Consult a lawyer and start making money now to pay this lawyer. Or you can consult the many abuse centers available for men.

Seriously though, you could start by getting the help you seek through knowledge like your doing now. The answers will come through discussion and time. Keep at it.

Men who are victims are not very well appreciated in north america. Many will tell you to 'Man up'.

Finding a good male role model in which you can confide in will also be key to helping you get over the abuse you have received from this woman.

However, treating a male like shit is not seen as a crime. Only when a woman feels she has been treated like shit does this enter the realm of possible crime that only needs hearsay. If you reside in this continent of north america, check out VAWA, you will see the male is excluded from this.

You must show evidence beyond reasonable doubt you were abused under law. This will be very time and cash consuming for you. If you venture in this route, be prepared.

My advice is to not endorse a victim role and to always stay in action for your self and set this as a priority. Seek your answers always and put forth your self improvement as a main goal in life.

That is how you beat an abuser. By being smarter and stronger than them in the long run. They want you down, it is up to you to not stay down or die trying.

A good avenue for revenge is to take a shit in her favorite shoes.

Is there a non violent way to get revenge for all the abuse she put me through?

I googled,"adult bully",when i realized what these people are all about--i felt better.

And have been having fun making that person look stupid.

It's non-violent and can be quite entertaining.

There are quite a few ways that you can play payback but it's just not something you would discuss here as there are way too many lurkers who would seek you harm..

The worst thing you can do to her - is be a better man than her... a better person.

Don't stoop to her levels.

Thanks guys. I simply want her to pay for what she's done. The laws of society are bullshit. Women are getting away with murder LITERALLY(Casey Anthony). I'm willing to do whatever it takes to bring feminism to it's knees. *With the help of fellow mgtows, I will stand against injustices perpatuated by women who think that privilege is a birth right.

Women are getting away with murder LITERALLY(Casey Anthony).

There is a lot more than just this one case. Happily this site has much documented for all to see. Eventually I hope we will see equal time for equal crime for both genders. It would be a good start. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

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There is a lot more than just this one case. Happily this site has much documented for all to see. Eventually I hope we will see equal time for equal crime for both genders. It would be a good start. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

*I agree with you. There are a lot more cases out there for sure. If women want to be equal, they should cut all this double standard and false rape accusation bullshit. I have given up on the justice system, and advice men to use vigilantism when dealing with women. They wanna play hard...PLAY HARDER!!!!

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*My step-mom has been abusive towards me for as long as I could remember. She treated me like shit growing up, and made my dad hate her. I swore to mysef that when I get strong enough to fight back, I'd make her pay for what she's done. The problem is that since I got older, I simply lost the nerve to go through with it. The desire to harm her is still there, but I'm too scared of the consequences. Is there a non violent way to get revenge for all the abuse she put me through?

I am guilty as the next person trying to seek revenge, but as my day in court last week proved, you can allow others to impose justice on your enemy. Your not alone, the world is full of people seeking revenge for past injustices placed on them. As Nick points out you need to arm yourself with knowledge, and seek out a role model. As you start to understand and apply wisdom to it, you will as Marx's said rise above it, by not stooping to their level.

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I am guilty as the next person trying to seek revenge, but as my day in court last week proved, you can allow others to impose justice on your enemy. Your not alone, the world is full of people seeking revenge for past injustices placed on them. As Nick points out you need to arm yourself with knowledge, and seek out a role model. As you start to understand and apply wisdom to it, you will as Marx's said rise above it, by not stooping to their level.

...and rise I will

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...and rise I will

I wanted to add something in my previous post, but here will do fine. Ill share with you just a little, but if you ever need someone to talk to I will gladly call or chat wherever you are in the world.

As a 7 year old I was sexually abused, along with the usual abuse I got growing up in hard neighbourhood in Nth. East England. The sexual abuse did not come at the hands of my father, but someone outside of the family. Revenge was only sought when as an adult the nightmares I had, where in truth suppressed memories of the past. You learn to deal with those and try your best to move on and up.

Thanks for sharing your painful past with me. I can't imagine what that must have been like, especially at the age of 7. My sympathies go out to you.*

*It drives me crazy how people can get away with such atrocious acts. Judgement day is at hand my brothers. Lets watch in glory as these tyrants fall 1 by 1.

Revenge is a hollow victory when it is a victory at all.

Becoming the person you want revenge against is not a victory in my opinion.

Being a better person and making your step mother nothing more than an unpleasant memory would be a far better victory.

You can't cure abuse with more abuse or racism with more racism or sexism with more sexism etc etc this is where feminists went off of the track of equality and unto the track of being the very people they claim to hate and fight against. And it has no one any good in the long run.

I know what you mean @chevalier. I'm not going to beat her up, but I want her to know how much pain she put me through. When I talk to her, she acts like I don't exist, and basically looks down on me. This burns me to the core, especially knowing justice won't be served.