Quote from christianj

Where ?

I see she lists: “Beautiful - Sexy - Sensual - A great kisser - Who is good in bed” does this woman think of nothing but sex ???


How do you find out if she is “Good in bed” without going to bed with her before marriage ?


Is this woman not against “Sleeping around ?”






Robert.

Quote from RobYork

I see she lists: “Beautiful - Sexy - Sensual - A great kisser - Who is good in bed” does this woman think of nothing but sex ???


How do you find out if she is “Good in bed” without going to bed with her before marriage ?


Is this woman not against “Sleeping around ?”






Robert.

you hit that 1 on the head !

I actually thought that was an interesting post that highlighted the fact that men are not settling down with one woman (ie getting married) because of the availability of sex outside of marriage. It is the number #1 reason men are not getting married, being able to co-habit unmarried and crappy misandric divorce laws are the next two. There is a little bit of misandric polemic but it also slams left wing feminism. Sounds a little bit like someone from a right wing pro-family/marriage feminist group. It also sounds like my wife during PMS . I have feeling though it is satire,

Rather thought it was a laugh to read, thanks Bola.

"Men, at their core, are selfish, self-centered and egotistical,"


in psychiatry such an allegation is called "projection"

this means undesirable qualities and impulses are ascribed to someone whom is feared or reviled

I see those above traits as kernel traits of feminits

Yawn. Troll if there ever was one.

Find a woman who is beautiful, intelligent, sexy, sensual, a good conversationalist, a great kisser, who communicates well, who is good in bed, affectionate, loving, kind, generous of spirit, does community volunteer work, cares about you and cares about others, is a decent cook, keeps a clean house, has a flexible personality so that she is willing to compromise where compromise is appropriate (NOT on non-negotiable issues) is monogamous and DEMANDS monogamy from her mate, is trustworthy, is emotionally healthy (everyone has a history and everyone has been hurt to some extent or another; the key is not letting it affect the relationship) -- and stick to the ONE WOMAN

Fat chance of her being that one woman, though.

Quote from bola's crazy friend

Men, at their core, are selfish, self-centered and egotistical[1], even when they have insecurities about their maleness and about women. Add to that inherent selfishness the belief that they can get any woman because there aren't enough men to go around and/or because women make themselves available to any guy, and the selfishness and self-centeredness duplicates exponentially[2].

1. Quite frankly, no one is selfish at their core, but we are certainly self-interested.

2. It takes two to tango. Blaming the current problems with relationships on feminism OR Viagra is surely missing the observations that were made by Emma Goldman almost 70 years before about the topic of marriage. She is right, marriage and love have absolutely nothing to do with one another. Do I especially favor monogamous relationships? Yes. But these trends were beginning even as Goldman written her essay about love and marriage

Quote from Emma Goldman's essay

That marriage is a failure none but the very stupid will deny. One has but to glance over the statistics of divorce to realize how bitter a failure marriage really is. Nor will the stereotyped Philistine argument that the laxity of divorce laws and the growing looseness of woman account for the fact that: first, every twelfth marriage ends in divorce; second, that since 1870 divorces have increased from 28 to 73 for every hundred thousand population; third, that adultery, since 1867, as ground for divorce, has increased 270.8 per cent.; fourth, that desertion increased 369.8 per cent.