i know im not supposed to post in here anymore, or am i banned or what i dont know,

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i know im not supposed to post in here anymore, or am i banned or what i dont know,

Welcome back FC, I told you to stay away for your own good, but no doubt you are going to ignore me again!!

Obviously, your ban has expired and you can once again partake in this wonderful world at AM..

but i would like to mention that today in my kids nursery, they were handing out little nicky-nacky things that kids like, they gave me a questionaire and it turned out they were asking me if i had been, or i knew someone who was suffering from domestic violence..

now, my partner, along with many other men drop of their kids just as often as i do in this nursery, and they all know them, so i think effectively they are pointing the finger at them, They are acusing men of domestic violence. Men who they know.

all around are posters saying 'does he make you feel small'.. i can't help but think if it said blacks instead of he, it wouldn't be acceptable. Im not a sheep and i get bloody angry when people tell me what to think and try and stick their nose in my relationships.

isnt domestic violence unisex? aparently not.

im starting to worry about what propaganda these people are telling my kids while they are there?

i honestly think, that these people rarely if ever catch anyone who is a genuine victim of domestic violence and instead, point the finger at genuine and caring family men, who appear awkward in social situations.

Oh yes, that is the feminazi gestapo alive and kicking in your local childrens group.. From before birth these harridens spew their filth out..

what should i say in a situation like that?

what is the correct thing to say.

The correct thing to say would probably get you imprisoned, so its usually best to just snarl at them and say its a smile..

My father was once approached by women collecting money for battered women, he was in a busy pub at the time with lots of friends and many women around, including my mother..

He looked the woman collecting the money and her friends striaght in the eye and said..

"Why on Earth would I give you money? I am a wife beater.."

Apparently, several folk then wondered what to say!!

why don't these men stand up for themseves, are they scared? what do they feel when they are put into a situation like that?

there was a guy there, he cowered in the corner, nobody paid him any attention, as if he wasn't there.

It is, I think, a slow psychological abuse, a death by a thousand cuts, the constant bombardment of antimale imagery that suggests "all men are potential rapists", " all men are potential woman beaters"..

The desired result is obvious, men must seek at all times to prove themselves..

"Hey, I am not one of the nasty rapists and wife beaters!!"..

Any man who does not declare himself thus is indeed dodgy..

(In the eyes of the feminazi scum)..

Personally, I like to be slightly different..

I loudly proclaim that I am not a potential rapist, I am a convicted one, and women need a damned good thrashing to put them in their place...

Oddly, the idiot feminazi's tend to assume I am joking, and almost as quickly drop their knickers and take Drexian wood..

Most men dont stand up for themselves because they are shitpants of losing the approval or the femiwhores..

And, even worse, there will always be some mangina pillock who wants to have a go at any gent who is brave enough to point out that DV is a damned good thing and long may women live in fear!!

First off, welcome back, FC. No one really wanted you banned, and just hoped you'd cut some of the shit out.

Anyways, yes, the entire DV industry is biased against men. The original DV movement in the UK was started by Erin Pizzey, and was great, but then radical femcunts took over, and ever since it has been 1 lie after another. I've suffered DV by the hands of women, so I know what it's like.

Good post, anyway.

yes, but we can forget the past because she still has sexy nipples and has noted a problem that concerns us!!

If you want to do something about it FC, talk to those in charge. Tell them what messages this is giving to the children. Talk about the fathers. Ask things like, "how do you think it affects them?" Remind them how much we need fathers participating in their children's lives.

Ask other teachers what they think of it.

Speak up. It is wrong and you have to DO something.

Or you can always take them down your self.

I think you should go to whomever is in charge at the nursery and tell them you don't appreciate them exposing your children to gender stereotypes, that domestic violence is committed by people of both genders and stereotyping men is such a way around children is irresponsible.

I ran into a situation a while back, I had seen a DV poster in the courthouse I was interested in. While it was by no means completely gender neutral, it was an enormous improvement over the usual 'wife cowering in a corner with enraged husband, hand raised, towering over her' you usually see. The poster included individual clips of a woman, a man, an old man, a disabled girl, children...all looking sad with the heading, "The Is No One Face Of Domestic Violence". Anyhow, I was quite intriqued by it and contacted our local domestic violence group to ask about it. The told me it had been put out by the state and I was welcome to come in and get one. I went down to their office and even though I know they had many of these posters (they told me I could have as many as I liked) not one of them was hung in the office. Every wall had your traditional bruised and battered wife poster adorning it. I asked the lady at the front desk why, when they had posters that presented a much more accurate picture of DV, did they not put them up but continued to use the same gender-biased posters. Her response was that the only people they ever see in there are women so they felt those posters would be more appropriate. I chatted a bit with her about DV statistics and the unfair stigma placed on men and she did agree with me. I haven't been back so I don't know if they put up one of the posters but at least I got the point out there and perhaps it'll make her think in the future.

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I think you should go to whomever is in charge at the nursery and tell them you don't appreciate them exposing your children to gender stereotypes, that domestic violence is committed by people of both genders and stereotyping men is such a way around children is irresponsible.

I ran into a situation a while back, I had seen a DV poster in the courthouse I was interested in. While it was by no means completely gender neutral, it was an enormous improvement over the usual 'wife cowering in a corner with enraged husband, hand raised, towering over her' you usually see. The poster included individual clips of a woman, a man, an old man, a disabled girl, children...all looking sad with the heading, "The Is No One Face Of Domestic Violence". Anyhow, I was quite intriqued by it and contacted our local domestic violence group to ask about it. The told me it had been put out by the state and I was welcome to come in and get one. I went down to their office and even though I know they had many of these posters (they told me I could have as many as I liked) not one of them was hung in the office. Every wall had your traditional bruised and battered wife poster adorning it. I asked the lady at the front desk why, when they had posters that presented a much more accurate picture of DV, did they not put them up but continued to use the same gender-biased posters. Her response was that the only people they ever see in there are women so they felt those posters would be more appropriate. I chatted a bit with her about DV statistics and the unfair stigma placed on men and she did agree with me. I haven't been back so I don't know if they put up one of the posters but at least I got the point out there and perhaps it'll make her think in the future.

Kim, this just shows how thick these people are. If you get a chance to do that again I wonder whether mentioning that the only reason they would be getting only women coming in is because they are not making a place friendly enough for others to come in. If there was only men on the walls, women wouldn't approach the place either.

They get what they portray themselves as. Would they get children coming forward whose mothers assaulted them or would those children stay away from the counter because the walls show them they are not worthy in this place?

Kim, this just shows how thick these people are. If you get a chance to do that again I wonder whether mentioning that the only reason they would be getting only women coming in is because they are not making a place friendly enough for others to come in. If there was only men on the walls, women wouldn't approach the place either.

I did mention to her that there was no way a man would feel comfortable seeking help in a place that had those kind of posters plastered on every wall. She agreed but said she didn't think men would come there regardless, though. Which I had to agree with. I imagine the stigma placed upon men concerning such things acts as a far greater deterrant than a few posters. Regardless, though, the message they're sending to anyone who should happen to enter their facility is wrong.

DV is the biggest contrick in the book..

Violence is perfectly legal as long the the monopolist of violence, the state, decides to inflict it upon those who it decides deserve it..

Violence between strangers is somehow regarded as "different" to violence between intimate partners..

Perhaps there is good reason for this, but the criminalisation of disagreements and the "emotional" aspects of DV mean that it is pretty easy for anyone to take the attitude, should they wish, that milking victim status will give them a better outcome, easier divorce, etc..

Emphasis on family destruction and rebuilding relationships on state approved lines lie at the bottom of the current DV obsessives agenda..

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You WERE banned for a certain amount of time - that time has passed, so you were un-banned, and are again able to post, if you choose to do so.

Spot on. The ban was listed specifically as a temporary one, it was never permanent.

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Fruit_Cake on antimisandry.com:

I can only say she's entitled to an opinion and will to speak on her own grounds... even if the majority isn't close to truth.

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yes, but we can forget the past because she still has sexy nipples and has noted a problem that concerns us!!

I don't know about the nipples issue, but yep, it's gone and as others have said, she's had her calm down time.

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I did mention to her that there was no way a man would feel comfortable seeking help in a place that had those kind of posters plastered on every wall. She agreed but said she didn't think men would come there regardless, though. Which I had to agree with. I imagine the stigma placed upon men concerning such things acts as a far greater deterrant than a few posters. Regardless, though, the message they're sending to anyone who should happen to enter their facility is wrong.

Fantastic Kim. You are doing well.

I asked my Pharmacist how the male pill was coming along last week. He said to me, "Your sons wouldn't take, Julie?"

I said, "Oh, yes they would. 19 years of CS for a one night stand? Oh, they'll take it alright."

His head was bowed but I could see the smirk on his face. He got it. But then he deals with males and suicide. He is a speaker and on boards for this. And also his wife had taken him through the FC a couple of years back.

I disagree that the course of action is to talk to those in charge... That places you into a needy position and may in fact jeopardize your right to drop your kids off there.

Instead, seek out and talk to such men as the one who you described as cowering in the corner. It may be difficult to start a dialogue without communicating sexual interest, but if you can pull it off, that's what is needed. These guys need to be drawn out and engaged. No one wants to hear their story or listen to their perceptions of the misandry that you have already noticed. They need an outlet, and you can be that outlet at some level.

Come to think of it, you might even engage some of the women if you think they might be receptive to your point of view.

Once you've tripled (or more) the number of people besides yourself who oppose such bigotry, then you'll be in a much better position to use their collective economic power to send a message that such demonization of men is not welcome.

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Fantastic Kim. You are doing well.

I asked my Pharmacist how the male pill was coming along last week. He said to me, "Your sons wouldn't take, Julie?"

I said, "Oh, yes they would. 19 years of CS for a one night stand? Oh, they'll take it alright."

His head was bowed but I could see the smirk on his face. He got it. But then he deals with males and suicide. He is a speaker and on boards for this. And also his wife had taken him through the FC a couple of years back.

That shows your feminist credentials loud and clear julie!

You will poison your own son rather than tell some whore to keep her legs shut and if she doesnt, fuck off and raise her bastard on her own with no gaurantee of anything from your son!!

You should be telling your son to avoid skanky sluts in the first place, not give them the pleasure of a shafting they dont deserve..

Recreational Sex is a game to the feminists that they know they can use against weak men..

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It may be difficult to start a dialogue without communicating sexual interest, but if you can pull it off, that's what is needed.

I agree with that 100%!!