An unhealthy respect for women... written by Specter
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- 18th-January-2007 #1
An unhealthy respect for women... written by Specter
Another great article by Specter with the related follow up article Marriage and "eligibility".
Saturday, January 13, 2007
An unhealthy respect for women...
To respect women simply for being women is unwarranted, however, chivalrous males will tell you otherwise. One pseudo-man I work with boasted to me about he forfeits his paycheck to his girlfriend simply to win her praise. Another decided to buy his girlfriend a used BMW for Christmas having received only a DVD in return. He told me this with a smile on his face, as if having a slavemaster was a status symbol. How unfortunate am I that I have nobody to buy expensive cars for? I suppose I'll just have to watch my bank account grow.
Chivalrous males have been raised by their mothers and by society to eagerly sacrifice themselves, their time and resources for a mere shred of positive reinforcement from a female. Today's male not only saves the damsel in distress, but takes her place on the tracks with a smile on his face.
If you're a man reading this blog, I'm nearly certain you put girls on pedestals at one point in your life and you still might. You were likely brought up the way I was, "Be nice to girls, make them feel special, don't hurt their feelings, and never ever hit them." If you grew up with a sister, you may be aware of what your parents probably told her something like "Be careful around boys, you're a very special girl so make sure they treat you that way." Girls aren't brought up to respect the opposite sex (just to fear us), but we've had it pounded into our brains since childhood. Girls these days are deserving our respect less than ever, and like a bratty little sister, deserve to get slapped.
Mom said to respect girls, but why did we listen? Because we trusted her and sought her approval. It's hard to imagine for some that Mom may not have had our best interests in mind. She raised us to be doormats for women, just as other women raised men to be doormats for her. Far fetched? If mom truly had our best interests in mind, wouldn't she have taught us the true nature of women instead? Maybe then, we wouldn't have expected sugar and spice in the place of piss and vinegar. The approval our mothers trained us to seek from them enslave us when we seek it out in a woman.
Marriage and "eligibility"
You'll hear the phrase "eligible bachelor" quite often and most of the time, it's a euphamism for a rich, single man. It's a phrase women use to describe rich men without sounding like golddiggers. If you are a young man in your twenties like myself, you've probably noticed that the bulk of your life was spent being educated and working. Most of us were raised thinking in terms of making ourselves eligible that we should be lucky enough to marry someday.
We spend the first quarter of our lives neck deep in books and broke, so that one day, we might get a good job and bring home a good paycheck, so we can buy an expensive car to impress a girl. We'll also have to move out of our parents' basement and get a nice apartment to bring this girl back to. If we got this far, we'd be spending thousands on a diamond to present to our girl, hoping she'd say yes and allow us to support her for the rest of her life.
What makes a female eligible? Looks, a nice body perhaps, being able to give a man children. Money is never an object, but it can sweeten the deal. Not being a bitch helps, but in many cases, this is overlooked. Women don't have to show their net worth with the things they wear and the cars they drive, because men simply don't care. Although women may something stupid like buying a $900 purse, it's not like we know the difference between that and a $30 one bought at the mall. In fact, if a woman tells you she blew $900 on a bag, I suggest you turn 180 degrees and run like you're on fire (but that's another topic).
Male eligibility consists of things that must be earned by decades of hard work. The things that make us good providers were not given to us at birth (excluding inheritances), but had to be earned. Regardless of what woman say, they all expect the man to bring home the bacon, every single one of them.
Looks, female genitalia, a decent rack, and fertility are characteristics a given female is born with and did absolutely nothing to earn. It doesn't matter if a girl spent her school days smoking pot and earning D's. It doesn't matter if she lives at home with her parents. If she's somewhat good looking and has an interest in getting married, she can do so, and she probably won't pick a man who wasted his life doing what she did.
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- 19th-January-2007 #2
Re: An unhealthy respect for women... written by Specter
I really enjoy making women happy, not because society tells me I have to, but because if I really care about her I want to see her smile and be happy!
I know one "sane" woman. She's actually different from the rest, believe it, or not. She lives far away, but I still talk to her over messanger (sometimes for over 8 hrs at a time) I've spoken to her on the phone and I really enjoy her company. She's one of the few sane women who doesn't subscribe to all that feminism bs and lies like the rest do, she's actually normal!
Anyway, I send her gifts from time to time. I expect nothing in return and have gotten nothing, nothing but the fact I know she is happy, appreceates what she got and it made her day a little brighter.
I don't do this because the tv or society tells me, I do it because she's special and I enjoy making her happy. She has never asked for anything, never hinted, never bothered. I just do it because she is different than the rest and it makes me happy to do so
- 22nd-January-2007 #3
Re: An unhealthy respect for women... written by Specter
Specter highlights many of the problems I highlighted in a previous post I made. One of the main pertinent points, is how mothers raise their son/s to be slaves to women.
Is empathy gender specific and is it innate?
By Celtic Druid
Many events throughout my life have reinforced my view that women are overwhelmingly and disproportionately empathetic towards other women - regardless of circumstance. Nothing or no one can assuage me from this view after what I have witnessed, and endured in my lifes somewhat tedious journey as a male running the gauntlet of feminism.
As men our first tentative steps are for the most under the assumed unquestioned "safe" guidance of our mothers as children. Who, without any kind of stewardship or egalitarian filter have taught - or is it indoctrinate their sons? learned self-serving perceptions which have soley benefited generations of women - who have passed on this chauvinistic assumption that women are more valued than men.
Empathy is often marketed pompously by feminists and in turn women, who parrot how women are much more capable of empathy then men. However when the evidence is evaluated devoid of politics and personal agendas, undoubtedly we see that men not only do not receive empathy from women regardless of the situation. They receive contempt and derision in it's place.
I uphold my view that women raise their sons 'consciously or subconsciously' to be slaves and servants to women. Mothers always fanatically indoctrinate their sons how girls are "sugar and spice an all things nice" and you shouldn't hit girls - also if you are hit by a girl BE A MAN and suck it up you big baby/whiner. This selfish sexist and chauvinistic mentality only but serves to ensure (in part) that empathy remains gender specific and the 'divide' is maintained.
Girls are not taught that perpetrating violence against boys is wrong, this validates societal perceptions that whatever despicable crimes women commit - including killing children - it still evokes empathy from many women and men, almost as a learned social default. This morale "disparity" should not be drawn along gender lines regarding how we respond to the 'slaughter of the innocent.' Instead, the very least we as a civilised society can do is apply the law EQUALLY regardless of gender and socially engineered politics! Not to do so, ensures that we have colluded in the next murder!!
Empathy has reached such insane proportions that child protective agencies worldwide (NSPCC for eg) are 'seemingly' more interested in protecting the physically abusive and murdering mother - than the child/ren they have abused or murdered. Such is the gynocentric influence of feminism and for example - the moronic viewers of cult oprah -- Who fanatically propagate this sickening notion endlessly -- and its insidious ilk, ensure this one-sided notion of empathy prevails seemingly unabated.The wicked flee when none pursueth. Proverbs 28:1
'Rise like Lions after slumber In unvanquishable number - Shake your chains to earth like dew Which in sleep had fallen on you - Ye are many - they are few.'
Percy Bysshe Shelley
"When the people fear their government, there is tyranny; when the government fears the people, there is liberty. "
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