The value of sex in this day and age

**Kargan3033** · 20th-May-2010

Well to me it seems that sex in this day and age is not what it use to be in days gone by, since we are bombarded by sex all most 24/7/365 it seems to me that sex as a whole no longer has any other mean then just the fullfillment of base needs were as little as 30 years ago people where more passionet in their encounters with their lovers, hench the term Lovemaking.

It seems to me that since there is so much sex out there in public, on tv, the net and so on that people have forgotten what the real meaning of Lovemaking is, to most people now a days it's all about geting their rocks off.

To me the main diffreance between sex and lovemaking is that sex is just for fun, lovemaking is something that a person does to show their love for the one they love by making that lucky person writh and moan and scream in extacy as well as a boding between to bodies, hearts, minds and souls as well as reafermation of the comitment between Lovers.

Sad to say this is one of the many reasons why relationships fail becase the people involved are having sex for the sake of their own pleasure and not making love as a very profound expression of their love for the one they love.

**Percy** · 21st-May-2010

You have a point.

**Kargan3033** · 21st-May-2010

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You have a point.

Thanks Bro I just wished more people understood such things, if people really understood the true diffreance between sex and lovemaking I think relationships would be more last because coupes would know that not only to the love the one they are with but that the one they are with loves them back

**julie** · 21st-May-2010

I was talking to a modern active MRA yesterday.

He was telling me how women approach him for sex when he's out protesting. The older MRAs just can't believe it and tease him because they've never had such luck. I also saw the amount of women coming onto his site asking to go out with him and women from all over the world asking him to come to their country for a relationship.

Since I know women are like this, I also know MRAs on men's sites will be getting the same thing.

It sure is different and I hope it continues to progress.

**julie** · 21st-May-2010

Quote from Kargan3033

Thanks Bro I just wished more people understood such things, if people really understood the true diffreance between sex and lovemaking I think relationships would be more last because coupes would know that not only to the love the one they are with but that the one they are with loves them back

I think we all need to remember that 50% of marriages don't break up. That means there's still a good chance you'll meet someone who has the same outlook on sex like yourself.

**Incognito** · 21st-May-2010

I just don't think sex measures up to lovemaking at all, so I agree with you, Kargan.

**Zuberi** · 21st-May-2010

You have the sex revolution to thank for lowering the value of love making.
It was free sex that lent a helping hand in destroying femininity and the family.

**julie** · 21st-May-2010

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You have the sex revolution to thank for lowering the value of love making.
It was free sex that lent a helping hand in destroying femininity and the family.

Er, not true.

The sex revolution came about because everyone was already having sex. You've got to remember, IMO, that TV opened up discussion on things that were once considered Taboo to talk about.

**Percy** · 21st-May-2010

By the Lord Harry. !

You mean people were doing it before 1970?

**Zuberi** · 21st-May-2010

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By the Lord Harry. !

You mean people were doing it before 1970?

Before the 70's everybody was doing drugs.
It was a fucking mess!

**shaazam** · 21st-May-2010

the sex revolution was the outcome of dissolution of the strictures on sex between hetero sexual folk when the Pill became mass produced and cheap - a great stain of shame on young wimyn when I was a boy was extra marital pregnacy;

once the wimyn became alert to the fact that fornicating was virtually free from risk of unwanted children they went full blast shagging !
a little later the abortion doctors got the green light and so now it seems that since Roe vs Wade in the USA millions of babies have been aborted - wimyn's right to choose about their bodies etc

so when young men contemplate marriage nowadays what are the odds of her being a virgin hahahahh maybe 50 men ago ahahahhahah maybe some wimyn too

leave marriage for the birds young man ! I say

zuberi saw the risk

**Marx** · 21st-May-2010

Kargon, this is a great post with a solid point behind it. The dissolution of sex has, imho, also increased affairs thus destroying loving relationships. Slowly but surely, societal values are being broken down.

**julie** · 21st-May-2010

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the sex revolution was the outcome of dissolution of the strictures on sex between hetero sexual folk when the Pill became mass produced and cheap - a great stain of shame on young wimyn when I was a boy was extra marital pregnacy;

once the wimyn became alert to the fact that fornicating was virtually free from risk of unwanted children they went full blast shagging !
a little later the abortion doctors got the green light and so now it seems that since Roe vs Wade in the USA millions of babies have been aborted - wimyn's right to choose about their bodies etc

so when young men contemplate marriage nowadays what are the odds of her being a virgin hahahahh maybe 50 men ago ahahahhahah maybe some wimyn too

leave marriage for the birds young man ! I say

zuberi saw the risk

Shaz, I can understand the pill made terrific progress regarding sex. Even husbands and wives found more pleasure in it knowing it didn't have to mean another baby was on the way. But to me, there's much more to look at.

I thought it funny (in a strange way) that only men could divorce over adultery before 'no fault' came into play.

I also watched a doco on female killers and one was back in the 1920's when she killed her 2 flatmates over a rich man who had lots of women on the side. Also enjoying to hear stories of older people in society meeting their brothers and sisters who were put in orphanages because the fathers were already married.

Personally, even though I understand some men want to look solely at women's faults, it's no where near the truth when you miss out half of the story.

**Percy** · 21st-May-2010

The Pill certainly 'liberated' women from the probability of pregnancy.

Pregnancy is under a woman's complete control.

So why do we have abortion at all?

**conaill** · 21st-May-2010

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I think we all need to remember that 50% of marriages don't break up. That means there's still a good chance you'll meet someone who has the same outlook on sex like yourself.

The 50% you mention where the marriages have not broken up,as yet,is where the man has handed his ball's over to his wife,and she only hand's them back when she need's them,they are pathetic creature's,they stay in the submissive position because his whole world will be turned to shit if he tried to make a break for freedom,there are exception's where i see a marriage, where there is balance,but only two out of ten,and those two is where the wife is 15 years plus younger and the wife is not from the west.