How many of you have daughters?

[onegirl]

If you have a daughter, what do you teach them about feminism and antimisandry?

[Garak]

Originally Posted by onegirl

If you have a daughter, what do you teach them about feminism and antimisandry?

My daughter is too young and also out of my reach...you know...that Parental Alienation thing that so many say doesn't exist.

Anyway, if she were older I doubt I would DIRECTLY teach her anything. I would teach her by example and by influence. Let her grow up and simply guide her when needed, nothing too overbearing. I hate helicopter parents and I refuse to be one myself.

Some single mothers go out of their way to teach their daughters to be feminists. That they have to do that shows that it is not natural for little girls to grow up as feminists.

[Feckless]

I read about one mother on feministing she was "teaching" her son about feminism. And she said sth about (if I remember correctly) him not liking homosexual relationship. What she was trying to change. So I wonder how many antifeminist are raised by feminists.

Anyhow I have a daughter and I am currently trying to teach her to go to bed earlier (she will be 3 month old next week)....so nothing about feminism.

[Garak]

Originally Posted by Feckless

I read about one mother on feministing she was "teaching" her son about feminism. And she said sth about (if I remember correctly) him not liking homosexual relationship. What she was trying to change. So I wonder how many antifeminist are raised by feminists.

Anyhow I have a daughter and I am currently trying to teach her to go to bed earlier (she will be 3 month old next week)....so nothing about feminism.

Yes, I remember that.

She was also talking about her son liking pink but took no responsibility for that.

If I remember correctly, she let her son choose the color of his walls. He chose pink. She also noted that he has always worn pinkish clothes. Uh MOM, who set him on THAT path?

[Percy]

I have a daughter. I don't see her either, like so many fathers. She has been mind-poisoned.

She was the light of my life as a little girl and I encouraged her to do and be whatever she could aspire to do and be.

But I am very proud of her and what she has managed to achieve. She did a full apprenticeship as a car mechanic and specialised in high performance cars and engines.

She married recently ( I was not invited) and is about to open a vehicle repair business with her husband. He is also a car mechanic. He is divorced and has his kids half time, so she is a step-mother to two. As she does not talk to me I have no idea of what troubles she has other than what my son manages to tell me about. I have a very good relationship with him.

I miss my daughter terribly.

Her mother is a dyed in the wool feminazi and I hope she will rot in hell for the damage she has done.

[yohan]

Originally Posted by onegirl

If you have a daughter, what do you teach them about feminism and antimisandry?

I teach them 'nothing'.

I am from Europe, married since 32 years, never divorced, Asian wife and living in Asia since 1972, I have 2 daughters, 27 and 31 y.o. and I take care of a Filipina fostergirl, now 12 y.o.

We never had any talk about this men-hating bullshit ideology.
Why should we?

[Kim]

Originally Posted by yohan

I teach them 'nothing'.

I am from Europe, married since 32 years, never divorced, Asian wife and living in Asia since 1972, I have 2 daughters, 27 and 31 y.o. and I take care of a Filipina fostergirl, now 12 y.o.

We never had any talk about this men-hating bullshit ideology.
Why should we?

I completely agree with you, Yohan. I've never taught my daughter anything about feminism. I teach her to be modest, chaste, honest, kind, charitable.....that nothing matters more than the kind of person we are and the way we treat others. I teach her the value of integrity, reliability and being trustworthy.

There's no need for me to use the "F" word, if she retains only half of what I teach her she'll still be in direct opposition to all feminism stands for.

[Garak]

LOL

The "F" word. I'll have to remember that.

[shaazam]

""Anyway, if she were older I doubt I would DIRECTLY teach her anything. I would teach her by example and by influence. Let her grow up and simply guide her when needed, nothing too overbearing.""

nicely summarises on how my wife and I brought up our daughter and her brother 18 n 13 respectively

she is currently a third year apprentice in a flash restaurant here in Sydney Australia and has passed all but one six week module on cookery

she will round off her theory course early next year

I slapped her twice in anger during her child hood once for poking a wire into a power socket and the other for being too sassy with her mother

a feminit bitch would have had me incarcerated and banished

my daughter is a non drug taker doesn't smoke and saves her money

I credit most of her steady habits to her mother who has much common sense and doesn't know what feminitism is and who has loved her and her brother dearly and spent the child hoood years with both kids as they grew up

so Garack' buzz words example and influence mostly from their well balanced mother has born fruit

[Timocrat]

I have boys and the fact you only want to know about girls is not a good sign. This track by new women is now becoming a constant? Do you all know each other or are we just fluking out?

How about cats verses dogs? I'm a dog man, can we plant more divisions please, we haven't had one since ST, and need more. How about a topic of how you hate feminism? Are there any women takers? I'll be waiting!

[Marx]

I don't discuss it with my kids. They're too young. However, I know the mother of my two oldest daughter's has taught them to hit boys in the groin if they engage in disagreements which may get physical.

I have countered that, explaining the problems with fertility in later life, that by doing this they could render the boy in fertile and effectively they would be stealing his right to be a parent in later life.

[nivek]

Only time i say anything to my daughter (9 yo) is when she's watching kids t.v (most programs depict girls hiting or humiliating boys in some way or another) I just try to point out that its no way to behave.

If she turns out like her mum she'll be OK.

My son is 15, he had a girlfriend earlier in the year, when they finished she put it around the school that he had raped her (turned out she had also done this to a previous boyfriend) He was gutted.

Fortunate that no one took her seriously, i have my eye on things though, and the school know i will not tolerate any shit.

We have him focused on his exams for now, he did work experience in the summer at the surgery where his mum works, he wants to become a pharmacist, if the results keep coming in for him he should be good for college .... Im glad he dont want to be a chippie like his old man (great job in the summer but winter soon comes around)

[shaazam]

I see Tera has come in from the cold

vengeance is her keyboard

[G.I. Jane]

Originally Posted by Kim

I completely agree with you, Yohan. I've never taught my daughter anything about feminism. I teach her to be modest, chaste, honest, kind, charitable.....that nothing matters more than the kind of person we are and the way we treat others. I teach her the value of integrity, reliability and being trustworthy.

There's no need for me to use the "F" word, if she retains only half of what I teach her she'll still be in direct opposition to all feminism stands for.

Nice. Have you erected a statue in honour of your husband yet? Or is it in honour of your father... perhaps both. Don't forget to slouch when you're around your man, short men HATE to look up at tall women. I've seen enough of this website, I'm going back to my own forum. Seeya.

[Marx]

Originally Posted by G.I. Jane

Nice. Have you erected a statue in honour of your husband yet? Or is it in honour of your father... perhaps both. Don't forget to slouch when you're around your man, short men HATE to look up at tall women. I've seen enough of this website, I'm going back to my own forum. Seeya.

LOL. Some guys have a distinct kink for taller women. I'm over 6' and I really quite like tall women.

Sounds to me like you have a distaste for men, specifically short men. Enjoy your own forum where debate will be limited to all those who agree with you, no doubt.

Still, you've been entertaining in this one post (outside of your intro thread)... I did literally have a snigger when I read this post of yours.