I am a married women and mother of a daughter. With a best friend/brother about stand trial and rot in prison for the vindictive motives of a dejected obsessive female he dated. I found the page by googling "recant rape testimony" and also "false accusations". Trying to find some hope for him before the trial starts. I'm usually ashamed on behalf of my gender.

Hi there. Please don't be ashamed of your gender.

I let a woman down before who needed help with something like this. I won't do it a second time.

I am not sure how to help you but as my new intention is to help men in this position, I will be getting assistance from the best for the cases.

In New Zealand, the men say our prisons are busting at the seams with men on false rape charges. Most men are not prepared for something like this.

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These are the people I will be asking to speak to our lobby group and directing us regarding politics and changing the law.

Maybe you can ask them what to do as well as get feedback from here.

http://www.peterellis.org.nz/

And you can ask them if they know others where you are. These people are world known.

BTW, where in the world are you?

"false rape" charges are but one of the eggs of feminitism

feminits love to see men peering out from behind bars especially those that have been incarcerated by her malicious lies

Welcome aboard, shiloematic. There's no need to feel shame for your gender, just I don't feel any shame for my gender (despite the feminist efforts to shame all men for the wrongs of a few).

You'd need to drop into the chit-chat zone of the forum and make a well-detailed post if you seek assistance.

welcome

Welcome shiloematic!
Your brother is a victim of a culture and system that has been virulently growing since the 60s some would say longer back than that..
It is sinister and it must have support from high up to function. proves that the leaders of the west are corrupted liars and self serving murderers.

It is utter evil that good and innocent men go to jail for NOTHING other than slander and lies.

The feminists well one of them actually said men put in prison from false allegations "could learn from the experience..."

Yes we are not a hate site you have nothing to be ashamed of. Tell other women how evil feminism is. When women learn surely they will reject it totally as nazism and communism is rejected by any sane person today.

Shame.

Its a tough one.

Welcome, by the way. Stay and talk with us; learn; get moral support and ideas. That is what we try to do here. Put your views with integrity.

You are ashamed of your gender, you say. And several jump to say don't be. Feminists have been piling shame onto men for two generations; some can count back four generations. It was undeserved shame, calamnous and slanderous, and shame on them for doing that. But they were successful.

They turned that undeserved shame into laws and policies which have resulted in your brother being treated worse than a leper.

But it wasn't just feminists, the uber ones, the feminazis that did that. They have had generations of support from the everyday women in the street and I do not agree with my friends here that women as a gender have nothing to be ashamed of. They have.

Women in general have been complicit and supportive, demanding and critical of men in general without any reasonable cause. In fact the opposite. It has been in the face of men's generosity and tolerance, suport, defence and provision which has now come to an end. Hence my blast.

So, you were not like that. Were you.

You were what, then?

Silent perhaps, as many were and are? An objector to feminists and feminism? Very few women have stood up to be counted amongst women of integrity. And we have a few good women here, on this board and in the MRM. Women are beginning to learn and speak out.

It would be GREAT if you could be counted amongst these women. Then you need not be ashamed.

Should you be ashamed of your gender?

Yes.

Of yourself?

Well, tell us about yourself and what part in this great turmoil you played.

If you are a silent one or a complicit one - expected - you will still get a fair hearing here, because clearly you are angry and hurting, and that's a badge we all wear.

Welcome!

And as Julie said, don't be ashamed of your gender. It wasn't your gender who made those allegations. Don't blame an entire group of people for the actions of one. That's not fair. We're not all capable of such things. You should know that, as you see the wrong in it, don't you? Of course you do. So does most everyone.

Now, where have I heard that before?

Oh, yes. Men said it for several generations, but were shouted down by women.

Even today when fewer that two percent of men are ever violent toward women (while 70% of Liverpool University's women think it is quite OK for a woman to hit a man) and less than one quarter of one percent of men would even think of raping a woman, all men are automatically considered rapists merely by the accusation by a woman.

It isn't the 'one woman' who made the allegations that is at issue. It is the generations of women who have howled male hatred, and the generations of their silent and smiling sisters. It continues today with the Institutionalised misandry.

I have never met a woman who would claim that she would falsely accuse a man of rape. "I would never do such a thing". Yet it happens all the time, even by women one had trusted and loved.

If women's reputation in men's eyes has suffered, it is women who are going to have to step up and take the shame for their gender. The shame is deserved, unlike the shame heaped on men. But we say, 'Don't be ashamed'. Hah!