Quote from KellyMac

Hindsight is 20/20, haute, and it's easy to armchair quarterback. It's just possible she loved him. A lot of people get into relationships with people who have different belief systems than they do. It rarely works out as well as they'd both hoped. But that's another thing people don't take into consideration.



Wait. Are you saying she got into this with the intent of ending it this way? Seriously? That's quite a reach.

I must be a novice too because what haute says makes a lot of sense to me. Regardless of the fact that people get into relationships with people who have different belief systems than they do it doesn't change the fact that marrying a person and having kids with that person without knowing their beliefs is a bad idea.

Since Katie had no way of verifying whether Tom's words were true (it was just his word) it should have been a red flag to her but maybe women enjoy making poor decisions and bringing others (especially kids) into it. If women enjoy screwing their lives up with partners who are no good for them who am I to tell them differently? They're just like the doofuses who make fun of men who avoid marriage but then end up divorced. Oh wait! They are different... she didn't really "screw her life up" now did she? She will likely get the kids, property and probably payments too, won't she?

How certain are you that she and Tom divorced because of their different belief systems?

50% of marriages end in divorce and about 75% of those marriages that end in divorce are initiated by women. What I gather from Yan Yan's post is that she knew in advance, from the very least, that if she desired to divorce him it would work to her advantage.