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24th-February-2007 #1
The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wife’s secret LOVER!
Link to the article.The mother of all betrayals
By JOHN COLES
February 22, 2007
A DOTING dad told yesterday how he brought up four kids as his own — only to find they were all fathered by his wife’s secret LOVER.
Cheated Charles Bostock, 69, spent years thinking the three cherished girls and a boy were his children.
He only discovered the shock news when his 49-year-old wife Sarah fell pregnant with a FIFTH child by married love rival Richard Mills.
Retired policeman Charles knew he could not be the dad because he had not bedded Sarah for many months.
Pals finally told him who the baby’s dad was. But he did not learn the truth about the other four children — aged 12, ten, nine and six — until DNA tests proved they were Mills’.
Heartbroken Charles said yesterday: “I feel like the life has been ripped out of me.
“I brought those kids up for 12 years like any normal dad. I changed their nappies, dried their tears, took them to school — and now I’ve lost everything. I still love them and they love me, but what sort of life will they have now?
“And how can someone be married to somebody all those years and just stick two fingers up to them? She’s nothing but a whore, a tramp and an adulteress. What those two have done to me is evil.”
Charles added: “Sarah must have known all along the kids were his — why didn’t she say?
“She kept up the lie all those years. She kept me going, using me like some sugar daddy to pay for Mills’ kids.
“If she’d had the courage to tell me the truth at the start I could have had a chance of rebuilding my life. But not any more. It’s too late for me.”
Mills, 48, who has a grown-up son and daughter by wife Carol, recently fathered a SIXTH child with Sarah.
But he is refusing to live with her and his lovechildren, and Sarah suspects he is cheating on her too. Plant hire boss Mills has now been divorced, while Charles’ 28-year marriage ended the same way. The shell-shocked ex-cop — who left his £400,000 marital home near Bodmin, Cornwall, about 18 months ago — has even contemplated SUICIDE.
He said: “Mills has wrecked two marriages and so many lives. I’ve lost everything — my home, my wife, my kids, all the things I worked hard for.
“I was going to end it all and I’ve even thought how to. The kids want me to come back home and still be their dad. But I’m just in limbo.”
Charles wed second wife Sarah in 1979. Within six months she fell pregnant with daughter Alison, now 26. Two years later she bore Charles a son — also named Charles.
In 1986 Charles Snr was pensioned off from the police after a motorbike accident and left Staines, Surrey, for a new life in Cornwall.
He got a job as a council waste regulation officer and Sarah looked after their two children at home. But 12 years ago she became pregnant again — with what turned out to be the first of Mills’ kids.
As another three siblings followed in the next six years, Charles thought his family and life were complete. Sarah even put his name on their birth certificates, although she’s now planning to call them Mills.
In 2001 Sarah told her hubby she wanted more kids. When he refused on cost grounds, she angrily declared she wouldn’t have sex with him any more.
But months later she announced she was pregnant.
Charles said: “I told her, ‘That’s impossible — I haven’t touched you for at least nine months’. I asked who the dad was but she wouldn’t say. She even claimed she’d had sex with me while I was asleep.”
Sarah insisted on having the child — a girl now nearly five — and Charles demanded a separation. Just before the birth, he learned Mills’ identity when pals tipped him off.
He said: “I could have killed him — I could have murdered them both. But Mills said he didn’t want anything to do with the child and after a while I said I’d take her on and look after her as my own.
“I thought it was a one-off and I was prepared to live with that for my kids’ sake.”
Charles remained in the house to be with “his” children, but quit the marital bed.
He said: “She then started seeing Mills again. She taunted me saying, ‘You’re ugly and old — he’s virile and rich and he’s got a Mercedes’.
“That’s when I moved out and started on the divorce.”
A few months later, the children visited Charles and broke the bombshell news that Mills was their real father.
He said: “They said, ‘Richard took swabs from our mouths’.
“My wife refused to say why but a few weeks later they came again and the 12-year-old said, ‘You aren’t our dad’.
“I said, ‘Of course I am’. And she said, ‘No Richard Mills has told us that he is’.”
Charles got his solicitor to order DNA tests — and they confirmed the terrible truth.
The ex-cop said he has only met Mills once and also seen him briefly at a court hearing.
He added: “You couldn’t print what I really think of him, although I told him over the phone. He’s a total liar. His whole life’s been a lie and hers too. And I’ve been their victim.
“Thanks to them I’ve lost everything — now I’m nothing but a lonely old man. I keep thinking what an idiot I was.”
Mills last night did not deny our story. He asked: “Why’s that such big news?” Sarah confirmed she had had six of his children.
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15th-April-2007 #2
Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wifeÂ’s secret LOVER!
What he needs to do is fight for custody of his children. Yes, they are HIS children. He is the one who looked after them for years going to work to support them, and raising them. BUT, that being said, I wouldn't blame him if he just wanted to leave, and start fresh by himself. Either way, I back what he does.
That wife is a total bitch, and so is her lover. A total slap in the face she wants to change their surnames.
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Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wifeÂ’s secret LOVER!
It matters not which way round you look at this situation, it's going to be a man who loses out no matter what.
Thanks feminism for promoting how to **** up a family.
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15th-April-2007 #4
Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wifeÂ’s secret LOVER!
She even claimed sheÂ’d had sex with me while I was asleep."
Really? Then add rape to the rest of her crimes of adultery, paternity fraud, and being a lying, selfish, manipulative whore. As for the kids? she obviously only views them as annuities, and the psychological effects this will have on these 4 kids, as well as the hoodwinked man who fathered them, no doubt pales into insignificance against the gluttonous masterplan this dispicable woman contrived to enrich herself.
Tyrael said:
This incident is a example why DNA Paternity Tests should be either mandatory or offered as a option soon after children are born.
Absolutely, many empirical studies have shown that this phenomenon is a lot more common than what "most woman would like us men to believe." Indeed it's something women have been cunningly indulging in for thousands of years. Now with the advent of science, we can prevent a lot of pain, heartache and insure the retention of many mens finances just by undertaking a very quick and easy test.
As for the men who stand to lose so much without such a test, must not be dissuaded by those women who'll employ all the tried and tested tactics of, for example "well if you loved and trusted me, you wouldn't put me through this" or various shame and guilt tactics. These men must remain resolute throughout, and insist on these tests before anything can move forward in the relationship.The wicked flee when none pursueth. Proverbs 28:1
'Rise like Lions after slumber In unvanquishable number - Shake your chains to earth like dew Which in sleep had fallen on you - Ye are many - they are few.'
Percy Bysshe Shelley
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16th-April-2007 #5
Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wifeÂ’s secret LOVER!
Tyrael....Celtic......This left me frozen with total ballistic rage
UN *****FECKINGBELIEVABLE!!!!
TyraelThis incident is a example why DNA Paternity Tests should be either mandatory or offered as a option soon after children are born.
Celtic Druid
Absolutely, many empirical studies have shown that this phenomenon is a lot more common than what "most woman would like us men to believe." Indeed it's something women have been cunningly indulging in for thousands of years. Now with the advent of science, we can prevent a lot of pain, heartache and insure the retention of many mens finances just by undertaking a very quick and easy test.
I gotta tell you my trust of women is now dead.Emma the fake antifeminist did not help either yes she did her bit. See below...
Now men grow less and less niave especially us here who are informed about what goes on out there. The hard school of experience this whole guys life was built around her lie.
This has echoes for me about why a former girlfriend ended up marrying within a few months of splitting with me. I suspected I as 2 timed.
Her manipulative bitch of a mother left her husband for another man took his house everything she was the adultress. Methinks like mother like daughter.No more dating for me.I have not dated in 3 years.
For this poor guy most of his life.Just makes me flee from relationships I already am....now more so.
Bachelorhood never made more sense...!feminism is a disease the Doc is working on a cure. Symptoms include compulsive liar, constant aggression, allergic to logic, often affects women who are fat with short hair and big earings, but can be normal looking.
Reason tablets three taken daily. If the sufferer displays shaming tactics double the dose. Remarkably the illness disappears in disaster zones.
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23rd-October-2009 #6
Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wife’s secret LOVER!
of course not all women are like her (thank the lord).
faithful women simply don't make the headlines.
40 yo married woman! DNA testing proves all her children are fathered by her husband! just wouldn't sell.
poor kids... mums a slut and dads a loser who leave his children to be supported by another man.
hopefully they will stick by their real dad (the one who's been raising them) and turn their backs on the DNA parents.
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Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wife’s secret LOVER!
Words escape me. Sometimes I honestly wonder how some people could be like this. Then i sadly remember there are some completely and utterly %#(&ed up people in this world......
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Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wife’s secret LOVER!
I've mentioned elsewhere about a time I was assisting with genetic medical research. I discovered how many people are wrong when they state the identity of their genetic father. That's not those cases where we know the man bringing us up isn't our blood father, nor even those cases where we suspect; nor is it where the father is unknown: this research was aimed for people who knew there would be genetic testing and knew they would not be told the result. Bear in mind also that just as many men would have had children outside the home by another woman as women had children inside the home by another man.
One in seven of us is wrong when we state the identity of our father.
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18th-January-2011 #9
Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wife’s secret LOVER!
All men should be educated about this. In fact, I believe very very strongly that the possibilities and dangers of paternity fraud should be taught in sex education classe to boys of a very young age. "Just because she says you are the daddy it doesn't mean that you are the daddy" the lesson title should read. Some people-especialy women and feminists- would have a fit if they saw something like that but can anybody realy be taken seriously when they say that this isn't a real problem that men face?
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18th-January-2011 #10
Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wifeÂ’s secret LOVER
I suggest you review the 'law' on this case, at least in the USA - which has been manipulated in to a 'Feminist Coin Toss' = Heads She Wins, Tails He Loses...
U.S. Supreme Court
Michael H. v. Gerald D., 491 U.S. 110 (1989)
Michael H. v. Gerald D.
No. 87-746 Decided June 15, 1989
491 U.S. 110
APPEAL FROM THE COURT OF APPEAL OF CALIFORNIA,
SECOND APPELLATE DISTRICT
Syllabus
In May, 1981, appellant Victoria D. was born to Carole D., who was married to, and resided with, appellee Gerald D. in California. Although Gerald was listed as father on the birth certificate and has always claimed Victoria as his daughter, blood tests showed a 98.07% probability that appellant Michael H., with whom Carole had had an adulterous affair, was Victoria's father.
During Victoria's first three years, she and her mother resided at times with Michael, who held her out as his own, at times with another man, and at times with Gerald, with whom they have lived since June, 1984. In November, 1982, Michael filed a filiation action in California Superior Court to establish his paternity and right to visitation.
Victoria, through her court-appointed guardian ad litem, filed a cross-complaint asserting that she was entitled to maintain filial relationships with both Michael and Gerald. The court ultimately granted Gerald summary judgment on the ground that there were no triable issues of fact as to paternity under Cal.Evid. Code § 621, which provides that a child born to a married woman living with her husband, who is neither impotent nor sterile, is presumed to be a child of the marriage, and that this presumption may be rebutted only by the husband or wife, and then only in limited circumstances.
Moreover, the court denied Michael's and Victoria's motions for visitation pending appeal under Cal.Civ. Code § 4601, which provides that a court may, in its discretion, grant "reasonable visitation rights . . . to any . . . person having an interest in the [child's] welfare."
The California Court of Appeal affirmed, rejecting Michael's procedural and substantive due process challenges to § 621 as well as Victoria's due process and equal protection claims. The court also rejected Victoria's assertion of a right to continued visitation with Michael under § 4601, on the ground that California law denies visitation against the wishes of the mother to a putative father who has been prevented by § 621 from establishing his paternity.
Held: The judgment is affirmed.
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11th-November-2011 #11
Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wife’s secret LOVER!
The poor man, this is absolute madness. Everyone suffers cuss she fancied a bit and her toy boy doesn't even want her! I hope she understands that SHE is used up and useless. After 6 kids her parts are dangling at this point.
On a more serous note this women has incriminated her self in a potential rape case:
"She even claimed she’d had sex with me while I was asleep.” -
I don't know what planet shes on, but on earth this rape. A sleeping man cant consent to intercourse and rape within marriage is taken very seriously. He needs to report this vile women for sexual abuse.
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11th-November-2011 #12
Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wife’s secret LOVER!
I agree that he should certainly report her for rape.
Though given everything else he is going through and his already evident severe depression I wouldn't blame him if he avoided a court case on the matter.
And I heartily agree with at the very least optional DNA testing of all children and whomever the mother declares as the childs father at birth.Chevalier.
"no greater love hath a man than to lay down his life for his brother."
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Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wife’s secret LOVER!
Well you're in England, and as you should know rape under English law is a male-only crime. The worst that she could be criminalized for is sexual assault - not rape. It is legally impossible for a woman to be a rapist in our country... and feminists want to ensure it stays that way, too.
http://antimisandry.com/feminist-mis...tml#post246849
Read down the post for a quote by HerBex where she defends the legal definition of rape as being specifically penetration.
I agree with you though, rape should include engulfment of a penis as well as penetration of a vagina.
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11th-November-2011 #14
Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wife’s secret LOVER!
Roll on Sharia Law.
Ours is buggered.When in need of a drink to fill the soul
Drop into the Knight & Drummer Free House.
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Love the Sinner but not the Sin.
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11th-November-2011 #15
Re: The mother of all betrayals. All 4 Kids were fathered by his wife’s secret LOVER!
Im in Ireland Marx, not a lot of difference tho as they had the same source. Just different evoloution i guess.
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