Children Becoming More Violent Towards Parents (Mothers)

**rohara** · 2nd-November-2010

Child violence against parents on rise

Charity reports increase in verbal and physical attacks as poverty adviser Frank Field calls for schools to teach parenting skills

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Students should be taught how to become good parents, poverty tsar Frank Field believes. Photograph: Alamy Children are increasingly likely to attack their parents both physically and verbally, a leading charity warns today.
Parentline Plus has received an astonishing 22,537 calls in two years from mothers and fathers struggling to cope with their aggressive offspring. Almost 7,000 spoke of incidents of physical abuse. The figures are revealed in a report by the charity today. When Family Life Hurts claims that the number and intensity of attacks is on the rise – and that mothers take the brunt of the aggression. Gee could that be because these mothers and the government that supports their life decisions decided that a father wasn't needed to condition the kid and teach it boundries? The study cites aggressive behaviour at all ages, but says it peaks in children aged between 13 and 15.
The alarming statistics have come to light as Frank Field, the government's poverty adviser, called for children to be taught in school how to be good parents. The Labour MP will take proposals to Michael Gove, the education secretary, this week setting out how such skills could become part of the national curriculum. "It is now more difficult to raise children than it ever was – but nobody ever teaches you about parenting. It is assumed that by osmosis people will know what to do, but they don't," said Field. The politician, who is carrying out a review on poverty and life chances for the coalition government, claimed that there was little focus on parenting skills in prenatal or postnatal sessions.
Teaching pupils how to be good parents would "curtail this huge guilt industry", he added. The MP will take the idea to Gove along with Kathy August, the principal of Manchester Academy and deputy chief executive of the United Learning Trust, which runs academies.
Yea right only government can teach people how to be good parents.
"We are proposing a more subtle approach than having a block of time to teach parenting," said August. She has put together plans of how parenting could be incorporated into different subjects. "In English, pupils could study different novels with contrasting parenting styles; in foreign languages, they could learn about different customs; and in science, they could learn about child development." She also suggests using tools in media lessons, such as studying plot lines from soap operas.She gave the examples of Becky McDonald in Coronation Street, who wants to adopt her tearaway sister's child, and Tanya Byron's The House of Tiny Tearaways.

Parentline Plus agreed that parents needed more support. "While aggressive outbursts are a normal part of a child's development, many of the families we are in contact with are dealing with much more serious and entrenched problems," said Jeremy Todd, its chief executive. The study suggests that lone mothers are at greatest risk. Todd claimed that many children were suffering with undiagnosed disorders.

Sandra Woods, 38, from Stevenage, felt completely isolated when her son, Jamie, starting behaving aggressively at the age of two. She went to her GP and spoke about him lashing out at her and the house, but was told he was a spoilt child. Perhaps you think? It was only years later, when her son turned nine and the violence had got "out of hand" with biting and scratching, that Jamie was diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. He was given medication and now is far calmer and has a close relationship with his mother.Woods said that parents should seek support and keep going. THATS RIGHT THERE IS A PILL FOR EVERTHING ISN'T THERE? JUST DOPE THEM UP AND THEY WILL GROW TO BE WELL ADJUSTED ADULTS!
Daphne Joseph, a parents' helpline manager from YoungMinds – a charity that tackles mental health issues in young people – said: "Calls about managing disruptive and aggressive behaviour are the most common concerns. A quarter of these are about young people who are violent towards their parents. Parents can often feel desperate and ashamed about their son or daughter's aggressive behaviour, so anonymous, professional advice from a helpline is much sought after."

Again we have one more article that features a cohort of government educators and social workers who continualy side step the question: Where the fuck is Dad?!?!?!

**haute macabre** · 2nd-November-2010

This is why we need a mom and dad, not one or the other.

Kids are not developing right, since most kids don't have a dad or their dad barely gets to see them due to custody issues.

I became who I am because of having both parents in my life. They are still married and provide an example to me of what a marriage is. Kids that go without a father won't develop the lessons they need, that only a father can provide.

**Zuberi** · 3rd-November-2010

The kids won't listen to the queen bees! BOO HOO!
TOO BAD!!!

They should've thought about that before they ran daddy out the door and milked him for all his worth! Now we have a generation of headless children to fill up the prison camps when mommy can't cut the fucking mustard!

**shaazam** · 3rd-November-2010

a couple of generations of fatherless homes bearing fruit - maybe momma could get some succor from the Family Court ahahhh

**Bmiricle** · 3rd-November-2010

Quote from Zuberi

The kids want listen to the queen bees! BOO HOO!
TOO BAD!!!

They should've thought about that before they ran daddy out the door and milked him for all his worth! Now we have a generation of headless children to fill up the prison camps when mommy can't cut the fucking mustard!

Gee Golly Willikers Batman!

I agree with Zuberi's big font rant for once. It was quite eloquent in an alarming shout in your face kind of way.

**Zuberi** · 4th-November-2010

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Gee Golly Willikers Batman!

I agree with Zuberi's big font rant for once. It was quite eloquent in an alarming shout in your face kind of way.

Do you gain much amusement from being a condescending asshole?

Just asking.

**Bmiricle** · 4th-November-2010

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Do you gain much amusement from being a condescending asshole?

Just asking.

I was actually intentionally ribbing you whilst agreeing with your comment in one statement. I'd ask that you refrain from calling me an asshole.

And yes, I gained a bit of amusement from the whole ordeal.

**Marx** · 4th-November-2010

You bully, bmircle! You absolute bully.

How Dare You!!!

**Bmiricle** · 4th-November-2010

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You bully, bmircle! You absolute bully.

How Dare You!!!

heh heh heh

**Tyrael** · 4th-November-2010

It's much easier for children to physically overpower their mothers when the father is not around. Particularly in their late teens. Normally the father supports his wife, and lays down the law to ensure that children show respect.

**Zuberi** · 4th-November-2010

Quote from Bmiricle

I was actually intentionally ribbing you whilst agreeing with your comment in one statement. I'd ask that you refrain from calling me an asshole.

And yes, I gained a bit of amusement from the whole ordeal.

Maybe you're right.
Jerk off was a better choice of words.
At least you still have a sense of humor and your dignity as a man, unlike some remedial, thought policing specimens who shall remain nameless.

Quote from Tyrael

It's much easier for children to physically overpower their mothers when the father is not around. Particularly in their late teens. Normally the father supports his wife, and lays down the law to ensure that children show respect.

Yes, I can agree this. It's much for mommy dearest to use her child as a punching bag when their much older. Who knows, maybe the kid will pay the abusive trout back and send her to a rest home.

**Bmiricle** · 4th-November-2010

Quote from Zuberi

Maybe you're right.
Jerk off was a better choice of words.
At least you still have a sense of humor and your dignity as a man, unlike some remedial, thought policing specimens who shall remain nameless.

Indeed, yet I'm very rarely patronizing to anybody due to a superiority complex of any sort so I'd also ask that you don't describe me as condescending either.

Thanks in advance.

**haute macabre** · 4th-November-2010

Will you two calm your horses?

**Bmiricle** · 5th-November-2010

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Will you two calm your horses?

Nope.

**Marx** · 5th-November-2010

It seems one member within this thread likes to be angry at 'someone' on a regular basis. It used to Tera, then Percy, now Bmiricle, who's next?

We should play spin the bottle to see who's next.