This is a discussion on You Were Right, Ampersand within the KellyMac's forums, part of the Blogging Hub category; In one of my December 2007 entries , my statements were questioned by Ampersand. He said that "two of the ...
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In one of my December 2007 entries, my statements were questioned by Ampersand. He said that "two of the quotes on your list are dishonest -- either fabricated or distorted through out-of-context quoting. Yet you apparently think I should be taking the list seriously. Why should I assume that the rest of the list is an honest representation of anything?" He suggested that my arguments lacked "legitimate evidence". I wanted to give my answer here, and not in the comments, because Ampersand made a very good point. You know, you're right, Ampersand. I did go back and verify all of those quotes, including the one that was misquoted, and you know as well as I do that they're accurate. A couple of them were questionable, though, and I don't blame you for not crediting the others as being accurate, or crediting that today's Women's Studies are based on those ideas. You have no reason to do so, because of my sloppy research. I concede the point. I learned from this experience, and have put in a lot more effort on my blogging homework. You are so right about out-of-context quoting. "If you're incapable of proving your point without out-of-context quoting, then your point is nonsense." I couldn't agree more. Now that we've established that, though, I do have to wonder about some of the studies I've heard supporting feminism that have been proven to be inaccurate. These are serious propaganda that, if they were true, would certainly prove women to be victims and men to be brutes. Take, for example Domestic Violence. Here's the quote I've heard any number of times: "According to the FBI, a woman is beaten every XXX seconds." But, according to Richard Gelles, "First, the FBI does not calculate, tabulate, or track data on domestic violence. The FBI once did estimate that a women is beaten every 15 seconds, but they derived this estimate from Murray Straus, Richard J. Gelles, and Suzanne K. Steinmetz's book, Behind Closed Doors: Violence in the American Family.Keep in mind that the person who wrote that factoid page is one of the authors of the book they all used. That brings to mind the whole "Increase in Domestic Violence on Superbowl Sunday" myth. This myth is well-known to be a myth, but if you haven't heard of it, here's the link. In fact, this very myth may have had a part to play in the passing of the VAWA (Violence Against Women Act) legislation. Here's the first sentence from this article: "What do you get when you mix equal parts of gender myth, a casual disregard of Constitutional protections, and old fashioned political pork? VAWA – the Violence Against Women Act -- that’s what."It's an interesting read. Here are a few more mistaken statistics from the Richard Gelles page: Sixty-three Percent of Young Men Between the Ages of 11 and 20 Who Are Serving Time for Homicide Have Killed Their Mother's AbuserSo hmm...it looks like there were some cherrypicked and downright misquoted research. According to your logic, maybe we shouldn't be taking domestic violence, or prison sentences for the same, seriously? Here is some more interesting information I found: Women Earn 77¢ For Every $1.00 A Man Earns : Not true. Take into account years of work experience, hours worked per year, full- or part-time schedule, leaves taken, danger of the work, etc, and it's virtually the same. If women worked for less, and men were getting the jobs, then businesses would go out of business, now wouldn't they? 150,000 Young Women Die From Anorexia Nervosa Each Year : Not true. "According to the Center for Disease Control there were 101 deaths from anorexia in 1983, 67 in 1988 and 54 in 1991." Fathers Seeking Custody Win 70% of Cases: Not true. In 1999, 15% of fathers had custody. Only 2% of Rape Charges Are False: Not true. 30 - 40% of rape charges are false. So, Ampersand, which "facts" supporting the oppression of women in our society would you have us believe? I'm not really finding any that haven't been debunked, or aren't completely outdated. More... | ||||
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Whatever Ampersand and others will reply, they cannot deny the existence of men-hating literature written by leading feminists. Might be, some quotes are not correctly mentioned or taken out of context, but in general, feminism is a men-hating movement, which is also attacking married women and even attacking young boys. ---------- About the salary gap: This is a good example for mixing up this and that and producing untrue facts. The salary gap does not exist. Very simple ... Low level work, like to sell hamburgers or to deliver pizza is paid per hour, done by men or women does not matter - High level work like medical doctors: my dentist is a woman, she will give me the same invoice as a male doctor - dental work has nothing to do with gender. If you own your business, it depends on many facts, if you are successful or not, however the gender is irrelevant. My barber is a man, but the mother is still helping in the shop - I pay the same, regardless if the haircut is done by the mother or by the son... The salary gap discussion has a funny aspect: Female owners of companies. You might expect these female owners to pay extraordinary good salaries for their female staff. However I never heard from a company, owned by a female boss, that it offers better payment for the female employees...more the opposite... | |||
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Yohan, that salary gap thingo was EXCELLENT. I have copied and pasted it into my warcraft notebook.
I have tried all my life to leave the place better than I found it. But there are 6 billion other buggers out there messing it up. I am outnumbered. But... YOU don't just make a difference, you make THE difference. ![]() | ||||
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