Woah, wait, how can some woman ban guys from visiting a bar?

**le jacquelope** · 27th-February-2012

How can they do this shit???Laura Maggi Le Cafe: Busty barmaid serves up drinks in skimpy outfits | Mail Online

Sexpresso: Wives ban their husbands from visiting Italian cafe where busty barmaid serves up drinks in skimpy outfits

Bagnolo's mayor has banned her husband from going to the bar
'I have upset the women but that's not my problem,' says Laura Maggi
Attracted so many customers that the mayor is now considering an emergency bylaw to cope with the huge amount of traffic

**outdoors** · 28th-February-2012

Sounds like the "people" person that would be good for business.

**Marx** · 28th-February-2012

Wouldn't feminists insist this was 'abusive behaviour' if a man stopped his wife going to see male-strippers or the like?

**NowHearThis** · 28th-February-2012

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Wouldn't feminists insist this was 'abusive behaviour' if a man stopped his wife going to see male-strippers or the like?

Um, yeah

**Marx** · 28th-February-2012

It seems the feminists unknowingly agree with me that this is abusive and controlling behaviours by the woman.

Does a man stopping his wife going to a male-strip club come under abuse? - Yahoo! Answers

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Does a man stopping his wife going to a male-strip club come under abuse?
If a woman went with friends to a club where male-stripping occurs, would it be classed as abusive/controlling behaviour if her husband stopped her going out with her friends?

And should such a man be ashamed of his behaviour (controlling/abuse)?

Quote from sarah

It is absolutely abusive for an adult to prohibit another adult from going anywhere. She's a grown woman, she can go where she pleases.
That being said, he also has the right to refuse to be with a woman who does not embody his marital values. He can't stop her from leaving, but he can leave her.

Quote from firecoal

Depends.

I think it's harmless to go to a strip club, but if she hates him going to one, and then she goes to one, it's a little hippocrtical.

I wouldn't call it abuse, but I would call it childish and controlling.

If thats the case then i was in a REALLY abusive relationship. No it's not abuse, but if she wants to go despite knowing you would be upset by it, then that doesn't sound like a woman you should be with. Certain things, yes, its abusive, but something as understandable as a strip club, no. Why would my girlfriend want me to spend time with very attractive naked ladies??

controlling yes. respect and love the wife for the women she is. the wife would not have mention where she was going if she didn't love and trust you as her mate. don't read anything into where she is going because when she get home all she will want is you.(night cap)