I Have Been Declared An Enemy

**Kim** · 25th-October-2010

Well, it's official...I've been placed upon the "Enemies List" (guffaw, chuckle) of Mr. David Furtrelle on his 'Man boobz' blog. Of course, if I'm an enemy, I can only imagine what qualifies one as a friend....that old adage springs to mind concerning the company one keeps....ahem.

Anyhow....let's do a quick evaluation of me to more clearly elucidate someone who Mr. Furtrelle has declared his "enemy".

I am a rather uncompromising individual who believes that nothing is of greater importance than truth and right. I am a proponent of honesty, integrity and virtue and a strident advocate for the necessity of being held accountable for one's choices and actions.

I abhor convenient morality and flexible value systems.

I believe in treating others with kindness and respect and in the value of selfless charity. I condemn behaviors that ignore and would seek to undermine the rights of others. I denounce selfishness, shallowness, puerility, lasciviousness and ego-centrism.

My enemies are nihilism, dishonesty, hypocrisy, narcissism, and the blatant disregard for the lives of others.

On my blog, I seek to promote that which is of worth. I encourage women to embrace values of substance and to disavow selfish, childish behaviors and convenient morality. I condemn misandry in society and promote such ignored, belittled and antiquated notions as the importance of fathers, the necessity of families and the undeniable value of honing one's character and leading a life ruled by honesty and integrity.

One must ask, Mr. Furtrelle, if I am your enemy...what does that say about you?

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**rohara** · 25th-October-2010

I would say that says a whole lot about Mr. Furtrelle.

**nivek** · 25th-October-2010

Being on Fruitrelle's enemies list is a good thing

**Percy** · 26th-October-2010

The man must be a fool !

Ignorance is more common than evil.

**JohnLocke** · 26th-October-2010

Quote from Kim

I abhor convenient morality and flexible value systems.

Great post! I never heard the term convenient morality. I suspect it is synonymous with moral relativism but can you please elaborate on the meaning of this phrase?

**Zuberi** · 26th-October-2010

No surprised. Then again anybody who doesn't see eye to eye with that effete loser is an enemy!

**Ohso** · 26th-October-2010

Quote from Kim

My enemies are nihilism, dishonesty, hypocrisy, narcissism, and the blatant disregard for the lives of others.

Ditto - Except that at the top of my enemies list is the In-Famous El Guapo!

"Wait a Minute, Real Bullets" Dusty

**haute macabre** · 26th-October-2010

He's probably doing what the feminist masters want of him.

**Marx** · 26th-October-2010

Kim, here, take my hanky for the tears of sorrow you are surely weeping.

**shaazam** · 26th-October-2010

male feminits ! ye Gods! like a porker buying into the Christmas leg ham industry

**Kim** · 26th-October-2010

Thanks for the comments everyone! *Sigh* I miss you guys. Oh well...hopefully life will slow down one of these days and I'll have more opportunities to stop and chat.

@ John Locke

The term convenient morality is (to my knowledge) something of my own creation. I use it to describe the flexible morality prevalent in society, particularly among women. Here's a quote from one of my posts where I discuss it a bit,

Speaking out, however, is also not enough. Women have to decide what is right and what is wrong and then maintain those values. Today, far too many women are guilty of what I like to call 'convenient morality'. If a divorce is a horrible and destructive thing, it doesn't suddenly become a good, beneficial decision simply because you decide to file for one. If it's unthinkable and cruel to alienate children from their father, it doesn't become acceptable once you're the one doing it. Engaging in or promoting misandric speech and behavior isn't suddenly o.k. because you're unhappy with the man in your life. What's wrong is wrong, and the hypocrisy far too many women are willing to embrace by excusing reprehensible behaviors in order to accommodate their own actions is very disturbing.

**Percy** · 27th-October-2010

This 'convenient morality' description is spot on.

It stems from a narcissistic view that 'if I think it, it must be right'.

It has a cousin - 'If it feels good, it is good'. And another, - 'I am special'.

Some of us are, of course.