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Why society views men as simple, and assumes that ALL women know how it feels to be a man.
The over-simplification of men
Last year a saw a wonderful programme named ‘’Curiosity’’ on
The DiscoveryChannel. In one of its earliest episodes the had a
special on the female orgasm. The fact that most scientists, and almost
EVERYONE in the entire episode had to repeat how simple the male
orgasm supposedly was only reachable during ejaculation, and is
exclusively felt during ejaculation. They went on with various theories
on the female orgasm, the most likely one being the most logical one,
where it’s to encourage semen to reach the ovaries. Despite this, the
episode went on to look for ‘’more mysterious’’ reasons for this.
The thing that kept being repeated was that men can only feel orgasms
during ejaculations… W.T.¿? As a man I can testify that I rarely have
orgasms during my ejaculation, and most aren’t as intense as the ones*
I have before. Most of my male friends told me that they had the same,
and I can name (but I won’t for the sake of privacy) only a hand full of
my friends that reach one orgasm, and specifically during their ejaculation.
* = Yes, multiple.
At first I thought that I might be weird (before asking my friends, who thought
the same about themselves), but then I did some research. I Googled (or Asked
Jeeves) the question:
Ejaculation without orgasm
There is actually a young lady that asked a the most sexist question I’ve seen
‘’ My boyfriend recently told me that he rarely has orgasms when he ejaculates. I was aware that men could have orgasms without ejaculation, but I didn't think it worked the other way around. Are men more complicated than I thought?’’
In most (primarily unsuccessful) Human cultures women are mystified, and treated
as magical creatures. In ancient times Europeans believed that a woman’s menstruation
grands her Godly powers, and if she walks around naked she can scare away insects from
crops. In modern Hollywood women on their menses are portrayed as immortal, and super-
Human (see T.V. Tropes: Menstrual menace) . In Matriachies like the many female dominated cultures of Africa, and South-East Asia, women’s mentruations are regarded
As magical, and even that a woman who’s menstruating can summon lightning to kill
ANY man she dislikes. Sumba women from the province of East Nusa-Tenggara keep
everything they do secret from any man believing that they can ‘’control’’ men as long
as they’re mysterious creatures never to be understood.
The above paragraph is an example of how a normal female thing is regarded as mystical in many Human societies, while male things are always assumed to be the most basic, and easy
to be understood things in existence.
I can’t even name the times I’ve seen American/British-&-Northern-Irish movies having the most brilliant men claiming that women are ‘’the only’’ thing they can never figure out. The spear counterpart of this though is that women who don’t understand men, do so because men are ‘’too simple’’ and ‘’often overestimated’’. There is some idea that men are the default type of Humans, and every female knows how a man feel, but the reverse is impossible. As a matter of fact we’re all female the first moments of our lives before birth. In a certain way, men are ‘’special’’ (and not the kind Hollywood portrays us as). I must admit that I will never experience what most women go through, ¿but will any of them go through what all men experience and feel? Women know as much about men, as men do about women (if not less).
Almost every hardship a woman has to go through in her life is celebrated, and considered special (menarche celebrations, all the special services for pregnant women, even though none of our ancestors had any of the luxury our wives/girl-friends have), while all the deadly tasks a man must do to ‘’prove himself’’ is considered of lesser importance. ALL women are considered to by magical, and mysterious creatures, while men are the ‘’median’’.
When a man looks for examples in his life, he will consider his Father, Mother, Siblings,
Teachers, historical figures, anyone that achieved something he wishes. Most women on the other hand will only look up at female figures. Men revere others for their achievements. Look at Marie Curie for example. Most men prize her for being a pioneer in the research regarding radioactivity, while a lot of women (especially Straw-Feminists) will only revere her as a woman who made it in a Man’s world.
Let’s take a look at the ‘’many’’ things men will never understand about women:
Menses, Pregnancy… Maybe having female parts (excluding breasts since some men have them too), breast feeding (although men CAN lactate)… Well that’s it.
Now, let’s look at the things women can never understand about us:
Being desperate/lonely, although many women will claim to be ‘’unwanted’’ there isn’t a single female on the face of this planet that couldn’t get a husband if she just went outside of her hous, and presented her buttocks in any direction. Men on the other hand will have to ‘’prove themselves’’ to get even the lowest of women, and need to have a minimum of a large number of qualities.
Having to work for something (I must give credit to the women who still go through ‘’natural-’’pregnancies): Nothing is ever handed out to a man (not even is he’s a blue-blood), and there are no ‘’gentlemen’s nights’’ where a man can get a free drink. A man must work hard for his money (not all men), and will usually spend all of his hard earned bucks at things to please women who will accept his ‘’free’’ drinks, and reject him anyway.
Having ALL of your emotions disregarded: As a man none of my friends will support me through emotional quests they themselves have experienced before, the only person that cares for me who isn’t related to me by blood, is my girl-friend, and she would have ‘’limited’’ empathy regarding male issues. Men get rejected ALL THE TIME, and 20% of the American men, get 80% of the American women (even though I do not live in those United States). Men have tougher times after break-up’s (including divorces), and all the heterosexual young males who commit suicide are being ignored by the public, while even the smallest of female ‘’nuisances’’ caused by a few men, will automatically blame ALL men for this minority.
All your good qualities are automatically your ‘’feminine side’’: Men taking care of their children is normal in most Human societies, and men caring for their children is somehow seen as ‘’the male ‘’mother instinct’’’’ while this IS true, there is also a little thing known as ‘’Father instinct’’ that makes sure that men care for THEIR children. Men will get less involved if there is a suspicion that his woman cheated on him, and has someone else’s offspring and DEMANDS him to take care of those children. Women will ALWAYS have a certainty that her children, are (in fact) HER children. While men don’t.
All men EVER think about is sex:
I must admit that in my case this is true, I can not claim to be able to read other men’s minds, but I am actually known for my libido by my friends (my nickname is Japanese Nazi Porn, don’t ask me how I got it), and many (if not most) men have plenty of hobbies, daily activities that do not revolve around sex. I must admit that men build civilization to sustain larger groups of people, and having better accommodations for women, so we could get laid. Women are hypergamous, and want men who are superior to them, so to fulfil this need, we had to become better to get WITH them, and now women are complaining that we’re not making ‘’the game’’ easy enough for them. We build civilization for you, we made your lives easier, and now you wish to proclaim your superiority…
I remember reading an article written for the American Psychology ‘’something’’ that stated that all male innovations are a luxury. The person made many mistakes in that article, but what pissed me off the most, was the fact that after women ‘’introduced’’ men to all women’s issues, that the lives of women, and children saved because of male innovation is ‘’just a luxury’’, ¿are you claiming that women’s live are less important if they’re saved by men?
Having erections at moments you wish you hadn’t:
I keep hearing women saying that men will never know how it is to have a vagina. Well, women will never know how it is to have a penis. It’s as simple as that. Women have their own unique problems, and have many products to deal with them. We men on the other hand have to improvise (like wearing special clothes). People will offer women understanding when there’s a problem ‘’there’’, while men get laughed at, and mocked. Then it’s followed with blame (‘’you should be more careful pointing your filthy thing’’).
I could rant on for hours on these ridiculous double standards, but what pisses me off the most about American culture (I’ve lived in those U.S. for 20 years, as an illegal immigrant) is the fact that men get called childish for the smallest of reasons, while women are not expected to take responsibility for their actions. When young girls play with dolls, it’s a girl thing, when she grows-up, and still plays with them, it’s just a woman who’s youthful. If a boy older than 12 still plays with comics, watches cartoons, and/or have even the slightest interest in ‘’ something fun’’ that doesn’t involve women, it’s suddenly ‘’CHILDISH’’, I hear the world childish being used against men all the freakin’ time. If a man does X, he’s childish, if a woman does X, it’s just good fun. We must get rid of this ‘’childish’’ double standard(, and yes, I’m calling the double standard itself childish, since Straw-Feminists pointing their fingers at men, and calling them childish, is in fact childish).
I can name millions of more double standards, what we need is a general list of double standards, unite all M.R.M. and spread all of these, other men will follow with the discrimination they face, and the list will become mighty. Much like Man Woman Myth did.
A list of points, and cross it trough as soon as our cultures will evolve beyond the accepted misandry most tolerate, and even encourage. Men are just as complicated (if not more) as women, and we shouldn’t get treated as simpletons, who screw everything up, and need the ‘’almighty woman’’ to fix everything for us. The Feminist waves must invite the M.R.M.’s to the round table, and address us. If they wish to keep their monopoly, we’ll spread the word, and tell our friends. In the Kingdom of the Netherlands we say: ‘’never bite the hand that feeds you’’, men have been feeding women since the beginning of our species, and the 2nd Feminist wave (+ the 3rd Feminist wave) are biting the hand that feeds them, and demand more food. The Japanese herbivore men have shown us the solution, we should follow the Asians, for their wisdom can guide us away from the dogs (you know what a female dog is called) that bite their feeder’s hands.
I do not hate women, I hate female supremacists. Intelligent women can see that their Fathers, Brothers, nephews, husbands/boy-friends, and/or sons are being oppressed. And we must thank all women that have rejected Straw-Feminism (I only find women who wish ‘’true equality’’ worthy of the term feminist). Kudos to those who have gotten their children back.
¿Do you really wish to live in a world where your sons will get discriminated in the schools, work-force, and pension?
I do not claim all of the above as facts, just observations I’ve made in the past 20 years, I do not hate women, I have a girl-friend, and love her so much that I would sacrifice my life for her happiness. I do not advocate any violence against anyone. I also do not claim menstruation as unimportant, just overrated. I have a lot of respect for pregnant women(, and those who have biological children), but I have to point out that women will never know how it feels to be a man.
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Re: Why society views men as simple, and assumes that ALL women know how it feels to be a man.
Many new age independent females want equality until it goes against them. Everyone must understand how a woman feels but heaven forbid anyone giving men an ounce of sympathy or respect. The State has enabled them so much, that they've become spoiled brats. Pagan religions are very matriarchal too, so that adds to that.
The whole menstruation thing gets on my nerves too. Don't even get me started on girls that use PMS/period issues to be lazy, act bitchy and get a special pass for whatever. Whenever you hear I hear females spout that crap, I tell them to shut up, take a midol or aleve and just deal with it. I don't like women blaming pregnancy on men either, as they are just as responsible and can say no too. Menstruation and pregnancy is just something women deal with, so nothing special at all.
I may not be a man but I have respect for men and apologize for how women have behaved and treated them like. Men sacrifice and do so much for humanity, yet don't get the thanks they deserve. Boys aren't getting the attention they need in their families, schools and life in general. Yes females should get attention and treated well but boys deserve just as much as they get, as they have feelings and want to be loved. I haven't gone exactly what you have but I know what it's like to be bullied, backstabbed, abused and disappointed in people. People can be horrible, whether they are male or female.
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