I call bull on this. They write this article and it seems right out of the feminist handbook and don't even bother to look into the other side.

I do not believe it is that high and believe the numbers are spun..

Funny newspapers never do a story on the percentage of fathers like me that want to see their children, be involved in their lives etc but are denied access while the ex goes unpunished and the courts refuse to do anything.

What about guys that lose their job at no fault of their own? Maybe they can't find a similar paying job right away? The article does not even mention partial payments from guys that have no money then they lose their drivers license etc and are in a deeper hole......

I have been tempted to stop payments for that reason myself but I want to show my kids I am better than that and I seen what happens if you do not.

You lose your job yet your income is pro rated as if you are still making that kind of money. I used to work in the forest industry and so many mill closures and job losses over the last few years yet the courts fail to see that.

Most guys want to pay but financial situations change and the courts do not seem to accept those changes right away..we are viewed as liars or trying to get out of paying...

Yet so many women end up with another guy and are way better off financially yet the starving dad who has to go to food banks just to eat, live in a shithole just to get a roof over his head who works full time but pays out 70% of net pay like he was before he lost his job and doing a job that pays less. wtf?

Why can't the ex or these women whining get a job? My kids are teens so no excuse for her not to stop filling her face, growing her ever increasing ass and surfing the net all day?

There is more than one side to this yet all we hear is about 'poor women' and big evil men who won't pay up, like wtf???? They publish such one sided stories. Yet never see a story about dead beat moms....

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I tell you if I had my life to live over I would never get married, shack up or have kids.

No 1;

Firstly, that's a most unreasonable suggestion! They don't feel the need to lift their fat asses up of the sofa to do a day's graft while there's some "stripped down to the balls" guy grafting away to provide all the dosh she needs - until of course she is compelled to contact her lawyers to demand more as she is up the duff again from her latest boyfriend.


No 2:

And so say gazillions of other guys. The sad truth of the matter too many of them do indeed land themselves in the $hit all over again with some other skank.