Study show for every 5 years of a intimate relationship or marriage, it takes 1 year of grieving or simply hidden feelings to be buried . The consequences of hopping quickly back into another relationship could be lack of trust of partner, Not letting your guard down just a couple for example. A man or women after their relationship ends tend to look for shortly after a replacement for the personal lose with out knowing it. And doing this usually turns out to be a mistake (no 2 persons are alike), like the old saying "Time heals old Wounds" and this in my opinion is the best medicine for your health.

Well said Electro, indeed a years break is needed after a long term relationship to let find your emotional balance before starting up again.

electro says it right in my opinion--after a break-up,the lack of trust or not letting your guard down(justified),is very hard,if not impossible to get over.Nevermind the anti-male laws which is like living with a gun to your head at your companions discression.

Some of these women nowadays know exactly how to use the law as extortion and robbery of a man's assets

Take a guy,who after divorce keeps his home and does alright for himself--he is not just gonna let the next partner move in and strip him of half of everything he fought for and kept,after she lives with him for 6 months-i know some guys that would be more than willing to throw away their assets for a piece of bum and the hopes of neverending love-i also know a few of these guys who are now paying for nothing less than prostitution fees in the form of legal extortion for this fantasy


it just is not viable for guys like this to even risk it anymore