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.I have had various illnesses but seldom go to the doctor

Same with me. But it's also the attitude of these doctors. They make me feel like they're saying to themselves: What on earth are you doing here, you're not a woman. Go back to work.

That photo was utterly horrific,the total callous idifference to mens injuries and by other men too.This actually shows how isolated men often are when they are in suffering.This lack of senstivity to suffering men must surely be via the media, deliberately so that the governments can easily send men off to kill eachother.We are immersed in violent imagery. Men killing men and now "equality" women killing and maiming men in the movies as sport humour entertainment.This is the end of civilisation.

Women get together and support eachother in cancer charities etc.They would NEVER make fun of a sisters suffering NEVER.

Fidelbogen and Harry
Here is something that was recalled by a feminist wife at a dinner party I was at about 12 years ago.
She described how she and a group of "friends" visited a bloke they knew in hospital. I forget his illness but a side effect was impotence.She laughingly told us how:

By his bedside they made jokes and double entendres about this as he lay in hospital

I WAS ABSOLUTELY SHOCKED TO THE CORE..
This woman is unfortunately a friend of a friend.I feel sick in her presence.
I was utterly furious and that is not the first time I have witnessed this callous and evil attitude.
There is a total insensitivity and indifference to mens sufferings-of any kind.Tell a joke about womens parking abilities and there are some who would thump you.The media and mass propaganda have ensured that mens sufferings are viewed as hilarious.Sexual problems of men are a rich source of ridicule.
Harry maybe you have some thoughts on how to respond in these situations?Let me say that I suppress a very volatile temper the urge to throw the table over and go ballsitic was very fierce- I did restrain it.I always do. The ferocity of anger is so strong that you have to hold it back or end up in jail or something.We can no longer stoically put up with it.I find gradually I am speaking out more and in a controlled way.But I am totally heartily sick of this.Perhaps shock tactics of some kind to waken people from their callous myopic mindset?

Thank goodness I'm not the only one who doesn't know what to say Brad.

I'm afraid I'm going to put my foot in it someday because the anger gets so much sometimes.

Trouble is however right we are we stand a chance coming out looking like a total bufoon.

This is a very real problem for me knight errant and other men.You are certainly not alone.It is a safety mechanism- restraint and that is a good thing.I have thought of leaving any conversation that goes this way with a preprinted card with a message:

" Misandry is Evil www.antimisandry.com and or www.angryharry.com - the hidden hate wake up call"

that left on a table and then calmly excuse yourself and walk out.I have thought long and hard about this its not much.However I welcome any other suggestions of how to deal with this socially.

It does leave me frustrated, and then the anger turns inward to depression.In the past I went on real blitzers drinking to excess but that solved nothing.
Verbal skills ?I am not as adept with these as others.When I have on rare occassion I have lost it and roared disapproval .I have ended up being ridiculed even more and demonised as the guilty party.
The torture today I find this anyway it is like feminist ideology is
a cloud of mosquitoes whining in your ear non stop and it cant be switched off and you cant reply and its a one way uninteruppted diatribe.
Hell on earth.

It does leave me frustrated, and then the anger turns inward to depression.In the past I went on real blitzers drinking to excess but that solved nothing.
Verbal skills ?I am not as adept with these as others.When I have on rare occassion I have lost it and roared disapproval .I have ended up being ridiculed even more and demonised as the guilty party.
The torture today I find this anyway it is like feminist ideology is
a cloud of mosquitoes whining in your ear non stop and it cant be switched off and you cant reply and its a one way uninteruppted diatribe.
Hell on earth.

Poetry, Brad! Respect!!

Dylan Thomas defined marriage as 'legalised monogamous prostitution' but he went on to write some of the most beautiful prose in the English language before he drank himself to death.
Gauguin fled to take up a new life as an artist in a tropical paradise.

While you might seem to cry in despair, you ask a valuable question. Why serve a society that cares sh*t for us? It's an important message!

Aha ta Yan Yan
many times I have thought of doing a Gaugin!
Not a great role model for any man.However
these days question where to go to.
Somewhere remote,preferably warm good fishin and huntin....Did you ever read Robinson Crusoe great book about survival.

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Aha ta Yan Yan
many times I have thought of doing a Gaugin!
Not a great role model for any man.However
these days question where to go to.
Somewhere remote,preferably warm good fishin and huntin....Did you ever read Robinson Crusoe great book about survival.

Just needs good health and a stout heart. Oh, I forgot, and a credit card!

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Just needs good health and a stout heart. Oh, I forgot, and a credit card!

That's me out the game on all three counts

Karl you have highly marketable skills.Does or has feminism impacted your career prospects? It definitely has damaged mine.

I wonder if you could turn the antimisandry ship into a career? Sell books etc.Think on it!
The internet in general, rife with possibilites to earn a crust away from nanny interfering state and misandrist central -media.

This could be part of our bloodless revolution.Take and make our work outside of their stifling influence.

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However I welcome any other suggestions of how to deal with this socially.

As a general pointer, I would say this: Ice is better than fire.

I would also say, that every time you hear a little snippet of male-bashing,
you should IMMEDIATELY pop up with a little snippet of equal but opposite
female-bashing. Of course they won't like it, BUT....the rationale for it will
be right at hand, easily explained.

Brad, I have a lot of ideas about this but they are hard to explain in the
abstract mode. If you can recollect some actual dialogues from your experience and write them here, maybe I can put on my thinking cap and
have a go at what I might have personally said in such a situation.

The wheels are turning in my brain already....

Well, a couple of extra comments here to intmidate him might help, ...

http://manhatred.blogspot.com/

It doesn't take much work!

Ahhhh....so THAT's how it's done!

Start an "attack blog" against the offending person or thing of choice. Tell
the whole world about this, and also make sure the target knows about it!

Then feed the fire and make it grow as big as you can!

Fiendishly clever indeed!

Start an "attack blog" against the offending person or thing of choice. Tell the whole world about this, and also make sure the target knows about it!

Almost right Fidelbogen.

But not quite right.

You do not tell the whole world. You just tell those people who are likely to be very wound up by what is happening and who would, therefore, strongly support your case.

The more powerful those people; the better.

You bring ***their** forces into the equations.

Fidelbogen re examples where to start?I have lost count of the ofensive hatefilled abuse I have received,endured, absorbed -without retaliation.

The most recent was a joke "When god made man she was only joking"
for the twenty billionth time.YAWN it was an old woman she was taken aback by my response the barmaid looked blank she had laughingly
approved

I raised my fist in the air and said"I have heard that A Million TIMES ...but men will be back."
Typical examples below
.....Men are stupid.....this frequently in the middle of numerous sentences
with examples given of husbands boyfriends mistakes or forgetfulness.As below:
.....Men are scum.....
.....Men are pigs.....
......Men are useless......
also: ....men think only of themselves...You know the drill.
Women who dont do this are a minority now.

Typical men....Believe me I am tempted to reply with greater viciousness for me trying to be GOOD man and not say something really horrible back requires maaaaaasssive self control.

For other more detailed examples
I will keep you posted Fidelbogen hold that thought.If you can supply ideas most grateful I spend my life thinking "shoulda said.."

Maybe I am clumsier than most men but I notice I get a fair bit of ridicule from young women in shops, bars etc.If I make the mistake of going to the wrong till for example .They manage to extract an excuse to ridicule from such banal trivial things.I am used to it and ignore it because such things are not worth dealing with.

What all these innumerable insults( 25 f***ing years of them) do to me is alienate me from women more and more and make female company something to be avoided.I stress theres no hate.It just makes sense to stay away from women for so many reasons now.