So this is me - Vargas

**Vargas** · 15th-March-2006

Hi!

Glad to have found this Forum and though I usually do not reveal in fora much more, than my name, age and profession, I will also tell you a few private details - given the special nature of this forum

I am from Vienna, Austria, turn 43 on Saturday, work in the media(ads, marketing) for a female boss (and don't mind). Recently I moved to the countryside to "settle" a bit.

I am a father of 5 sons and 2 daughters coming from 5 relationships , two of which were marriages.
In total I was married 3 times and 3 times divorced.(italian, english, polish)

For the last 10 years I am in a happyish relationship, though not married (see, I AM able to learn) and our 2 sons(6 & 8 ) live with us. One daughter (10) of a previous(?) relationship stays with me for about 5 month per year.
2 of my sons(12&14) live in London, England and about 5 years ago their mother decided, without apparent reason, that I shall have no more contact with them.
My first son(16) lives in Vienna and his mother caused hell for me in the last 16 years (including getting me into prison for a total of 9 months) trying to ruin me financially and mentally.
My other daughter (10) lives in Switzerland as a Kuckuckskind(meaning the guy who raises her does not know, that she is not his daugther)

Confused? I am myself too sometimes

So you can see I had my fair share of just about every aspect, that might be discussed here. I know and met a few wonderful, rational females and a great deal of bitches, she-devils and incredibly moronic members of the female species. Sometimes I get a little bitter, but overall I am quite a happy man and try to think more about the positive things

I am a fervent bookcrosser and amongst other things I run a communitysite in my sparetime, organizing Bookcrossing in Austria (http://www.bookcrossing.at ) if you like to know more about this strange hobby visit http://www.bookcrossing.com

How did I find this site? And why on earth is an Austrian in an english forum?
I did some research on feminism, trying to find arguments against what I feel is nonsense and hypocrisy, but could not quite express my thoughts.

Eventually I came across AngryHarry and that led me to this site.
Unfortunately there are not that many or great sites about antifeminism in german and the few center mostly on the father-thing. Most of them miss the core or the root of the evil - feminism in general.
So I had to join an english forum.

I hope to be welcome here and that you won't mind my terrible english too much - I am not a native speaker.

Any more questions? go ahead!

**Marx** · 16th-March-2006

Quote from Vargas

Hi!
Glad to have found this Forum and though I usually do not reveal in fora much more, than my name, age and profession, I will also tell you a few private details - given the special nature of this forum
I am from Vienna, Austria, turn 43 on Saturday, work in the media(ads, marketing) for a female boss (and don't mind). Recently I moved to the countryside to "settle" a bit.

First and foremost, Vargas, welcome & we're glad you happened upon our little community.

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I am a father of 5 sons and 2 daughters coming from 5 relationships , two of which were marriages.
In total I was married 3 times and 3 times divorced.(italian, english, polish)

My my, you have been busy!

Quote from Vargas

For the last 10 years I am in a happyish relationship, though not married (see, I AM able to learn) and our 2 sons(6 & 8 ) live with us. One daughter (10) of a previous(?) relationship stays with me for about 5 month per year.
2 of my sons(12&14) live in London, England and about 5 years ago their mother decided, without apparent reason, that I shall have no more contact with them.
My first son(16) lives in Vienna and his mother caused hell for me in the last 16 years (including getting me into prison for a total of 9 months) trying to ruin me financially and mentally.
My other daughter (10) lives in Switzerland as a Kuckuckskind(meaning the guy who raises her does not know, that she is not his daugther)
Confused? I am myself too sometimes

So you can see I had my fair share of just about every aspect, that might be discussed here. I know and met a few wonderful, rational females and a great deal of bitches, she-devils and incredibly moronic members of the female species. Sometimes I get a little bitter, but overall I am quite a happy man and try to think more about the positive things

I too try and keep positive in mind, but that doesn't mean i don't get dragged down occasionally, whether we're talking dragged down by keeping in bad company (but that's another story) or dragged by the idiocy that is feminism (and the blatant hate,double standards etc that go hand in hand with feminism), i'm guilty of both.

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I am a fervent bookcrosser and amongst other things I run a communitysite in my sparetime, organizing Bookcrossing in Austria (http://www.bookcrossing.at ) if you like to know more about this strange hobby visit http://www.bookcrossing.com

It's good to see you have your own life aside from feminism, my main interests lie within a bit of science and generally anything and everything to do with computers.

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How did I find this site? And why on earth is an Austrian in an english forum?
I did some research on feminism, trying to find arguments against what I feel is nonsense and hypocrisy, but could not quite express my thoughts.
Eventually I came across AngryHarry and that led me to this site.
Unfortunately there are not that many or great sites about antifeminism in german and the few center mostly on the father-thing. Most of them miss the core or the root of the evil - feminism in general.
So I had to join an english forum.

I hope to be welcome here and that you won't mind my terrible english too much - I am not a native speaker.
Any more questions? go ahead!

Any which way you came upon this site, you're welcome here - English or not. This site & forum acquires visitors from around the world; Poland, Germany, New Zealand, Ireland, America, Canada - you name it! As long as we can understand the gist of what you're saying, i'm sure there will be no complaints

Personally, i think it's great that folks from overseas not only come here to view, but to actively participate too!

**balancedhuman** · 17th-March-2006

Hello Vargas,

Welcome!

I'd never heard of Book Crossing before - what a great idea!

**sealion** · 18th-March-2006

welcome to our forum ,vargas
Good to have you on board !!!

**Vargas** · 18th-March-2006

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Hi!....

...turn 43 on Saturday....

Now - didn't you notice...

Awwww, men are sooo insensitive!

:lol: :lol: :lol:

**Marx** · 19th-March-2006

Belated Happy B'day, Vargas

[smilie=hi ya!.gif]

**Vargas** · 24th-June-2008

I'm back...

Glad to see the forum still in full swing!

More posts to come, once I viewed more of the recent threads

**Incognito** · 24th-June-2008

**byslexic_danana** · 24th-June-2008

Made any more babies since the last time???

**Marx** · 24th-June-2008

A warm welcome-back for our foriegn friend... good to see you made it back safely!!! The site has grown a fair old bit since you departed, hope you like the 'new' look.

**Celtic Druid** · 24th-June-2008

Hello Vargas.

**FFFF** · 24th-June-2008

Hehe! bugger me gently!!

**Vargas** · 24th-June-2008

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Made any more babies since the last time???

Nope

but I will marry again (in August) - no kidding!

**julie** · 24th-June-2008

I really am speechless.

But I guess I should introduce myself as the worst female here.

There was another but she got banned. So far, I am still here.

You have not offended me in anyway BTW. I am just trying to see both sides.
I look forward to your contributions. And discussion because I really like to read what other people see.