It was expressed to me recently by a peer that I am unduly harsh in my criticism of women on my blog. I actually thought it was kind of funny. I don't think I'm harsh towards women at all. On the contrary, my disgust with today's 'modern women' stems from the fact that I consider women capable of being so much more. Aside from my husband, my very best friends are women...and they are great women. They are kind and charitable, warm and loving. Their husbands and children are the pinnacles of their lives and they are happy to devote themselves to them.

The difference, I think, between feminists and myself, is that I love being a woman. Not only do I love being a woman, but I think being a woman is a great thing to be. I do not feel the need to reject everything inherently female for everything inherently male. As much as I love and admire men, I have no desire to be anything other than a woman.

I had wonderful female role models when I was growing up.....women who were the epitome of selflessness and charity. They devoted their lives to their families and caring for those around them. They were loved and admired by all who knew them. Watching them, not once did I ever think they were oppressed or subjugated. Not once did I consider they were anything less or ever considered anything less.

When I see images of modern womanhood; pictures of women acting loud, selfish,obnoxious, promiscuous, licentious....not only am I disgusted, but I am deeply, deeply saddened, for these women truly are less...have made themselves less. I'm saddened because I realize what these woman could have been, compared to what they've become. Feminism told them to be anything they wanted...as long as it was nothing of real value. Anything under the sun a woman could aspire to be, unless it was something of worth.

It's funny because, according to feminists, any man who's against feminism is a woman-hating member of the oppressive patriarchy, yet I tend to see it in reverse. Men who hate feminism, in part, hate it because they actually care what becomes of women. Instead of saying, "Great, under feminism women are a lot more promiscuous, more sex for me..." they, like I, are saddened to see women turned into so much less than they could have been, saddened and angry to see what's become of womanhood and the subsequent effect on marriage, home and family.

I'm angry that womanhood, something I love and cherish has been tarnished and tainted so. I'm angry that feminists were allowed to tell their lies to the detriment of all society and nobody stopped them. I'm angry for all the little girls who have very little chance to amount to anything of real value because they've never been taught anything of real value.

Growing up, I was taught to seek after things that were virtuous, pure and praiseworthy; to be honest, true and charitable. This is what I now teach my children, sons and daughter, because these are the things of worth....the aspirations we should adhere to. Unfortunately, for most people, the premise of promoting such values is a virtually foreign concept. A girl is much more likely to be taught to be rude, irresponsible, selfish and shallow than any of the attributes listed above.

While feminists would mock and scorn a woman for being, first and foremost, a wife and mother, they would applaud the same woman for filing for divorce and breaking up her family because she wasn't happy. If she's home taking care of her children and family, she's barefoot and pregnant, but if she's out at the bars every weekend, getting drunk, having casual sex and aborting any unplanned pregancies....why, she's a poster child for feminism. It's long been my opinion that nothing hates womanhood more than feminism.

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Kim
YES KIM!!!
Feminism has cheapened and denigrated womanhood more than any man.
It is anti feminine. Anti reason at its dark heart though is and was MARXISM. Feminists applied his philosophy of class war to the relationship between men and women. This was preached in mass propaganda and the media were infiltrated,working great ruin

What is also overlooked time and time again is the FACT that leading feminists are 99% Lesbians.
Feminism is the theory lesbianism the practice. I watched as a young man dismayed as lecturers at my college indoctrinated young minds.
I remember later hearing the harrowing tale of parents who were shocked that their kindly feminine daughter, had been turned lesbian and took up a career in lesbian porn..Through such indoctrination at college. Thats the grim reality of what feminists are up to.
I was taken in myself for a time and supported feminism because I was horrified at their tales of men inflicting mass crimes against women. I later discovered of course that their stats and most of their tales were downright lies.
What vigilant parents should do is totally debunk feminism before their daughters get indoctrinated at college.
I see now how other vested interests promote feminism at every stage because it is useful ,money is involved as ever and its no accident that advertisers were quick to capitalise on the feminist bandwagon.

Hi Kim,


That was "Excellent"


Robert.

You do know I'm stealing this....

I'll give you credit, of course. You are what I wish I could be.

If all women were like Kim, in every way that she has so kindly told us, then I would begin to change my whole opinion of womankind in general. Right now I feel there are times when I want absolutely nothing to do with them at all. Kim at least offers some rays of hope. Hardly a day passes without me feeling that much of womankind is engaged in some delberate anti-male campaign. From the snotty little stuck up checkout operator down at Waitrose to all those snide bitches on GMTV and on the rest of the British media.

As long as the ladies on this site and in other places speak up I cannot be called a misogynist as I do not hate women. And for this I am eternally grateful.

If I didn't hold out warm feelings and hope for ladies as I do, I would be a quite different person.

A good woman is a great standard to uphold. The saddening thing is the scarcity of them.

Agreed to all, great points, Doc.

Thank you, Robert.

KM, feel free to use any or all of it, and thank you, I admire you greatly and consider that a great compliment.

@ Ledburian and Knight-errant,

Thank you, both of you. It's very sad the way feminism has prompted women to become. Honestly, I am nothing better or more than any woman has the capability of being, I was just lucky enough to have been raised differently and perceptive enough not to buy into what I discovered when I grew up. That's what's so sad and makes me so angry, women have allowed themselves to become something so much less than what they could have been and have destroyed men, families, children and society along with them.

A Regiment of like minded women, Kim, would be no bad thing at all. You express both your 'good woman' view and that of decent MRAs and good men, well.

I can imagine many women , most mature women in fact - agreeing with you - and then adding, 'But.....' and listing a hundred and one 'advances' that have been 'won' that aren't and haven't, and a thousand reasons for not 'giving up' all the privilieges they have manipulated and coerced by the lies and mendacities of feminazi AgitProp.

Meanwhile, I too, take heart from women like you, and you in particular.

Indeed...I think it's generally the "buts..." that prohibit any beneficial change.