw what you are doing...hehe

I would bring the white frame back...but well this is just a matter of taste.

Much better than before....Kudos to you!

I've updated the AM logo again. Do you like it?

Hm don´t know I think it fits. Do you have an Idea?

The logo is nice, but maybe the cross-symbol should be replaced with something more unique, distinguishable for Anti Misandry. What do you think?

I uploaded it (photobucket seemed to have it resised)

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a3...g?t=1241128046

The image doesn't load here http://www.redcage.com/images/1-AM-logo.jpg .

I think it is tyring....anyhow I found it....yay

that is the thread
http://antimisandry.com/private-admi...dia-11800.html

and I really like that one:
http://www.redcage.com/images/1-AM-logo.jpg