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    For woman, how to deal with your superiority complex

    Dealing With A Superiority Complex Towards Men
    Sitcoms, talk shows and cinemas. The result is that a good portion of the young girls grow up with a subtle hatred towards “men”, as they are seen as the “oppressors” of women.

    Men are also projected as being dumb, stone hearted, gullible or weak, in many movies and sitcoms, with the intention of appealing to their women audience. A mother who has a “feminist” attitude will inculcate it in her girl child, who in turn will grow up with a feeling of contempt towards guys. Such a girl would usually end up in a “hollow” relationship, where she would be clueless about her role and position.

    Guys detest girls who have “feminist” attitudes in them. Girls who try to “put down” guys usually don’t realize that they are cutting off from their “feminine” side, and being unnatural. The result is that they usually never end with a “proper” guy. The rise of “lesbianism” in America is a good example of what a feminist attitude can do to a girl’s mindset towards men.

    As a girl it’s natural for you to feel the need for a man in your life. Your chances of attracting a “true blue” man increases as you increase your “feminine” vibe. The more feminine you are, the more “manly” your man will be (it’s a natural thing). Here are a few tips to drop “feminist” conditioning, and replace it with more feminine qualities.

    Stop seeing men as “oppressors” of woman kind – Nature instilled men and women with different qualities. Men are designed to be the “dominant” force in a relationship, they are the “keepers” or protectors (you can see the natural order of things in an animal kingdom). Women we endowed qualities that help her be a “nurturer”, a home maker and a mother. So women are wired to be “giving” in nature.

    Men have to be dominant for the relationship to be balanced. In the absence of a dominant male, the woman is usually confused about her roles and responsibilities. Such a household is usually in chaos. The prevalence of “feminist” attitudes have made many men meek and “non dominant”, the result is for everyone to see – more divorces, more hostile kids, more unsatisfactory marriages, more unhappy women and more lonely men. Men are dominant by nature, and a woman is “giving” by nature, that’s the natural order of things.

    Get in touch with your “primitive” urge – We may have evolved into a modern society, but our primitive instincts are present in our genes. Societal conditioning can make these instincts go “dormant”. But these primitive instincts are our “natural” instincts, it’s important that we don’t lose touch with them for the sake of our survival.

    Girls have a primal instinct towards seeking a “protector” and a provider. In modern day society, there may not be a need for the type protection that primitive society demanded, but this instinct can help guide you towards the “right” man. As a girl, it’s natural for you to feel vulnerable (even if you deny it). Only the presence of a strong force of a man can help alleviate this feeling of vulnerability, and make you more complete and secure. So don’t shy away from feeling “vulnerable”, it’s not a weakness but a “primitive” feminine quality endowed by nature to help her search for a “manly” protector.

    Observe your natural reaction to “dominant” men – Whenever you are in the presence of a dominant male, just observe your internal feelings. It’s natural for a girl to feel “submissive” in the presence of such a manly force. And yes, this “submissiveness” makes her feel more feminine. This is what triggers attraction. The more submissive you feel towards a man, the more attracted you will be to him. Girls have no idea why they feel helplessly attracted to certain men, what they don’t realize is that these men trigger “submissiveness” in her.

    So as a girl you “want” to feel submissive; there is nothing wrong with it. It’s most natural. You want to “give in” to a man completely, that’s the primal instinct. Don’t suppress this natural tendency with “feminist” ideas; don’t become arrogant or aggressive towards men in the hope of escaping from your “feminine” feelings.

    Be curious about men – Instead of labeling men are “stone headed”, sex mongers or brutes, try to get an “open” perspective on what men really are. Yes men have high sex drives, yes men can be very pig headed at times, yes men can act like brutes, yes men can come across as being “egoistic” but deep down none of this is really “wrong”. This is what men are, these difference add flavor and spice to a relationship. Just imagine if men became similar to women, how boring would relationships be?

    Instead of despising men for their difference, get curious about them. Try to learn more about men. Find out why they behave the way they behave. Get in tune with their manly vibe, and be open to their approach.

    Be understanding towards men - You will be prize catch, when a man realizes how understanding and tolerant you are towards his behavior. Try to look at a man playfully, instead of being critical. Only a man has the capacity to “complete” a woman, in the way she wants. You can help the man stay “manly” when you are willing to be understanding of his manly ways.

    Be loving to the core – Drop all your critical mannerism, drop your ego and get in touch with the source of feminine love in you. That’s the most beautiful aspect of any woman, her feminine nature of loving, caring and giving. It’s sad to see women try to “block” these qualities for the fear of appearing vulnerable. When you block these natural instincts you just come across as an “artificial” person.

    Indulge in “feminine” hobbies – Girls are naturally good at “organizing” and creative expression. These are qualities of a good home maker. As a girl, you can cultivate an active interest in learning the art of cooking, home decoration and hand crafts. These hobbies will encourage your feminine instincts to flower generously.

    In conclusion, be willing to be open to your feminine nature, be willing to be vulnerable. Be light hearted, vivacious and loving. It’s a man’s job to give you the security, love and sense of well-being that you need, and it’s your job to be the source of unconditional support and love in his life. Before you get the “right” man, you have to be the “right” woman.

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    Re: For woman, how to deal with your superiority complex

    Goodness, that must be a pretty old 'wives handbook' you got that from Nick I can just imagine the reaction of todays man on a woman that looks for a 'keeper' or 'protector'! 'Money-grabbing bitch' would likely be top of the list. And if the woman wanted to be a 'homemaker' she'd be accused of leaving it all to the man, of being lazy (we all know that looking after a home and raising kids is a doddle).

    "....the art of cooking, home decoration and hand crafts. These hobbies will encourage your feminine instincts to flower generously."
    Oh my, I must find that sarcastic post about mens home jobs as being seen as merely 'hobbies' around the house. What were they? Ah, yes... gardening, DIY and something else that was obviously very demeaning to be classed as a hobby to men.

    Instead of labeling men are “stone headed”, sex mongers or brutes, try to get an “open” perspective on what men really are. Yes men have high sex drives, yes men can be very pig headed at times, yes men can act like brutes, yes men can come across as being “egoistic” but deep down none of this is really “wrong”. This is what men are, these difference add flavor and spice to a relationship. Just imagine if men became similar to women, how boring would relationships be?
    You are so right!! That feeling I used to get when he was threatening what he'd do to me if I were a man was 'spice'!! Foolish woman that I am, I mistook it for fear. Thank you SO much for putting me right. I really ought to think seriously about dumping the guy I'm with now. There's nothing brutish about him at all and whilst he is a very confident person, his ego just isn't inflated enough. Or do I just train him? Turn him into something he's not. After all, what's mannish about him quietly saying 'no' to me if he disagrees with me? D'ya think I should give up my pitiful job so that I can spend more time adoring him, try and encourage the 'keeper/protector' in him? Oh, I'm in such a quandary now! Silly woman, not being able to sort this out myself. Obviously I need a 'manly' man to make these difficult decisions for me.

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    Re: For woman, how to deal with your superiority complex

    I aim to please.

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    Re: For woman, how to deal with your superiority complex

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    Oh my, I must find that sarcastic post about mens home jobs as being seen as merely 'hobbies' around the house. What were they? Ah, yes... gardening, DIY and something else that was obviously very demeaning to be classed as a hobby to men.
    I understand your overall view of the article but in this aspect you misunderstand the issue.

    It is fine to call things like cooking, home decoration and hand crafts "hobbies" so long as you also call things like car maintenance, DIY and gardening "hobbies".

    It is fine to call things like cooking, home decoration and hand crafts "work" so long as you also call things like car maintenance, DIY and gardening "work".

    It is not acceptable to call things like cooking, home decoration and hand crafts "work" while dismissing things like car maintenance, DIY and gardening as "hobbies", (OR vice-versa).

    Feminists often want to add the time a woman "works" around the home to the time she spends earning to arrive at a gross number of hours worked, comparing this to only the time a man works earning. They justify this by pretending that anything he does outside of earning is a hobby or past-time and therefore is dismissive and merely adds to showing how self-centred he is.


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    I understand your overall view of the article but in this aspect you misunderstand the issue.

    It is fine to call things like cooking, home decoration and hand crafts "hobbies" so long as you also call things like car maintenance, DIY and gardening "hobbies".

    It is fine to call things like cooking, home decoration and hand crafts "work" so long as you also call things like car maintenance, DIY and gardening "work".

    It is not acceptable to call things like cooking, home decoration and hand crafts "work" while dismissing things like car maintenance, DIY and gardening as "hobbies", (OR vice-versa).
    You've made a fair comment there Douglas (as usual). In this day and age I would class hand crafts and gardening (unless you rely on any foodstuffs grown as your maiin source of fruit and veg) as a hobby and the rest as essential tasks with cooking being the main priority (whoever does it).

    As a whole tho', the document reads as something written as a guide to women in the 50's.

    As an aside, I think my fellah has an old book along those lines in his attic. I shall have to dig it out for a giggle

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    I aim to please.

    You can't please everybody.
    Greed is for amateurs.
    Knowledge without wisdom is a load of books on the back of an ass.
    Scorn and mockery towards men in need is one of the reasons feminism is dying as we speak!.

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    Re: For woman, how to deal with your superiority complex

    The word 'submissive' is a red rag to a bull. Or to a cow.

    Just look at how angry people here (bulls) are to Silentblood, who does not seek to be 'dominant' in any respect in his chosen relationship.

    For all the talk about masculine 'dominance', most men 'work for the man', and increasingly for the woman, where he has to be obediant to even the most stupid demands by 'the Boss'. Indeed a oft used term to describe a man's contribution is 'sacrifice'.

    In this entire male-female sexual and family context we need a few different words.
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    You've made a fair comment there Douglas (as usual). In this day and age I would class hand crafts and gardening (unless you rely on any foodstuffs grown as your maiin source of fruit and veg) as a hobby and the rest as essential tasks with cooking being the main priority (whoever does it).

    As a whole tho', the document reads as something written as a guide to women in the 50's.

    As an aside, I think my fellah has an old book along those lines in his attic. I shall have to dig it out for a giggle
    What's that? 1750s? 1850s?

    I have a couple of books for the housewife (! how sexist!!!) from the 30s, they include tips on etiquette and child care and some interesting recipes for lamb's heads. Just goes to show the changes over the last century have largely been for the female, the men are still SCUM


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    Re: For woman, how to deal with your superiority complex

    Considering that the info on this thread came from a site that gives dating advice, I wouldn't be surprise if it was written by a 9th grader.

    Here's another piece from that site.

    Top 10 Cute Nicknames For Your Boyfriend

    My Prince, Prince Charming or King Hunk, Hunky, Stud, Super Stud, Playboy, Romeo or Dirty Boy:Tiger Hot Chocolate, Hot Lips or Hot Stuff



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    Re: For woman, how to deal with your superiority complex

    Tis humour.

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    Tis humour.
    Yeah, well the humor sucks!
    Greed is for amateurs.
    Knowledge without wisdom is a load of books on the back of an ass.
    Scorn and mockery towards men in need is one of the reasons feminism is dying as we speak!.

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    Re: For woman, how to deal with your superiority complex

    I find this article to be essentially a blow-by-blow description of how to ensure everything wrong currently with the world (wrong in the worst terms, issues of far more consequence than men’s rights) forever remains wrong and unalterable.

    Men are designed to be the “dominant” force in a relationship, they are the “keepers” or protectors
    This a childish way to frame a complex dichotomy which as conscious human beings we should not be slaves to.

    (you can see the natural order of things in an animal kingdom).
    So we should aspire to emulate creatures less developed than us, less advanced, animals who's guiding principle is instinct and impulse? Yay! Shit in the woods, roll in your own filth, it's natural!

    Women we endowed qualities that help her be a “nurturer”, a home maker and a mother. So women are wired to be “giving” in nature.
    Above all women are sentient, and endowed with free will and a rational mind which can overcome the impulses generated by their 'wiring,' at times this is a prerequisite for happiness. At other times it must be accepted that your wiring still serves a useful purpose. It is incumbent upon you to understand the difference, and do not let it be told to you. Our ’wiring,’ is used universally by an elite who would keep us in an ideological prison in order to propagate their status, and their wealth, and the happiness of them and their children.

    Men have to be dominant for the relationship to be balanced. In the absence of a dominant male, the woman is usually confused about her roles and responsibilities.
    Blatant sexism.

    The prevalence of “feminist” attitudes have made many men meek and “non dominant”, the result is for everyone to see – more divorces, more hostile kids, more unsatisfactory marriages, more unhappy women and more lonely men.
    Another childish assumption. Marriage breakdown is not simply the result of some male failing in the area of dominance. There are many factors.

    We may have evolved into a modern society, but our primitive instincts are present in our genes. Societal conditioning can make these instincts go “dormant”. But these primitive instincts are our “natural” instincts, it’s important that we don’t lose touch with them for the sake of our survival.
    No it's actually very important that we do evolve and discipline ourselves to the point where these instincts no longer exert an unconscious or unseen influence on our behaviour. They are the cause of almost all suffering on earth. Your instincts can make you happy, but not when you slavishly surrender to them. You must consider what the impulse means, and make a rational decision to implement it understanding what it will lead to.

    Girls have a primal instinct towards seeking a “protector” and a provider. In modern day society, there may not be a need for the type protection that primitive society demanded, but this instinct can help guide you towards the “right” man. As a girl, it’s natural for you to feel vulnerable (even if you deny it). Only the presence of a strong force of a man can help alleviate this feeling of vulnerability, and make you more complete and secure.
    Yes for Christ’s sake please do not ever think of self-improvement or personal growth!

    So don’t shy away from feeling “vulnerable”, it’s not a weakness but a “primitive” feminine quality endowed by nature to help her search for a “manly” protector.
    Women's irrational sense of vulnerability creates social hysteria which DESTROYS LIVES. It demands the state control men to the point of incarceration. It demands men subordinate and control other men through barbarism and economic enslavement.

    So as a girl you “want” to feel submissive; there is nothing wrong with it. It’s most natural. You want to “give in” to a man completely, that’s the primal instinct. Don’t suppress this natural tendency with “feminist” ideas; don’t become arrogant or aggressive towards men in the hope of escaping from your “feminine” feelings.
    Control and guide it through morality, and rational thought. Do not give into men simply because they seem dominant. Respect men who are decent, and if you are attracted to the power of masculinity on a primal level on a conscious level learn to shun negative expressions of that power. Women have the potential to be the most effective civilizing force in the world. It is a responsibility.

    It’s a man’s job to give you the security, love and sense of well-being that you need, and it’s your job to be the source of unconditional support and love in his life. Before you get the “right” man, you have to be the “right” woman.
    It's a man's job to be himself. He owes you nothing. You owe him nothing. Come together in the spirit of fellowship and relate to one another in the understanding that how you behave toward your fellow man, and with respect to the positive and negative urges in yourself is in macrocosm the deciding factor for seven billion peoples health, prosperity and quality if life. If you cannot control yourself, if you are not civilized, if you cannot cultivate the good, then nor can others, but if you can than others can, and those who do can band to reinforce the expectation upon those who do not. By their labour and decency they generate superior climates in which to exist, for entry into which the uncivilized will cultivate the civil within themselves. It's not just about what you want it's about what you need, and the life and needs of seven billion people with whom you share your planet and humanity.

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    Re: For woman, how to deal with your superiority complex

    I...have...one?



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    Re: For woman, how to deal with your superiority complex

    Hi Missy,
    I am strong and confident, I feel superior only in areas I have truly mastered. I enjoy someone opening the door for me, it is nice and cute when guys carry file boxes for me. The superiority complex I am most familiar with are the big women with the loud voices who always seem to think they are experts, the more you question them the louder they get - which is not that big a deal unless you are trying to accomplish something.

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    Hi Missy,
    I am strong and confident, I feel superior only in areas I have truly mastered. I enjoy someone opening the door for me, it is nice and cute when guys carry file boxes for me. The superiority complex I am most familiar with are the big women with the loud voices who always seem to think they are experts, the more you question them the louder they get - which is not that big a deal unless you are trying to accomplish something.
    And while I can agree with that, the ego doesn't know gender.

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