Top 10 Ways To Woo Your Lady Love

**Dylan MacVillain** · 19th-May-2009

I still don't understand the concept of "equality" between the sexes. After 50 years of feminism, women still want to be lead by men. I don't mind being the leader. It's just that I don't want to be told simultaneously that men are supposed to be the leaders and that men and women are equal. That doesn't make sense to me.

Top 10 Ways To Woo a Lady
#1, be unpredictable.

...LEAD, DON’T FOLLOW
Many guys, while interacting with a woman, give her all their power. While planning an evening out, he’ll ask her what she wants to do. If she suggests a movie, he’ll give her a list of movies to choose from and so on. Not good. Women like men who take decisions and take the lead. Your tone should be something like this: “Hey I’m going to see XYZ movie, at 8 tonight. Wanna tag along?” ...

**Tyrael** · 19th-May-2009

Women like men who take decisions and take the lead. Your tone should be something like this: “Hey I’m going to see XYZ movie, at 8 tonight. Wanna tag along?” ...

Yep, all that unnatural social engineering doesn't last in the end.

**Celtic Druid** · 19th-May-2009

DO THE ‘PUSH-PULL’

While walking on the street, have her walk on the inside to protect her from the traffic; but tease her about how she’s delicate.

Right, so men are somehow impervious to tons of metal hitting them?

Or is it more so - an example of the disposability of men?

**Percy** · 19th-May-2009

Your tone should be something like this: “Hey I’m going to see XYZ movie, at 8 tonight. Wanna tag along?” ...

This, to the woman you love? Gordon Bennett.

If a woman said that to her 'boyfriend' how would he take it. I wonder.

In Oz, in some sections of 'society' a man saying that would be called 'a smooth-talking bastard'. Derisory of course.

(The Oz pick-up line - "Hey Sheila, fancy a shag?" "NO !!!". "Well can ya lie still while I have one?")

**rohara** · 19th-May-2009

These stupid dating rules get me every time. It's like you cant be yourself you have to be a jerk. I am so sick and tired of reading that kind of thing and it realy is a big turnoff for me.

**Feckless** · 19th-May-2009

Well everyone is different. It is fascinating when stereotypes seem to be true for some. We had a "you decide what we do today and I decide what we do on a another day". It turns out she didn´t know what to do (after minutes of silence I switched on the TV and we watched "The pursuit of happyness" together)