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I don't know about "regular" women (or whatever you want to call them), but I THINK what women want (well, this is what *I* want) is to be dominated by a man we love and trust. Certainly not a stranger walking down a dark street at night, I can't imagine any woman wanting that.

Well, the whole game is feminised fishflaps.. I have knowledge of women who want all sorts of stuff.. Or they say they do, but a womans words dont mean squat..

Dont you think it paradoxical that a woman WANTS to be dominated? Then they fucking moan about it?

What you think is being dominated, is actually your feminine trickery, because it is YOU that are getting what you want.. Therefore, you are dominant..

Maybe bubby does this to please you..

Maybe what he wants is a nice piece of young pussy to dominate.. while you do the housework.. and bring the snacks to keep his energy levels up!

Now, thats what I call proper dominating!!

I DON'T know why, but I like you.

God I must be freaking insane!

(btw what IS that weird avatar?)

Overheard a talk once between a girl and her boyfriend (thin walls) and she said she wanted a little spontaneity when having a little fun. She wanted him to sometime just roll her over and take her. Of course my first thought was that while it may be fun it is asking for an accusation of rape.

Its a piece of artwork from vomitus maximus

http://www.vomitus.com/

Insanity is not a bad thing, its the logical response to an illogical world..

BDSM is actually rather PC and feministic (they are always falling over themselves to prove that BDSM is egalitarian, etc etc., and that the S/M scene ends when the bedroom door opens, etc etc), and of course their focus is much more on female dominants/male submissives than the other way around.

Does the BDSM scene focus on female dominants and male submissives more because there are simply more male subs, or because it is more socially “acceptable” to do so? I’ve always been under the impression that the hysteria over domestic violence etc, and the current belief that male domination is always inherently wrong, has meant that whenever this stuff appears in the mainstream it always seems to take on a female as dominant style.

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Does the BDSM scene focus on female dominants and male submissives more because there are simply more male subs, or because it is more socially “acceptable” to do so? I’ve always been under the impression that the hysteria over domestic violence etc, and the current belief that male domination is always inherently wrong, has meant that whenever this stuff appears in the mainstream it always seems to take on a female as dominant style.

I tend to think its the latter. I highly doubt there are that many true male subs in the world...unless I'm just not that aware of it. I think it is natural for females to desire to be submissive to the man in their lives. I think its Biblically-based, for one thing.

But for a lot of women, its not PC to openly admit to wanting male dominance; after all, what would her girly friends think, esp if they're feminists (and since feminism has influenced so many women today...)

I think the world of BDSM gives feminist-infected females a way to vent their submissive and possibly masochistic fantasies without fear of worrying "what will my feminist friends think". IOW politically correct male dom fantasies. Its one major reason why I like Taken in Hand better.

Everything about the sex industry is highly feminised..

Why would it not be?

Sex is the ultimate female weapon..

it is ludicrous to think that women can really be "sexually oppressed"..

Sexually starved maybe!

They have two effective tools, both have lips on them..

They are both used for communicating and both hard for a man to counter..

Stiching a womans curtains together will do her greater harm than taping her mouth shut..

AH pointed the way to that site a few years ago - as an example of the frustration that many western women feel.

But as you say, it's still very PC - that's why I left.

BTW the woman who runs that site is a friend of mine named Sarah....she is also an Englishwoman and would like to meet a very traditional TIH kind of man (thought I'd put in a shameless plug for her since we have so many Englishmen here She is not by any means at all a feminist, but because she has been criticized extensively by feminists for her site, she tries to avoid the subject on her web domain (though some feminists sometimes post to her TIH site.)

So who's Louise? A mod?

Louise is a woman who has been on there forever...or at least since a few years ago when I first found the site.

Sarah Penny owns it, and runs it...unless she has Louise doing some moderating?

Aside from some erotic fun and games, a D/s lifestyle is not for me. I am not naturally submissive neither do I wish to dominate. I can tolerate being either slightly dominant or slightly submissive, but I am not comfortable with the balance of power being too far to either side. The idea of "domestic discipline" makes my stomach turn.

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Louise is a woman who has been on there forever...or at least since a few years ago when I first found the site.

Sarah Penny owns it, and runs it...unless she has Louise doing some moderating?

I bet shes a slack as a horse.. But, I stretch her!!

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Aside from some erotic fun and games, a D/s lifestyle is not for me. I am not naturally submissive neither do I wish to dominate. I can tolerate being either slightly dominant or slightly submissive, but I am not comfortable with the balance of power being too far to either side. The idea of "domestic discipline" makes my stomach turn.

Indeed, sex is a truly terrible thing to consider in excess.. In fact, its best avoided as much as possible.. I always make great efforts to avoid the temptations of the flesh.. I have been known to strap lord johnson to my leg, wear boxing gloves while I sleep.. Groom my horse and pony.. anything to keep the beast at bay!

Its not a plaything, any woman who treats her body like a tool to tease men with deserves a damned goo... ARGH ! foiled again!! They keep tricking me!!

Save me from sin!!

Satan himself could not be so wicked!

Ah Drex, it must be rough! Here does this help?
Fugly

Watch out for the harpoon boats!