I suggest that you read a book called "The Rantings of a Single Male."
In his "Rant N" the author, Thomas Ellis, describes his encounter with a Romanian bar maid who had a "rape fantasy." She bet Ellis $100 that he couldn't "rape" her if she resisted. All she needed to do was to wiggle a little and he couldn't come close. When he did manage to restrain her she bit him and it was so painful that he stopped trying. He lost the $100.
The 19th century doctors and lawyers are a lot closer to accurate than the rape-hate fembabes today. It is actually very difficult to penetrate a female who wiggles, even a much smaller female.