Just saying hi

**Rosequartz** · 20th-February-2012

Hello everyone,

So happy I've found this site.

I, as a woman am sick of feminism, misandry, "women" blaming "the patriarchy", that terrible tone of voice, the horrid language they use, the obvious misery taken out on happy women. I cannot think of the word "feminist" without feeling a slight kick in the gut. I shudder everytime I see the word "radical feminist". Nothing sane, sober, reasonable, nice, fair, whatsoever comes to mind.

I don't think foul language makes anyone look strong and smart. I don't think speaking like sailors in the pub empowers anyone, it just shows insecurity and how wrecked your nerves are. How you need to seek help, instead of being an online danger and poisoning impressionable people's minds, just to drag them down into the mud, where you are. Referring to lovemaking with the F word all the time won't suggest to any reasonable person that all sex is rape, just because you are so repellent that no one wants to touch you whatsoever. Attacking happy women who loves being in their skin reveals your misery to the trained eye. Faking sorrow for anyone who's less bitter, more easygoing, has a better life as a true woman makes you pathetic. Enough said. I hope to find people here who feel the same way as I.

My heart goes out for anyone who has to deal with real life feminists. I don't I just bump into them online and they make me sick all the time. Sick and sad, and everytime read them I hope men don't think all women are secretly something like them.

PS: IMHO, feminism does not have to do a thing with real, happy women. And disliking "feminists" *shudder* does not equal gynophobia.

I don't want any feminist to represent me, speak for me, patronize me. My happiness is not dumbness or ignorance as they ASSume. My happiness is real, jealous or not, happy women aren't dumb or inexpert in men yet. They are HAPPY. So no, do not speak for me, Any Feminist, I don't need you. I need you to go away and fix your life instead of trying to fixes lives of those who made better choices than you and took responsibility for their own missteps.

Have a good one, everyone!

**Marx** · 20th-February-2012

Hi

**Rosequartz** · 20th-February-2012

Hi Marx

Whew, it sure feels good to have this all off my chest!

**Marx** · 20th-February-2012

A lady of many words

**Rosequartz** · 20th-February-2012

Ha

Not always. I'd been through some very bad quarrels in the past few months before I've found this place. Some experiences left me breathless, they were just unspeakable - so I left them out : ) Let's just say after a while they made me google: anti misandry and feel the urge to register here and have my say.

**Trauma Fried Brains** · 20th-February-2012

Quote from Rosequartz

Whew, it sure feels good to have this all off my chest!

It sure feels good to have read it.

People like you, women, voicing opinions like yours (keep voicing them please), will I believe lead increasing numbers of women and men to denounce the prejudice of feminism that’s destroying what little harmony we have in society.

Hope to read more of your posts; and welcome.

**Percy** · 20th-February-2012

Welcome, m'dear.

You are quite right about the foul language aspect, so please excuse the fact that I am a bloke who occasionally sprinkles his remarks with a few choice crudities. Not all that friggin' often, mind you. That would be shyte, frankly amd I would feel a right arse.

**Marx** · 20th-February-2012

Quote from Percy

... I am a bloke who occasionally sprinkles his remarks with a few choice crudities. Not all that friggin' often, mind you. That would be shyte, frankly amd I would feel a right arse.

Bollocks!

**Rosequartz** · 20th-February-2012

Thank you everybody for taking the time and reading my half intro-half rant : ) (rantro?)
Percy, I won't be judging you. I don't say "kittenz are cuuuuuute" when I stub my toe, believe me. I was just tired of reading nothing but **** ****ety **** **** **** all the time when radical feminists were "reasoning" and voicing their oh-pee-nionz to me. And, **** referring to lovemaking or sex, s*** referring to mantalk, and any mental "runs" teh ebil menz gave em.
<3 to you all.

Edited... had no coffee before I posted this

**Percy** · 20th-February-2012

Yes, occasionally I adjust them too. But discreetly.

**Douglas** · 20th-February-2012

Hello, Rosequartz, and welcome. It is often said that if women don't like feminism, they need to speak up and let it be known.

Well done for doing just that!