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    Women's Infidelity

    The only place where you'll find out the REAL
    reason women are divorcing their husbands


    "After researching women's sexuality for more than ten years, I can honestly say that most of our societal beliefs about females are grossly distorted and many are completely erroneous."

    -Michelle Langley, author of Women's Infidelity

    http://womensinfidelity.com/divorce.html


    Women's relationships today follow

    a very predictable pattern:

    · They push men for commitment
    · They get what they want
    · They lose interest in sex
    · They become attracted to someone else
    · They start cheating
    · They become angry and resentful
    · They begin telling their partners that they need time apart
    · They blame their partners for their behavior...and eventually, after making themselves and everyone around them miserable for an indefinite, but usually, long period of time, they end their relationships or marriages.

    If you're a male, like most other males, you would probably never suspect that your partner is cheating, not only because of your wife’s or girlfriend’s seeming disinterest in sex; but also because you have the belief that your wife or girlfriend is a “good girl.” Unfortunately, males are frequently left/divorced by their wives and girlfriends without ever knowing about their wives' and girlfriends' infidelities.

    If you’re a female, like most other females, prior to cheating on your partner you always proclaimed yourself to be "not the type" who would ever cheat. However, also like most other females, after they have cheated,you're shocked and appalled by your behavior; but at the same time you can't stop cheating.

    Women's relationships and marriages will continue to follow this same pattern unless we develop an accurate understanding of females particularly in regard to their sexuality. In fact, after researching women's sexuality for more than ten years, I can honestly say that most of our societal beliefs about females are grossly distorted and many are completely erroneous.

    The media has finally begun to acknowledge, albeit to a small degree, the widespread problem of female infidelity. Recently, several books and articles have attempted to explain why women are now cheating as much as men. However, none were successful in their attempt. All of them left out very important pieces to this extremely complicated puzzle. I believe the majority were simply unable to find all of the information necessary to figure out the problem. Although, I'm certain that some were just afraid to disclose certain key pieces of information because the truth, quite frankly, is so contrary to our current beliefs. Unfortunately, without these missing pieces, it's impossible to understand, and to subsequently fix, the real problem occurring in relationships today.

    My story:
    Shortly after my 27th birthday, I began to feel very different. I had been happily married for 4 years and then, suddenly out of nowhere, I began feeling bored and unhappy. In an attempt to figure out what was causing my unhappiness, I looked for answers in books, tried to talk to my Mother and eventually went to see a psychologist. All of the information I received attributed the way I was feeling to my husband, and similar to the majority of women, I began to view my husband as the culprit too.

    Currently, women are initiating 70 - 75% of all divorces

    Later, through my own research, I discovered that what I was experiencing was quite normal. In fact, women are the most likely to divorce in their late twenties and thirties after an average of 4 years of marriage. During this time, it's quite common for women to experience a pre-midlife crisis, which is similar to the male midlife crisis, only with an important difference - a difference that can actually make women more likely to cheat than men.

    The "stages" that women often experience during the course of their long-term relationships

    Several years into my research I was able to identify distinctive patterns and behaviors in the women I interviewed. I categorized these into four separate “stages” that women often experience during the course of their long-term relationships. The stages begin with a loss of sexual desire.

    Stage 1
    Women at Stage 1 feel as though something is missing in their lives. They have all the things that they wanted—a home, a family, a great husband—but they feel they should be happier. ............................
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    Re: Women's Infidelity

    I have actualy been to this website before and it was very yeyopening. I was thinking about the getting the book. Every man should keep these things in mind before getting married. I know so many women like this and when I see my friends marry them I just know the devorse is comming.
    Do not ever suppose that a small group of people can never change the world. INDEED it is the only thing that ever has.

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    Re: Women's Infidelity

    Men are actually better at detecting infidelity. Surveys as well as evolution confirm this. Sucks for women that men have this skill and they don't.

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    Re: Women's Infidelity

    Golly, ALL those "cheatin' men".
    WHo are they cheatin' WITH?, and WHEN?

    Why are there all those SUV's (formerly station wagons) with in-state registration plates, and local high school athletic team decals, in the parking lots of
    no-tell motels in the middle of the traditional workingman's day?

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    Quote Quote from musicman.2 View Post
    Men are actually better at detecting infidelity. Surveys as well as evolution confirm this. Sucks for women that men have this skill and they don't.
    True...but still..I am for parental testing before papas name is put into the birth certificate....do you know how fucking much 10-15% is? 1 in 6...meaning 3-4 people out of a school class I know have the wrong father....
    The men's and fathers' movement needs to make sure it never sees females as the enemy,
    but only misandry--whether from females or from males.
    If not, we'll become like the bigoted feminists that this movement was formed to oppose.
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    Quote Quote from musicman.2 View Post
    Men are actually better at detecting infidelity. Surveys as well as evolution confirm this. Sucks for women that men have this skill and they don't.
    To be accurate...studies have shown that women correctly identified infidelity 80% of the time compared to men at 94% of the time. It would appear that they both "have this skill" but that men are a bit better at it. The same study also showed that while men correctly identified infidelity more often than women, they also incorrectly suspected it more often then women.....if you put much store in such studies, which I don't.

    That said....the problem is not bad marriages but unrealistic expectations coupled with a lack of integrity and commitment. All marriages have their rough spots but too few women today understand the meaning of accountability.

    When a marriage is having problems, instead of looking to themselves to see what they can do or change, they immediately place the blame upon their husbands. Instead of taking responsibility for their own happiness and working out that responsibility within the bounds of their marriage and the commitments they have made, they use their marriage as a scapegoat, allowing it and their husbands to shoulder the blame while they seek happiness and fulfillment in greener pastures. Of course, they generally find out those pastures aren't any greener than the ones they left.

    Unfortunately, this journey to happiness, fulfillment and "finding herself" creates some very heavy casualties along the way, the greatest of which being her husband and children.

    If women considered marriage a lifetime commitment, for better or for worse, they would weather through the bad times. Marriage and parenthood are messy and difficult, but they're also intensely and indescribably rewarding and fulfilling. Four years isn't long enough to even begin to appreciate the depth of what a marriage and true commitment are.
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    For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Ephesians 6:12

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    Quote Quote from Kim View Post
    To be accurate...studies have shown that women correctly identified infidelity 80% of the time compared to men at 94% of the time. It would appear that they both "have this skill" but that men are a bit better at it. The same study also showed that while men correctly identified infidelity more often than women, they also incorrectly suspected it more often then women.....if you put much store in such studies, which I don't.

    That said....the problem is not bad marriages but unrealistic expectations coupled with a lack of integrity and commitment. All marriages have their rough spots but too few women today understand the meaning of accountability.

    When a marriage is having problems, instead of looking to themselves to see what they can do or change, they immediately place the blame upon their husbands. Instead of taking responsibility for their own happiness and working out that responsibility within the bounds of their marriage and the commitments they have made, they use their marriage as a scapegoat, allowing it and their husbands to shoulder the blame while they seek happiness and fulfillment in greener pastures. Of course, they generally find out those pastures aren't any greener than the ones they left.

    Unfortunately, this journey to happiness, fulfillment and "finding herself" creates some very heavy casualties along the way, the greatest of which being her husband and children.

    If women considered marriage a lifetime commitment, for better or for worse, they would weather through the bad times. Marriage and parenthood are messy and difficult, but they're also intensely and indescribably rewarding and fulfilling. Four years isn't long enough to even begin to appreciate the depth of what a marriage and true commitment are.
    Well said Kim. We don´t have forget the higher male risk of raising a child that is not his own. How are your feelings about parental tests at birth (or during pregnancy which is possible)
    The men's and fathers' movement needs to make sure it never sees females as the enemy,
    but only misandry--whether from females or from males.
    If not, we'll become like the bigoted feminists that this movement was formed to oppose.
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    Quote Quote from Feckless View Post
    Well said Kim. We don´t have forget the higher male risk of raising a child that is not his own. How are your feelings about parental tests at birth (or during pregnancy which is possible)
    Who cares? Its not something the government or women should have any say in.

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    Well legally in Germany I don´t even have the right to test without challenging my parental rights....
    The men's and fathers' movement needs to make sure it never sees females as the enemy,
    but only misandry--whether from females or from males.
    If not, we'll become like the bigoted feminists that this movement was formed to oppose.
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    in this day and age with the wild card of AIDS methinks infidelity is a sucker bet for a married partner - this critter gets right into ones T cells for dinner

    so either partner can infect the other and maybe even their children

    Ye Gods !!

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    Devlin's review is worth reading:

    http://www.theoccidentalquarterly.co...no2_Devlin.pdf

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    Sluts will be sluts.. And few of them will fail to point the blame elsewhere!

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    My personal view is that when woman marries, she should remain faithful for life. Divorce, seperation etc, mean nothing..

    Unless the man who owns her consents for her to shag around, pre or post seperation!

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    Quote Quote from Kim View Post
    To be accurate...studies have shown that women correctly identified infidelity 80% of the time compared to men at 94% of the time. It would appear that they both "have this skill" but that men are a bit better at it. The same study also showed that while men correctly identified infidelity more often than women, they also incorrectly suspected it more often then women.....if you put much store in such studies, which I don't.

    That said....the problem is not bad marriages but unrealistic expectations coupled with a lack of integrity and commitment. All marriages have their rough spots but too few women today understand the meaning of accountability.

    When a marriage is having problems, instead of looking to themselves to see what they can do or change, they immediately place the blame upon their husbands. Instead of taking responsibility for their own happiness and working out that responsibility within the bounds of their marriage and the commitments they have made, they use their marriage as a scapegoat, allowing it and their husbands to shoulder the blame while they seek happiness and fulfillment in greener pastures. Of course, they generally find out those pastures aren't any greener than the ones they left.

    Unfortunately, this journey to happiness, fulfillment and "finding herself" creates some very heavy casualties along the way, the greatest of which being her husband and children.

    If women considered marriage a lifetime commitment, for better or for worse, they would weather through the bad times. Marriage and parenthood are messy and difficult, but they're also intensely and indescribably rewarding and fulfilling. Four years isn't long enough to even begin to appreciate the depth of what a marriage and true commitment are.

    This is excellent.

    I'd love to swipe it.

    Better yet, you should expand on it and make it a blog entry.

    Then let me swipe the blog entry.
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    Quote Quote from contraeverything View Post
    This is excellent.

    I'd love to swipe it.

    Better yet, you should expand on it and make it a blog entry.

    Then let me swipe the blog entry.

    Why thank you, Contra.....feel free to swipe away.

    Noted, regarding the blog post, I am about due for a new post concerning marriage and divorce.
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    For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Ephesians 6:12

    http://equalbutdifferent.blogspot.com/


 

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