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'Don't Drop the Soap' Board Game

'Don't Drop the Soap' Board Game Mocks Male Victims of Violence
American Chronicle - Beverly Hills,CA,USA

A letter from Tim Murray, a reader:
Dear Glenn:

Here's a board game that's sure to rival "Monopoly" in popularity and please everyone: Don't Drop the Soap. The goal is to fight your way through various prison hazards to achieve parole, all the while trying to avoid "being cornered" (a code word for "raped") in the prison shower -- hence the hilarious name, "Don't Drop the Soap." It comes with its own Soap Dish Parole card holder. And this delightful game can be yours for just $34.99.

Delightful, because we all know how funny prison rape is.

The prevalence of prison rape is staggering, see this, for example.

The typical victim of an assault is a non-violent young, gay or trans male. For more information, click here.

Imagine the outcry if a board game was released called "Date Rape," and the object was to avoid landing your token on the GHB space. The purveyors of any such game would be barraged with outraged emails. And rightly so. "Date rape" should not be a joking matter. But prison rape -- where young, non-violent, totally defenseless males are subjected to often brutal sexual assaults -- is hilarious, right?



The victims of neither date rape nor prison rape deserve it, so why the double-standard? The only significant difference between the typical victim of the two kinds of rape is gender. In short, prison rape is dismissed as just more male-on-male violence and does not have a prominent place in the feminist sexual assault metanarrative, which has dominated the public discourse on rape for decades.

The game was developed by John Sebelius, 23, the son of Kansas Governor Kathleen Sebelius (mentioned as a possible VP candidate on the Democratic ticket. To find out more, click here.) and a U.S. magistrate judge. They should be very proud of their little boy.

Glenn Sacks, www.GlennSacks.com



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Here are some grants that are offered by the governor's office. Notice the one's related to sexual violence. I think it's time she did something financially to prevent violence against men. She can thank her son for bringing the deficiency to our attention.

Edward J. Byrne Memorial Justice Assistance Grant (JAG)
State Children's Advocacy Centers Grant Program (CAC)
Enhanced 911 State Grant (E911)
Federal Family Violence Prevention and Services Grant (FVPSA)
Federal Sexual Violence Prevention and Education Grant (SVPE)
"To decrease the incidence of first time perpetration of sexual violence against females."
Federal State Access & Visitation Program (SAVP)
Governor's Discretionary Portion of Federal Safe and Drug-Free Schools and Communities Program (SDFSCA)
Federal S.T.O.P. Violence Against Women Grant (S.T.O.P. VAWA)
Federal Victims of Crime Act Victim Assistance Grant (VOCA)
State General Fund Grant Programs for Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault Programs


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Akuus GOOD MAN!!! a pertinent post about a great taboo subject.

I get so angry reading all that...

Its high time prison rapists were punished solitary confinement for a start.
I would lessen the sentence of a victim The horrific thing is what about innocent men in jail what about those who are not hardened crims but maybe gone astray with theft or drugs should these not be kept well away from more serious offenders?

What evil filthy scum are they who make light of HORRIFIC SUFFERING

....when such vile practices are trivialised in a board game...

END OF...................................We cant stand by and let this go on any more. ... I will write



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Well done!



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For lurid details on what it is like being a prison sex victim or slave, click on "this" from my original post:

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The prevalence of prison rape is staggering, see this, for example.



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"Yet prison authorities' claims are belied by independent research on the topic. Indeed, the most recent academic studies of the issue have found shockingly high rates of sexual abuse, including forced oral and anal intercourse. In December 2000, the Prison Journal published a study based on a survey of inmates in seven men's prison facilities in four states. The results showed that 21 percent of the inmates had experienced at least one episode of pressured or forced sexual contact since being incarcerated, and at least 7 percent had been raped in their facility. A 1996 study of the Nebraska prison system produced similar findings, with 22 percent of male inmates reporting that they had been pressured or forced to have sexual contact against their will while incarcerated. Of these, over 50 percent had submitted to forced anal sex at least once. Extrapolating these findings to the national level gives a total of at least 140,000 inmates who have been raped.
An internal departmental survey of corrections officers in a southern state (provided to Human Rights Watch on the condition that the state not be identified) found that line officers -- those charged with the direct supervision of inmates -- estimated that roughly one-fifth of all prisoners were being coerced into participation in inmate-on-inmate sex. Interestingly, higher-ranking officials -- those at the supervisory level -- tended to give lower estimates of the frequency of abuse, while inmates themselves gave much higher estimates: the two groups cited victimization rates of roughly one-eighth and one-third, respectively. Although the author of the survey was careful to note that it was not conducted in accordance with scientific standards, and thus its findings may not be perfectly reliable, the basic conclusions are still striking. Even taking only the lowest of the three estimates of coerced sexual activity -- and even framing that one conservatively -- more than one in ten inmates in the prisons surveyed was subject to sexual abuse.

It is evident that certain prisoners are targeted for sexual assault the moment they enter a penal facility: their age, looks, sexual orientation, and other characteristics mark them as candidates for abuse. Human Rights Watch's research has revealed a broad range of factors that correlate with increased vulnerability to rape. These include youth, small size, and physical weakness; being white, gay, or a first offender; possessing "feminine" characteristics such as long hair or a high voice; being unassertive, unaggressive, shy, intellectual, not street-smart, or "passive"; or having been convicted of a sexual offense against a minor. Prisoners with any one of these characteristics typically face an increased risk of sexual abuse, while prisoners with several overlapping characteristics are much more likely than other inmates to be targeted for abuse. Yet it would be a mistake to think that only a minority of extremely vulnerable individuals face sexual abuse. In the wrong circumstances, it should be emphasized, almost any prisoner may become a victim.

The characteristics of prison rapists are somewhat less clear and predictable, but certain patterns can nonetheless be discerned. First, although some older inmates commit rape, the perpetrators also tend to be young, if not always as young as their victims--generally well under thirty-five years old. They are frequently larger or stronger than their victims, and are generally more assertive, physically aggressive, and more at home in the prison environment. They are "street smart"--often gang members. They have typically been convicted of more violent crimes than their victims.
The reality of sexual abuse in prison is deeply disturbing. Rapes can be almost unimaginably vicious and brutal. Gang assaults are not uncommon, and victims may be left beaten, bloody and, in the most extreme cases, dead. One of the most tragic and violent cases to come to the attention of Human Rights Watch was that of Randy Payne, a twenty-three year old incarcerated in a Texas maximum security prison. Within a week of entering the prison in August 1994, Payne was attacked by a group of some twenty inmates. The inmates demanded sex and money, but Payne refused. He was beaten for almost two hours; guards later said they had not noticed anything until they found his bloody body in the dayroom. He died of head injuries a few days later.

Another Texas inmate, who had deep scars on his head, neck, and chest, told Human Right Watch that the prisoner who inflicted the wounds had raped him eight separate times from July through November 1995. The first time M.R. was raped -- "which felt like having a tree limb shoved up into me" -- he told the prison chaplain about it, and the chaplain had him write out a statement for the facility's Internal Affairs department. According to M.R.'s description of the events, the Internal Affairs investigator brought both the victim and the perpetrator into a room together and asked them what had happened. Although M.R. was terrified to speak of the incident in front of the other inmate, he told his story, while the perpetrator claimed the sex was consensual. After both of them had spoken, the investigator told them that "lovers' quarrels" were not of interest to Internal Affairs, sending them both back to their cells. "The guy shoved me into his house and raped me again," M.R. later told Human Rights Watch. "It was a lot more violent this time."

M.R. spent several months trying to escape the rapist, facing repeated abuse. He filed grievances over the first couple of rapes in an effort to draw the attention of prison officials; they were returned saying the sexual assaults never occurred. On the last day of December, the rapist showed up on M.R.'s wing and threatened to kill M.R. with a combination lock. "I was in the dayroom. I remember eating a piece of cornbread and the next thing I knew I woke up in the hospital," M.R. recalled. A room full of prisoners saw the rapist nearly kill M.R. and then rape him in the middle of the dayroom. The rapist hit M.R. so hard with the lock that when M.R. regained consciousness he could read the word "Master"--the lockmaker--on his forehead. Four years later, a Human Rights Watch researcher could still see the round impression of the lock on the right side of his forehead. In all, M.R. suffered a broken neck, jaw, left collarbone, and finger; a dislocated left shoulder; two major concussions, and lacerations to his scalp that caused bleeding on the brain. Notwithstanding the extreme violence of the attack, and despite M.R.'s best efforts to press charges, the rapist was never criminally prosecuted.

Yet overtly violent rapes are only the most visible and dramatic form of sexual abuse behind bars. Many victims of prison rape have never had a knife to their throat. They may have never been explicitly threatened. But they have nonetheless engaged in sexual acts against their will, believing that they had no choice.

Although Human Rights Watch received many reports of forcible sexual attacks, we also heard numerous accounts of abuse based on more subtle forms of coercion and intimidation. Prisoners, including those who had been forcibly raped, all agree that the threat of violence, or even just the implicit threat of violence, is a more common factor in sexual abuse than is actual violence. As one explained:
  • From my point of view, rape takes place every day. A prisoner that is engaging in sexual acts, not by force, is still a victim of rape because I know that deep inside this prisoner do not want to do the things that he is doing but he thinks that it is the only way that he can survive.
Once subject to sexual abuse, whether violently or through coercion, a prisoner may easily become trapped into a sexually subordinate role. Prisoners refer to the initial rape as "turning out" the victim, and the suggestion of transformation is telling. Through the act of rape, the victim is redefined as an object of sexual abuse. He has been proven to be weak, vulnerable, "female," in the eyes of other inmates. Regaining his "manhood"--and the respect of other prisoners--can be extremely difficult.

Stigmatized as a "punk" or "turn out," the victim of rape will almost inevitably be the target of continuing sexual exploitation, both from the initial perpetrator and, unless the perpetrator "protects" him, from other inmates as well. "Once someone is violated sexually and there is no consequences on the perpetrators, that person who was violated then becomes a mark or marked," an Indiana prisoner told Human Rights Watch. "That means he's fair game." His victimization is likely to be public knowledge, and his reputation will follow him to other housing areas, if he is moved, and even to other prisons. As another inmate explained: "Word travels so Fast in prison. The Convict grape vine is Large. You cant run or hide."

Prisoners unable to escape a situation of sexual abuse may find themselves becoming another inmate's "property." The word is commonly used in prison to refer to sexually subordinate inmates, and it is no exaggeration. Victims of prison rape, in the most extreme cases, are literally the slaves of the perpetrators. Forced to satisfy another man's sexual appetites whenever he demands, they may also be responsible for washing his clothes, massaging his back, cooking his food, cleaning his cell, and myriad other chores. They are frequently "rented out" for sex, sold, or even auctioned off to other inmates, replicating the financial aspects of traditional slavery. Their most basic choices, like how to dress and whom to talk to, may be controlled by the person who "owns" them. Their name may be replaced by a female one. Like all forms of slavery, these situations are among the most degrading and dehumanizing experiences a person can undergo.

J.D., a white inmate in Texas who admits that he "cannot fight real good," told Human Rights Watch that he was violently raped by his cellmate, a heavy, muscular man, in 1993. "From that day on," he said, "I was classified as a homosexual and was sold from one inmate to the next." Although he informed prison staff that he had been raped and was transferred to another part of the prison, the white inmates in his new housing area immediately "sold" him to a black inmate known as Blue Top. Blue Top used J.D. sexually, while also "renting" his sexual services to other black inmates. Besides being forced to perform "all types of sexual acts," J.D. had to defer to Blue Top in every other way. Under Blue Top's dominion, no task was too menial or too degrading for J.D. to perform. After two and a half months of this abuse, J.D. was finally transferred to a safer environment.

Six Texas inmates gave Human Rights Watch firsthand accounts of being forced into this type of sexual slavery, having even been "sold" or "rented" out to other inmates. Numerous other Texas prisoners confirmed that the practice of sexual slavery, including the buying and selling of inmates, is commonplace in the system's more dangerous prison units. Although Texas, judging from the information received by Human Rights Watch, has the worst record in this respect, we also collected personal testimonies from inmates in Illinois, Michigan, California, and Arkansas who have survived situations of sexual slavery.

Rape's effects on the victim's psyche are serious and enduring. Victims of rape often suffer extreme psychological stress, a condition identified as rape trauma syndrome. Many inmate victims with whom Human Rights Watch has been in contact have reported nightmares, deep depression, shame, loss of self-esteem, self-hatred, and considering or attempting suicide. Serious questions arise as to how the trauma of sexual abuse resolves itself when such inmates are released into society. Indeed, some experts believe that the experience of rape threatens to perpetuate a cycle of violence, with the abused inmate in some instances turning violent himself.

Another devastating consequence of prisoner-on-prisoner rape is the transmission of HIV, the virus which causes AIDS. Several prisoners with whom Human Rights Watch is in contact believe that they have contracted HIV through forced sexual intercourse in prison. K.S., a prisoner in Arkansas, was repeatedly raped between January and December 1991 by more than twenty different inmates, one of whom, he believes, transmitted the HIV virus to him. K.S. had tested negative for HIV upon entry to the prison system, but in September 1991 he tested positive."

After reading that, I would have to say that prison rape cannot accurately be compared to "date rape." It is more on par with "white slavery." Yet, the MSM and society look at "date rape" as an unequalled horror and "prison rape" as something that should be the context for jokes, silly songs, and board games.


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What a sick, messed up world we live in when entertainment has become a board game that mocks the seriousness and brutality of prison rape. And this game was created by a man? WTF?


 
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And this game was created by a man? WTF?
A man who has been taught through the media and feminist trivialization of male rape, that male rape is trivial and unworthy of any campaigning. So worthless and trivial is male rape, that a board game can sell for $35USD - oh the hilarity.








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A man who has been taught through the media and feminist trivialization of male rape, that male rape is trivial and unworthy of any campaigning. So worthless and trivial is male rape, that a board game can sell for $35USD - oh the hilarity.
Yes...it's so NOT funny.

I wonder, how should we go about eliminating prison rape? I don't recall seeing a thread about that yet in this forum. What can be done? Surely there is something that can be done to stop this. What are the guards doing? Why are people allowed to get away with this? What is the punishment for men who rape other men in prison? I understand the fear of speaking up if one is a rape victim...it would be fatal, more than likely, to do so. But surely the guards must be instrumental (and should be held responsible for not doing their duty!) What do you think?


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