Hi yall Brad here I am new this forum
I've been sick of feminism since the bleedin 1980's it has wrecked my relationships -to the point where I dont even bother go out with women any more. I find most women now have absorbed this garbage to some degree. It has wrecked my career (long story)and I hold it responsible for the suicide of 4work colleaues and 2 cousins- men of my generation who could take no more. I still find I have to even stifle my angry responses to feminazi smears and misandrist drivel to keep the peace- at work and even among relatives!Why are some men still unaware and look blank when I mention these things?Anyway.

I would like to use this forum to say a massive thankyou to ANGRYHARRY you are therapy mate! Your magnificent website has kept me sane with your humour and well argued articles! 8)

Indeed, i too have found that i am 'required' to be moderated in my feelings & thoughts on feminism. I don't htink i'm too over the top anyway, but currently society is blind and is not ready for the truth. However, on a positive note, it is coming to light - the more we talk - the more people listen.
I guess, the main point really is to wait for something that might be considered an opportunity to voice an opinion.
I said in a previous thread about seeing a magazine frontpage which read alike to: "Poor Katie, Tom wants custody of her baby." Having read the headline out loud, i then said - equally outloud - "Gee, he wants custody of heeeer baby.. Damn, it's a good job it isn't his baby too!!! There were a couple of rolled eyes going around, but the point is someone who overheard me- finally - hears it from a man's perspective, whereas usually we're too intimidated by these 'strong, independant, women' (cough*bollocks*cough). Now, i don't really care who hears the reality that this baby IS also Tom's - not just Kates.

Yep! good point Karl
Re modifying our responses to feminist diatribes.This is something men ought to study. I read that feminists employed a tactic called "verbal karate". A barage of rapid accusations,slyly wrapped in a way to make you look like a bully if you disagree. remember though we too can use verbal karate to make a point. However we dont go by feelings and tend to argue reason and proof -those things dont matter to feminists anyway.

It might be good to have a few premeditated responses. one liners, short sharp shocks, at the ready.

These days though I dont waste time talking to feminist types.
A real way of fighting back....taking the moral high ground...show them as violent liars abusive etc....
What some enterprising MRAs should do is make an anti feminist comedy DVD and sell it on the net HUMOUR is a very subversive thing.
Cheers great web site!!

Hi again, Brad.

There are a few clips floating around, Ali G, for example, did a great scene where he interviewed the head of women's department at some toffy university in England. About 2 mins, if that, into his mock interview, he made comment that he wouldnt' get into an aeroplane piloted by a women. The woman's face was stuck between a patronizing smile and the drooping jaw of horror & disgust. She asked if he'd get in a car with a woman driving too. "No" was his response. It was brilliantly composed.

Anyway, I have a page with a series of humour clips and many images all of which have been five-fingered off the net from various sources.

The clips begin here but one of my favourites is this one...
*note: These clips may take a while on dialup... be patient.

Hi Brad, and welcome.

I'm sure many of us would be interested to hear your story about how feminism wrecked your career?

Hi Expat !
I am one of many. It really is a long story.I have condensed it. False allegations, lies injustice in the work place one rule for women one for men. I found I did more work they spent their time gosipping.When you do more work you get more pressure and I found that they were very adept at avoiding dirty jobs and where heavy lifting was required equallity disappeared.Yet I have endured tedious seminars on equality and diversity and blah blah. Feminism has infested everything,education business,arts,even science.
I had to leave this office where I was the only bloke. I was sexually harrassed by three of them. Another job came I was doing great getting ahead getting many bookings and a female manager "felt"
that more women were needed, I was sidelined. There are hardly any men left where I work now it is 95% women top to bottom.
I 'm getting by on scraps. For legal reasons I cant say any more.I hope that this nonsense is brought to an end soon.I am thinking there must be a way/ways men could work outside the state and officialdom and go their own way.Any thoughts?

People who can't accept responsibility for their own actions or downfalls often blame the weakest link, in this case...feminism. Feminism has not caused the suicide of people close to you and colleagues. If you were a woman saying men had caused suicide you would be asked to back that up with a study.

PROVE TO ME FEMINISM CAUSES SUICIDE?

Good day.

P.S no hositility intended, I apologise if it has been taken this way.

You need to prove to us -feminism does not cause suicides. It causes HUNDREDS of other problems too.Prove to us it does not cause: divorce,destruction of mens jobs,rampant consumerism,violence,division,
hostility between men and women...there is more could be added
but if you are serious about research thats plenty for now.

Many of us here have provided proof for our position
on feminist web sites to be met with nothing but the usual diatribe of abuse which is proof in itself of a position taken that deep down they know is false. I have yet to meet a feminist who provides PROOF for anything.
Most feminists I have discussed anything with never give reasons and ridicule research or anything that goes against their own views. Some feminists told me that proof is a typical mens thing. I hold feminism responsible for the suicides of fellow students,colleagues,relatives and friends. I have all the proof I need. You could find it if you are willing to carry out objective research.Some of the most
anti - feminist people I have met were former feminists because after OBJECTIVE RESEARCH they realised they had been duped by false statistics and historical errors.

Feminists I have met and been taught by NEVER supply proof for their arguments.
Feminism is an attitude that becomes addictive becuase it is similar to nazism based on a religious like worship - of women and a denigration and demonisation of men with masses of subjective theorising, so much so that they believe their own propaganda.Himmler died believing the lies of Hitler,so to feminists never change their mind on anything. Feminism is the government's -Big Brothers spoilt little daughter. Find proof against feminism do research of your own.I once believed in feminism as a good thing because I thought it was about equality,but it was proved to me time and time again that it is a hate movement! By their own words. It is in trouble from within and from all sides and is discredited it will be over soon anyway, read some anti feminist literature for a vast output of proof, you will find plenty of suggestions for good books here on this site...
Best Wishes
Brad
I hope you find happiness and peace!

Once again, a man using his personal experiences as a reason to blame feminism. The truth is we can't porve or disprove whether feminists cause suicide. Something which you must begin to understand, is you can't preach objectivity when your reason's for being an A-F are based on personal experiences.

It goes like this, I have never directly suffered severe consequences of a male dominated society. I have come into contact with bias, discrimination and oppression, but I have always broke the barriers that needed to be broken. I have never been raped, abused, assaulted because of my gender, I have yet to feel the wrath of the pay gap and discrimination in work because I am a Woman, I have yet to divorce my husband because he doesn't do enougn housework, I have yet to have problems with men because he or I am hostile. I am a Feminist because sisterhood is being destroyed by anti feminist men and women. It is that simple. It took me a while to realise why I was a Feminist but it has become to clear. Brad, you are an anti-feminist because you can't handle the tragedies reality brings. Maybe for once, work towards something good, rather than against something bad.

SOME THINGS TO PONDER:

"Many men learn to overvalue independence and self-control during childhood. They're taught that it's unmanly to express pain, weakness, uncertainty, helplessness and sadness. They tend to see illness — especially emotional illness — as a threat to their masculinity. So they deny or hide their problems until an intimate partner's insistence or a catastrophic event, such as job loss or arrest, forces them to seek medical attention."

MAYBE SUICIDE IN MEN IS ACTUALLY CAUSED BY THE DEMANDS OF THE PATRICARCHAL SOCIETY? SURELY FEMINISM CAN PUT THIS DEPRESSION IN MEN TO AN END? MEN ARE SOCILAISED TO BE MASCULINE AND STONG, THEREFORE THEY DON'T OFTEN SEEK HELP BECAUSE THEY CAN TAKE IT LIKE A MAN. THIS IS SOMETHING YOUR FELLOW MEN HAVE CREATED...NOT WOMEN.

The difference, he theorized, lies in how men and women form social bonds. Men make friends with whom they can hang out, and women make friends with whom they can share their feelings. "Women are socialized to have more friends, deeper friendships, and so on. Men are socialized differently, to be macho, and do not have much deeper friendships. So when a divorce occurs, women have more of a social support network."

A NEW STUDY HAS SHOWN THAT MEN ARE 2 AND A HALF TIMES MORE LIKELY TO COMMIT SUICIDE AFTER A DIVORCE. BUT THE REASONS INDICTAE TO ME THAT ONCE AGAIN IT LIES WITH THE EXPECTATIONS OF MEN, SOMETHING AGAIN WHICH MEN CREATE THEMSELVES VIA SOCIALISATION. IM NOT AS NARROW MINDED TO BELIEVE THAT THESE ARE THE ONLY REASON'S BUT IT IS A POINT TO CONSIDER.

In my eyes, the most important problem that needs to be address is socialisation. The hostility bewteen gender surely begins and ends here.
I'm not asking anyone to jump on any Feminist bandwagon, but for Men to accept that Feminism in most cases works for the better. Feminism isn't the problem but this new breed of strong independant women, and thats a whole other issue.

A real scientist seeking the truth questions everything even
long held beliefs. It would not be about going out to win arguments it would be about finding out the truth.
For the record I dont call myself antifeminist.
I believe feminism is mistaken in its claims so I disagree with their philosophy.I have met many,some are very troubled people some very vindictive.I have only heard contempt for men from them.

Feminism is directly responsible as a state sponsored hate movement.
A war against ordinary men - in every area of their lives you have already said you wont pay any attention to proof anyway.If we gave you the evidence (there is lots of it) you would dismiss it. Thats ok.
Mothers with sons who killed themselves - know and now understand.
Many of them would respond like you until it happened to them.The state & media share some blame because by isolating and alienating young men with subtle and evil propaganda and discrimination, they are piling on the pressure. Common sense alone tells you that the epidemic which
increased from the sixties onwards has to be to do with social conditions.
Family law strips men of everything suppose you lost your home,were treated like the above what would you do?

I have studied the statistics.asked psychologists, clergy,some of these were women too.
there are other factors - but feminism causes it through evil social policy.
False allegations, a young man falsely accused of rape kills himself.
Valerie Solanas a feminist still quoted in womens studies hoped for this.
She got her wish.
I have heard all your arguments hundreds of times before they were official policy at uni and college.Blame patriarchy was all I ever heard from feminist lecturers.Get in touch with your feminine side I have been told.

Feminism is I understand at some level important - it gives you a sense of power because it seems fiesty-challenging.This is an illusion because we're now entering a time when mens chivalry runs out.Up till now without realising that is why feminism has won so much.

You use that phrase which I have heard hundreds of times esp via the media non stop - about "strong and independent women" but this proclaims insecurity nothing else. It is a dead giveaway.
This is now played to death, hackneyed - of course its good to be strong.
But indpendent people dont run around saying I am independent. They dont feel the need.They are too busy creating.

That is the real reason why you wont give it up. Nazis,communists,all these movements used the language of strength and power - illusory power.It feels good but so does coke and when disaster strikes eathquake or other disasters,will feminists come to save you.Who will?
The root of feminism is spite and pure evil.It is wrapped in the veneer of
what seems just but does the opposite.
My advice leave feminsm as the dead end it is because they
face reaping the harvest of dissension they sowed.

It's peculiar that a feminist would make this statement, when feminism has blamed everything wrong in today's world - on men. On the rare occasion where studies have been used, they've forgotten to include other pertinent data, thereby skewing the results in their favour...effectively, lying.
So, judging by your above statement - that makes feminism (and followers of) the kind of people who can't accept responsibility for their own actions or downfalls... nice one