What follows is a rant, written by Sociopathic Revelation (http://failuresforgodesses.blogspot....nice-girl.html). It addresses the frustration many men feel today when they look at the available dating pool. It’s not that they don’t want to date. It’s not that they don’t like women. Most of the men I know would LOVE to find a good woman to settle down and have a family with. The problem is finding a good woman. There just aren’t that many out there.

Now, I’m not saying women should be Stepford Wives, or slaves, or barefoot & pregnant & slaving over a hot stove, or any of those things feminists seem to think anti-feminists want. SR isn’t saying that either. But it IS possible to be feminine and caring and supportive, and still think independently. I’m going to write more on this subject later, but for now just read what SR has to say.

Oh, and before you feminists start embarrassing yourselves, if I hear (see) “You’re just mad because you can’t get laid”, or “You must be gay”, or “You’re just threatened by a strong woman”, or “You must have had terrible problems with your mother”, I will laugh my ass off. Such “arguments” are not arguments at all, but merely a sad attempt to shame a man into shutting the hell up and toeing the line, because you can’t logically refute what he’s saying.

One more thing...we all know "not all women are like that". The point is, the ones who aren't "like that" are Loch Ness Monster rare. If you look in your hearts and at our culture, you will know it's true.

Where are all the nice girls at? Don't tell me. I already know. They are supposed to be devoutly sitting in the church pews waiting for a future husband to come along. They are supposed to be taking care of themselves concerning their health to make themselves more attractive to the opposite sex. They are supposed to be improving themselves in every fashion, so they are well-rounded individuals men can't resist and feel impelled to be at their sides.

Uh huh.

I may be going against the grain when I state this, but I do think good women are "out there." Trouble is, their exists a dearth of them that seem to be dwindling. Chances are awfully high the the good ones are either scooped up, or in the process of being in the dynamic of being with a man already. Funny how that seems like the flip side of American women's complaint of that all the good men are either married or gay. I don't exactly feel much sympathy for women who blither on like this---it's basically an excuse to stay single and bitch about their condition to their fair weather friends.

Even worse, the ratio of good men to good women is out of whack. I'm not certain about how that ratio is numerically, but I do know how it ultimately plays out for men. There's a lot of single men that are that way for a myriad of reasons, but one of the reasons is what I've stated above, and with the amount of single moms, cast iron bitches, used/washed up sluts, nutjobs, and the more gender feminist minded aren't likely candidates for the man who is more discriminating in his tastes, or serious about having a marriage and family (and children that are legitimately his) that isn't going to crash and burn. Hence, more paucity of good women: add to the fray that the women (men are wary of) overestimate their proverbial market value and shame men who don't date them with shit behavior, I can't say I blame men for not even courting women anymore after a time.

Now, I don't completely buy the traditional lines women repeat, either. I've read there apparent nice gal types have an awful time with shyness and making moves, but it seems like an excuse not to become intimate with men on more than one level. Seems like they have no problems with letting men trip over themselves in order to secure a relationship with them; of course, the responsibility lies at the men's doorstep, her work involves showing up and spending an hour and a half on her looks. You pay for dates. You ask her out. You follow up. You have to say and act in all the right ways. There's no promise that those things will iron out any of your differences or make her bond with you more. Basically, she has veto power and if you're not presenting yourself as a good catch, it's still up to her what occurs, if anything. And men have all the power? Even personally, in this situation? Will she continue the pursuit in kind? That's if she won't meet with her friends and family with any modicum of chagrin at all by being with you---even if you hit it off, your value plummets quickly if peer pressure demands you're a loser unfit to polish her shoes on a shine box.

Women will often go for what other women want, including men. Even a "good" girl will follow some of the examples of a bitchy alpha female if she feels it won't help being affable. The more dirty fighters will conspire if it requires backstabbing, cheating, lying, turning others against each other, stealing a manfrom his own girlfriend or wife, or even worse tactics. Yet good men still languish without a date, and if they complain about it, they are bitter whiners. But women take sexual rejection infinitely harder than their male cohorts and will even wreck havoc if thwarted. Most men, even half assed players, get usedto periods where they are dateless or sexual specters on the primal landscape. Single women, even ones who don't put out easily and use sex as weapon once in a relationship, get tied in knots when they aren't attracting men like they used to.

Interesting how women use, "You should get laid/you're a loser that can't get laid."

And men are the ones obsessed with sex? What? Women aren't? With their vociferous amounts of babbling concerning their children, their asses, their boobs, their sex lives, birth control, abortion, tampons, PMS, how to give better blowjobs, or competing with other women over the slim minority of men deemed worthy, while dressing up sexy for the approval of their tenuous partnerships they developed they label as "friends?" Christianity or any other religion holds no guarantee she internalized solid character values. Tramp stamps be damned. It's another indication of the hive mind American women either adopt or innately possess---I'll let the
armchair theorists debate whether or not it's sociobiological imperatives that lead them to the habituation of such nihilistic hedonism; the ersatz rebellion of tattoos, piercings, drunken and stoned at an endless array of nights, hopping from one man to another, one club to another, in a desperate search for the next thrill at the party. Capricious in her ways, the "spiritual NOT religious" females aren't terribly different from women who feel they are the (a)moral arbitrators of those values---since they are women and feel justified in taking the tenets and either absorbing them as they see fit, or changing them in mid-stream when they work against her egocentrism.

Nice girls? Yeah, I may have gotten off the beaten track here, but you're outnumbered by the women I've outlined above. I'd ask you to prove me wrong, but I'm tired of arguing about it anymore.

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Nice girls are such a rarity today and they tend to be misdirected into feminist ways of thinking..

A new definition of a nice girl is sadly needed..

One who will drop her knickers..

That will increase the number of them!!

KellyMac returneth!

The dating "pool" is more like a fucking hippos playground..

The majority of women found wallowing in the attention of sad men looking for something not quite so arrogant and nasty are either:-

1) Fat..

2) Ugly..

3) Old

4) Mothers

Actually, most are all 4!

If you doubt me, go to www.plentyoffish.com and see for yourself.. free services for anyone who wishes to feel like tearing his own dick off at the root and thrown in the nearest fire..

Have a look on the forums and be ready for the appalling harridens, the sickening mangina creeps and the ruthless misandry..

As with all free dating sites..

"you get what you pay for!!"