why bother?
This is a discussion on why bother? within the Dating, Love and Sex anti misandry forums, part of the Advice Corner category; Id like to start a general thread about the mating game. It seems to me that its a massively time-consuming ...
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why bother?
Id like to start a general thread about the mating game.
It seems to me that its a massively time-consuming and destractive matter however one looks at it for most folk, and the "rewards" are.. What exactly?
I sporadically indulge to a greater or lesser degree, and invariably end up wishing I could think of a better way of spending my time, such as growing a beard or something..
Has anyone tried out intercoursenet dating?
There are many sites, some of them are free..
What is common to all sites though, is that with a very short period of time, if you are male, you will probably end up detesting women very quickly if you spend more than a very short amount of time on them!
Ugh!!!
Its like...




- 26th-May-2010 # ADS
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Re: why bother?
Man, I'm probably gonna end up regretting answering this, but yes, I have previously tried one of those sites. In fact, I ended up in a serious relationship with someone I met through a site like that.
"Civilization can only revive when there shall come into being in a number of individuals a new tone of mind, independent of the prevalent one among the crowds, and in opposition to it- a tone of mind which will gradually win influence over the collective one, and in the end determine its character. Only an ethical movement can rescue us from barbarism, and the ethical comes into existence only in individuals."
"Until he extends his circle of compassion to include all living things, man will not himself find peace."-Albert Schweitzer
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Lifes too short to go round regretting every little thing you do darling!!
You only met one geezer on one of those webwank sites?
I have met a lot, off a lot of sites..
I could tell some real tales!! (no doubt I will as well!!)
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Call me shy, selective, whatever...but I had a profile on (a site that shall remain nameless) for about two years. Over that time I met four people. I went on a single date each with the first three. Totally platonic. Nice, but no real chemistry. The fourth I ended up being with exclusively for three years!
Oh yeah, I got stood up once. Didn't like it much. He came up with a real goody of an excuse, though...lol
"Civilization can only revive when there shall come into being in a number of individuals a new tone of mind, independent of the prevalent one among the crowds, and in opposition to it- a tone of mind which will gradually win influence over the collective one, and in the end determine its character. Only an ethical movement can rescue us from barbarism, and the ethical comes into existence only in individuals."
"Until he extends his circle of compassion to include all living things, man will not himself find peace."-Albert Schweitzer
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Re: why bother?
aye. I tend to go on sites for no more than a few days, usually meet several, shaft them and then wish I had not bothered!
Most of the women are clueless about what they really want, they either pretend they want a good shafting, then moan when they have had it "i dont just want sex..."
Or, they pretend they "dont just want sex" then insist you fuck their brains out when you meet them...
Either way... I think you can guess what I do in each case!!
But so many of them seem to want to just yabber and yabber about fuck all.. and they are so often competely deluded as to what men think of them!
I reckon they think they are so special with all these hundreds of men on those sites wooing them..
DO they not reallise that most men would throw their wad at ANYTHING with an axewound?
Probably! BUt they still let it go to their heads and get all "up themselves!"..
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Well, I concur....women are the minority on sites like that, and so they are by virtue of their rarity they are something of a commodity and many of them seem to know it. I suppose some do let it go to their heads. Some of them are really rude, too. For the life of me I can't figure out why any guy would go for the bitches...but many don't seem to mind being treated like shit. I've observed (in the chat rooms) a few women who really think they're something talking to guys like they're dirt...and somehow, they still get a lot of attention from men.
Last edited by Incognito; 26th-May-2010 at 04:42 AM.
"Civilization can only revive when there shall come into being in a number of individuals a new tone of mind, independent of the prevalent one among the crowds, and in opposition to it- a tone of mind which will gradually win influence over the collective one, and in the end determine its character. Only an ethical movement can rescue us from barbarism, and the ethical comes into existence only in individuals."
"Until he extends his circle of compassion to include all living things, man will not himself find peace."-Albert Schweitzer
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Re: why bother?
Indeed incog. Men prostrate themselves to the axewound to a riduclous level.
I have done many experiments in such places and it always results in the expected outcomes.
It shows the immense power women have over men when they are free to use their "limited resource" to get attention from men.
I very much wonder why men so often have no reservation about continually pandering to those ego-freak women who really, are nothing of much value at the end of the day and certainly far and away unworthy of such attention from the pussyslaves they humiliate and manginatise..
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Yes, it's a puzzle to me, as well. My observation: these ego-driven women who humiliate and degrade men for fun tend also to have several other unattractive qualities and are rather open about it. Not sure what the draw for men would be, but if it really is just the slut-factor, that's kind of sad!
Last edited by Incognito; 26th-May-2010 at 05:15 AM.
"Civilization can only revive when there shall come into being in a number of individuals a new tone of mind, independent of the prevalent one among the crowds, and in opposition to it- a tone of mind which will gradually win influence over the collective one, and in the end determine its character. Only an ethical movement can rescue us from barbarism, and the ethical comes into existence only in individuals."
"Until he extends his circle of compassion to include all living things, man will not himself find peace."-Albert Schweitzer
- 26th-May-2010 #9
Re: why bother?
Yes, yes. But.....
Let's fce it, the internet is just one more way for men and women to gravitate toward one another.
And we do.
This, despite all the lessons of ten thousand years and the last six months.
Men and women are made for one another.
Cum dilectione hominum et odio vitiorum
Love the Sinner but not the Sin.
(St. Augustine)
“ For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers,
against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. “
(and within ourselves)
(Ephesians 6:12 (KJV)
A Feminist is a human being who has lost her way and turned vicious.
If you meet one on the road as you Go your Own Way,
offer kindness but keep your sword drawn.
(Me)
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Re: why bother?
It is sad indeed. I think many men like the idea of serving women and being some sort of a "hero" in the eyes of, whoever!
Im beggining to wonder if there is any alternative these days to internet dating for a man who wants to get flange..
Seems it is monopolising the mating game these days, normal social interaction seems to be not conducive any lomger, that is a scarey thought! we are at risk of becoming reliant on technology for mating! What a nasty concept!
- 26th-May-2010 #11
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Re: why bother?
I have never come remotely close to that.. But, I have to say, it is far easier to get flange from a dating shite than any other place..
For one thing, its from the comfart of your own chair, for another, you can pick and choose your victims, and you have plenty of time to chat with them and manipulate them etc..
For the skilled dicksmith, its a piece of urine..
I am not sure how important it is to be a handsome chappy with a huge dique..
I have never tried dating sites from the perspective of anything else though, so I cant be sure on that!
But, if you are not really in the mood for them, they can be the most depressing of places!
- 27th-May-2010 #13
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Re: why bother?
I never graduated to such high falutin venues !
mine were cathouses or street corner operators who were strictly renting out their goods for the most $$$ for the least output
but I was never deluded about romantic liaisons
you can't get blood outta a stone
finding the right soulmate is part luck and part judgment
the downside is awful
- 27th-May-2010 #15




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