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    Why I dislike Fathers 4 Justice

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    I've never had much time for Fathers 4 Justice, the 'fathers' rights' group' that likes to compare its behaviour to the suffragettes. Reading this account of how they made a nuisance of themselves at the weekend by clambering (dressed as superheroes) onto the roof of Harriet Harman's home in South London, I thought yet again what a bunch of prats they are. I almost - note, almost - felt sorry for Harriet Harman, forced out of her home by these clowns.

    The group claims that fathers are being made redundant emotionally in the courts, and biologically in the new Human Fertilisation and Embryology Bill, which will remove the need for single women seeking artificial insemination to provide evidence of a father figure for their child. The truth is somewhat different - only in about one in a hundred cases of divorce do the courts bar fathers from any access to their children, and then usually for valid reasons like a history of domestic violence.

    More often, it is divorced fathers who lose interest in children from first marriages and fail to make welfare payments. It seems to have escaped the leaders of Fathers 4 Justice that if they want to play a hands-on role in their children's lives, they might want to consider dropping their lunatic - and rather frightening - behaviour. Any woman unfortunate enough to have made the mistake of shacking up with one of these idiots, however briefly, has my sympathy. They're not just poor marriage material, an embarrassment as the father of your child and a mistake most of us would rather forget - they belong in jail.

    This is not to ignore that there are plenty of excellent fathers around, who do a good job of parenting their kids (though it really annoys me how people talk about how certain men are 'great fathers' - while no-one ever says the same of a mother, women's work in the home being largely invisible and unpraised).

    But as for the single women who've decided to bypass more conventional arrangements and use donor sperm in their quest for a child, well, you can hardly blame them for giving up on the opposite sex when there are men like the 'superheroes' of Fathers 4 Justice around. I wouldn't let one of them anywhere near a child of mine.
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    More often, it is divorced fathers who lose interest in children from first marriages and fail to make welfare payments.
    As well as the whole turkey baster point- No doubt.

    Someone explain to me how EITHER are pertinent to the apparent goals F4J?
    I read the plaint,
    NOW, shut the fuck up on the subject Motheratlarge (where ever you are)

    How do you happen to find this stuff Frosty?


     
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    I wouldn't let one of them anywhere near a child of mine.
    They don't want to be near your manky offspring you finger-diddling wankerette. They want to be near their own, but vicious, dismissive crotches like you won't let them.



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    Re: Why I dislike Fathers 4 Justice

    I have a great deal of respect for Fathers 4 Justice, as they are actually doing something to draw attention to the terrible situation that they are in !!!

    Well done !!!


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    Yea verily. Rob.

    And it will come to pass that they will stand astride bridges and the throngs will marvel. The traffic will honk mightily. The Word of the Father will resound throughout the lands. (Matt. (O'Connor) 3. 11. Handbook of F4J)



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    But there are 6 billion other buggers out there messing it up.
    I am outnumbered.
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    Re: Why I dislike Fathers 4 Justice

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    What exactly is 'frightening' about a guy sitting on a crane, bridge, etc. with a banner? They're not violent, they're not throwing things at passers-by, they're just showing they're sick of being treated as walking wallets by the feminist government.
    And that is 'frightening'?
    Let me share with you what *I* find frightening. It is a very scarey prospect to know that one day your life can be full of love, seeing your kids daily, being a healthy & active part of their lives, and the next - cast out with a false allegation of some abuses or another, and she can thus force you out of your child's lives, and the ONLY thing she wants is money while she (not necessarily the court) refuses to let you see your own flesh and blood.<br/>You should put yourself in that position and then you'll understand the definition of fear.
    Men live in fear of women's scorn and women do not care, so long as they retain their death-grip over the money coming in.
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    That's what I wrote on their page.



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    F4J are heroes!!!

    They have the guts to say something and take action


     
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    The F4J stunts serve no purpose, I know because I use to do the same thing until I learned, 1) The attention is temporary 2) It changes NOTHING.

    The internet is full of web sites with endless elaborating of Men's problems, this again changes NOTHING.

    The only way to change things is a Large Scale "Civil Disobedience" by Men and Father's Rights groups and it has to start now because of the elections.

    Civil disobedience is the active refusal to obey certain laws, demands and commands of a government, without resorting to physical violence. It is one of the primary tactics of nonviolent resistance. In its most nonviolent form (known as ahimsa or satyagraha) it could be said that it is compassion in the form of respectful disagreement.

    It has been used for over 100 years with great success.

    Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr, and young activists in the American civil rights movement of the 1960s also adopted civil disobedience techniques, and antiwar activists both during and after the Vietnam War have done likewise. Since the 1970s, pro-life or anti-abortion groups have practiced civil disobedience against the U.S. government over the issue of legalized abortion.

    I have the plan, but it will take GUTS and 100% commitment until our goal is accomplished. If you have any interest and balls, e-mail me at admin@mensreality.com


     
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    I got a lot of help from Fathers For Juistice, if it wasn't for them, i wouldn't be seeing my daughter!!! (My daughter means the world to me)
    Allthough i wasn't a super hero character i went on protests with them and i felt better for it".

    Allthough F4J did disrupt some peoples lives, this was only short lived compared to what the courts do to seperated parents, doesn't matter if your male or female.I can tell you some terrible things that went on in my court case, but i wasn't the only person suffering!!
    The one thing that annoys me is, what would anybody do to get contact with your kids, would you trust a solicitor, would you trust your instincts".Well i went through four solicitors, all totally useless, i started to represent myself with the help of W.D Willson.
    Recently i saw a article written by a young boy saying he would fight to the bitter end to see his kids.His mother explained why fathers have dressed as super heros, the lad said" he thinks it's good that fathers are doing something that makes people aware of whats going on in the country.
    I have talked to other people, not associated with F4J who are more extremist, so in comparison to what F4J have done, is just make people aware of what is going on in the country.

    I hope that some other organisation starts up, something allong the lines of feminism, i think "FEMINISM IS DESTROYING MANKIND".Extremist Feminism should be outlawed!!!


     
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    Re: Why I dislike Fathers 4 Justice

    Couldn't handle the truth coming back at 'em, perhaps?



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    The F4J stunts serve no purpose, I know because I use to do the same thing until I learned, 1) The attention is temporary 2) It changes NOTHING.

    The internet is full of web sites with endless elaborating of Men's problems, this again changes NOTHING.

    The only way to change things is a Large Scale "Civil Disobedience" by Men and Father's Rights groups and it has to start now because of the elections....
    It is very difficult to change something for men, who are already fathers and have problems.

    Civil Disobedience...? What can be done is easy: Tell every young man not to marry and never be a father...no marriage, no children..

    This problem can be only solved with a long-term program.

    What F4J is doing now helps to get some attention about father's legal situation, but it is not a solution. This F4J group is missing a long-term program, which says NO to marriage/children, it is missing a long-term program for young men, who are not married, who are not a father yet.

    The only solution is: no children - of course reject openly single mothers with children, too...reject any contact, including cohabitation, which could make you to be a father (father = ATM)

    You need not to be a biological father to be forced to pay for children!



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