Thread: Androgynous Parenting?

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Things that make you go hmmmmmmmm

Ah. Ok, my choice of words were bad. Let's discuss something totally related to this strain of thought.

•Lady Catherine is a demisexual. She doesn't experience primary sexual attraction (per Rabger's model) except on very rare occasions.
•Lady Catherine finds casual sex to be a disgusting activity and actually barely tolerates the idea. She has a secret desire/fantasy that everyone was demisexual and that they would chill out with this hook-up culture business.
•Lady Catherine champions marriage and family, even non-traditional forms, simply because she believes that marriage is the cornerstone of society and believes marriage to mean more than a contract between a man and a woman.
•Lady Catherine isn't perfect and she sometimes makes mistakes.
•Lady Catherine and her husband are the parents of the child in Lady Catherine's womb. Her husband put his wing-wang in her hoo-haa and they concieved after a year of trying.

She doesn't experience primary sexual attraction (per Rabger's model) except on very rare occasions.

But what about per Ratbag's model?

Or Rainink, Katz and Doggs' model?

As they say down at the Covent Garden street corners, "Have I got a model for YOU ! (wink, wink, nudge, nudge)"

If you and your husband score high in androgeny, then you will, by default, raise your child in an androgenous enviroment, there is no need to adopt your behaviours, go with what feels right for you. My husband and I are both very androgenous by nature, our daughter is a pink, playing with dolls, nurturing 5 year old...but she experiences her parents in a non stereotypical gender role way and this forms the basis of how she views the world and her gender role in it. It also instills an acceptance of people for who they are rather than what they should be, which can only be positive.

Quote from Lady Catherine

So...I have been wondering about androgynous parenting and I have done some research into it and found that it pretty much suited what hubby and I were going to do with our son . . .

Lady Cat, good for you and hubby! And just for the record ('cause I am new here):

I Am LGBT "Out", a court admitted "Trans-Parent" (a play on the word "transparency") in the so-called "mother presumptive" state of GA who, for better or worse, is 10 months divorced, has won sole rights to our home, pays her no alimony and, despite *final award* to the contrary, continues to have custody of our two children (11 and 13 boy girl respectively) AND ALSO AGREE . . .

In having no real choice in the matter "the real. ordinary, normal world" is certainly not all that cracked-up to what it seemingly pretends to be in the first place!

( you have a *new fan*, thus the "friend request" / i have yet to see a post *clear moderation* / and testing the "free speech* limits here for sure? )

Quote from Lady Catherine

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•Lady Catherine and her husband are the parents of the child in Lady Catherine's womb. Her husband put his . . . .

Ahh! Your to be, new parents! Welcome To The Club (and don't ever let 'em OUTNUMBER ya 'cause they'll get the mistaken impression early that this America is a "democracy")!