I have more than enough self respect to not troll around for ass!
There are a few women out there who find me attractive but I stay away from them!
There is more to life than just trolling for sex!!

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I have more than enough self respect to not troll around for ass!
There are a few women out there who find me attractive but I stay away from them!
There is more to life than just trolling for sex!!

Indeed, video games are at least as much fun!

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Indeed, video games are at least as much fun!

I most certainly agree.

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There is one thing that women have that men seem to want universally..

They have one unique asset that us men "need" them for..

They know this, and it can be clearly seen that all the efforts of women and especially the feminazi movement revolve around restricting access to this asset as much as possible, rationing it, and basically warping a mans mind with the asset.. renting it out in exchange for resources, be that resource cash, housing, attention, or something to powder ones nose with..

I am of course refferring to the fish tank..

I recall from my youth the feeling that, basically, ones respect and reputation was in many ways tied in to whether or not one had "a regular shag"..

A girlfriend, wife, or whatever..

One of the classic first things a man does when deprived of his regular spunk bucket for whatever reason, is dash out and get another one lined up..

I seriously have the feeling that this is perhaps the one most important factor that thwarts the mens movement..

If men could wean themselves off pussy dependancey.. Stop getting "cuntstruck" when they meet a fresh piece of fur, then maybe we would stand a hope in hell..

As it is, many men still fall balls over cleft for the flange-weilder, get themselves locked into another "relationshit" (www.relationshit.com) and become enslaved yet again..

I have heard it said that practically all married men are now officially manginas, as it is very difficult for a man in this position to have any freedom or authority over his haddock..

Failure to agree to the demands of she who must be obeyed, will result in a no sex scenario.. threats of divorce etc..

Any thoughts gents?

may I suggest patronising a cat house

the girls are happy for the business

and the guy losses interest in her one and only asset for a time

and there is no peonage contract to sign or any she can enforce

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may I suggest patronising a cat house

the girls are happy for the business

and the guy losses interest in her one and only asset for a time

and there is no peonage contract to sign or any she can enforce

I suppose that sorta makes sense, but I have never been in a brothel, I like my prey to be free-range and organic!

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There is one thing that women have that men seem to want universally..

They have one unique asset that us men "need" them for..

They know this, and it can be clearly seen that all the efforts of women and especially the feminazi movement revolve around restricting access to this asset as much as possible, rationing it, and basically warping a mans mind with the asset.. renting it out in exchange for resources, be that resource cash, housing, attention, or something to powder ones nose with..

I am of course refferring to the fish tank..

I recall from my youth the feeling that, basically, ones respect and reputation was in many ways tied in to whether or not one had "a regular shag"..

A girlfriend, wife, or whatever..

One of the classic first things a man does when deprived of his regular spunk bucket for whatever reason, is dash out and get another one lined up..

I seriously have the feeling that this is perhaps the one most important factor that thwarts the mens movement..

If men could wean themselves off pussy dependancey.. Stop getting "cuntstruck" when they meet a fresh piece of fur, then maybe we would stand a hope in hell..

As it is, many men still fall balls over cleft for the flange-weilder, get themselves locked into another "relationshit" (www.relationshit.com) and become enslaved yet again..

I have heard it said that practically all married men are now officially manginas, as it is very difficult for a man in this position to have any freedom or authority over his haddock..

Failure to agree to the demands of she who must be obeyed, will result in a no sex scenario.. threats of divorce etc..

Any thoughts gents?

I do on the odd occassion and more so as I get older wonder why farmboys and other adolescent immature lads will actually stop fantacizing about the female sexual organ and just except the fact that there are other things in life that warrant more thought than chasing pussy..

You seem to forget that you are a product of your own lust and desire.
Obviously and oblivious of the fact that if you did not worship it, it would no longer be a mainstay or sole magnet of your thinking..

Want more pussy, pay for it, one way or the other if it's your total focus..

For fucksake, move on and get a grip..

From my observations of human life, it seems that the older gents who no longer have pussy as their sole focus in life, have failed to realise that the new generation of younger men are far less interested in spearing the bearded clam than they themselves ever were..

Perhaps the younger men have seen what has happened to the older men, or perhaps there are just more destractions these days for men that are in many ways rivals to women..

Chasing pussy, or, the approval of pussy seems to be a common problem for men of all ages..

Indeed there is a price to pay, but the "rewards" can be very high if you get it right!!

What, really, is more important than the hunt for cunt?

One way or another, all a mans efforts will be for the benefit of the opposite sex..

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From my observations of human life, it seems that the older gents who no longer have pussy as their sole focus in life, have failed to realise that the new generation of younger men are far less interested in spearing the bearded clam than they themselves ever were..

Perhaps the younger men have seen what has happened to the older men, or perhaps there are just more destractions these days for men that are in many ways rivals to women..

Chasing pussy, or, the approval of pussy seems to be a common problem for men of all ages..

Indeed there is a price to pay, but the "rewards" can be very high if you get it right!!

What, really, is more important than the hunt for cunt?

One way or another, all a mans efforts will be for the benefit of the opposite sex..

Did you just say that younger guys aren't as interested in chasing after *****? It hasn't really been my experience...the younger guys seem as horny as ever.....maybe more bold, too. I'm pretty sure the twenty-something yesterday who asked me for my phone number wasn't looking for my *approval* I'm pretty sure he was looking for something else! My son's friends were hitting on me around age 16 (I was 33 or so) and now my daughter's friends are doing it (they're about 16, too) and I'm now 39. I don't think that would have been so common twenty or thirty or fifty years ago? I don't recall flirting with people my parents' age when I was a teen. The thought of it is actually kind of repulsive!

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Did you just say that younger guys aren't as interested in chasing after *****? It hasn't really been my experience...the younger guys seem as horny as ever.....maybe more bold, too. I'm pretty sure the twenty-something yesterday who asked me for my phone number wasn't looking for my *approval* I'm pretty sure he was looking for something else! My son's friends were hitting on me around age 16 (I was 33 or so) and now my daughter's friends are doing it (they're about 16, too) and I'm now 39. I don't think that would have been so common twenty or thirty or fifty years ago? I don't recall flirting with people my parents' age when I was a teen. The thought of it is actually kind of repulsive!

I don't recall flirting with people my parents' age when I was a teen. The thought of it is actually kind of repulsive!

Indeed!

This post of yours I find quite interesting. I am doing a favor for a friend right now, an older woman, a woman in her late 60s.

I am posting personal ads for her, telling her who responds, facilitating her correspondence as she does not have a personal computer in her home.

She is in her late 60s and believe it or not the age demographic that responds to her the most is in the 35-45 range. I am not lying about this; I'd say that half of her responses come from this age range. Only a fourth of the responses she gets are men older than her or about the same age as her.

One wanders what is going on. My friend says the young men who respond to her are only interested in sex or are looking for a sugar mommy, a woman to support them or give them money.

Logically one would have to assume motivations like that.

Anyways Tera, here you are reporting the same phenomenon of much younger men (and teenagers) "chasing after" you, a significantly older woman.

Typically, in terms of marriage, at least how it used to be, most commonly marriages were between men and women very close to the same age, and if anything the man was one or two years older than the woman. Big age differences, say 10 years or more, were much more likely to be older man younger woman combinations than the reverse.

This has a very logical explanation. A woman's "worth" in the romantic marketplace has to do with her beauty and fertility, assets that decline relentlessly with age. Yes there are some advantages an older woman has over a younger woman; maturity, wisdom, sophistication, a predictable life path a man can more securely determine to be compatible with his own goals; but in general age is bad and youth is good.

For a man his "worth" in the romantic marketplace is more determined by how much money he has, how secure and well paying his job is, how "accomplished" and "secure" he is, how much power he has been able to accumulate to himself during his prior years. Furthermore a man's fertility doesn't drop off a cliff after he hits 40, it slowly declines over time.

Point being, women are more about good looks and fertility, things that are very sensitive to age where the older a woman gets the more these important factors decline. A man is more about accomplishment, money, and the overall development of his power. Because of these factors a man develops his "worth" in the romantic marketplace later in life than a woman does and keeps his comparative level of attractiveness for a longer period of time.

This is why older man younger woman is the standard, not the other way around.

However, it appears in the "modern world" these rules of comparative attractiveness are no longer being "obeyed" as consistently as they once were.

One can speculate as to the reasons. Maybe younger men like the idea of having sex with an older woman to avoid the pregnancy issue. They don't want their good times to be complicated by the possibility of a pregnancy, so going after a woman past her fertile years is one way to go. Also, maybe there are more men who are weak, not properly developed as men, and want an older woman to "take care of them" and "be the boss". Because they are not fully or properly developed as men, because they are weak, they seek a kind of role reversal where the woman is the "provider" and "in charge". An older woman is a woman more likely to have developed for herself resources of power that a weak man may seek comfort and protection from.

As for this business of teenage boys "hitting on you" Tera, that is an interesting phenomenon to try to understand. You say that when you were a teenager you wouldn't dream of hitting on men your parents age. I suppose the more relevant question is whether the boys who were teenagers at the same time you were were hitting on the mothers of the girls they were friends with. Maybe boys are more "promiscuous" in their "hitting on" behaviors than girls are during the teenage years and not that much has changed.

I wonder how serious these "flirtations" are. Are your daughter’s friends "just practicing" or do you think they actually are ready for a sexual encounter if you chose to be unwise enough to indulge them?

I guess what comes to mind when hearing about teenage boys "hitting on" the mother of one of their friends who is in her late 30s is "boundaries". It seems like your daughter's male friends are engaging in romantic behaviors that are inappropriate, like they do not have the idea in their heads that they need to be selective about which "girls" they "chase after" and which ones are "off limits". You should be "off limits" because of your age and because you are their friend's mother both.

It is like your daughter's male friends have not made the connection in their minds between romantic pursuit and a long term commitment, between sex and becoming a father. Maybe they think that flirting is a kind of playful activity, that it is not associated with anything serious like "falling in love", that it is just a first step towards "getting laid" if they "get lucky".

I'm thinking that even a teenage boy should have in his mind that flirting is associated with love and love is associated with sex and sex is associated with children and children is associated with lifetime commitment and marriage. That the boy should restrict who he targets his flirting towards precisely because flirtation is the first step on the ever escalating journey of greater and greater levels of commitment towards a woman.

So, if I was to come up with an interpretation of your daughter's male friends flirting with you I would say that such behavior is inappropriate, that it is a sign that they are not taking themselves seriously, they are not taking their feelings towards women and their sexuality seriously, they are "cruising for a bruising" not planning ahead, not taking the responsibilities of romantic behavior seriously.

On a more sad note, they may be signaling that developmentally they are not growing into men ready to make a lifetime commitment towards a woman when they are called upon to do so 5 or 10 or 15 years from now. If sex and flirting is simply a form of entertainment, no commitments need be involved, then what will they do when they finally "get a girl pregnant"? Will their child simply be another addition to the ever growing "out-of-wedlock" birth statistics?

ever heard of "don juan syndrome?"

the term is often (falsely) used to describe blokes who shag a lot of women, the original and more strange definition I used to see was that it was about men who WANT IT TO APPEAR that they have tons of pussy, but in fact, they just play round the edges, flirting, being seen in the presence of many women, etc..

The main basic reason for it, was a cover for insecurity.. latent homosexuality, impotence, and other sexual inadequacies..

Forever flirting with women and attempting to have sex with women who are, basically, not going to submit anyway, is one of the most noticable features..

I have done much personal study on this phenonema, indeed, most of the lads I have know have been like this, because it always baffled me not only the great number of women they approached and convincingly looked interested in (usually well into double figures on any night out on the hunt!)

But, more oddly, the fact that, (unlike myself) they were never PREPARED for the end-game anyway!!

(the end game was often that I shagged the bitches after the pansies had "talked themselves out of a shag")

"Forgot my condoms".. "Did not have a pen to get her phone number".. "she probably has VD.." etc..

I have definately found it odd, 20 or so years ago, one would go round the clubs, and there were folk "ripping in" to each other and getting smoochy and horny..

Now, you hardly ever see that, despite the fact that now we see more women flaunting their sticky gussets and wobblers..

Indeed, if a woman gets her jugs out, most blokes just dont do the decent thing..

They just laugh and cheer..

Pretty sad really!!

A real fuckmaster would realise that, if he wants fanny, he has to hit the whores, its easy to rack them up!

I see many young men talking about it, putting the act on, but not actually "closing the deal"..

They seem to be looking for something rather different..

Or maybe I am the wierd one!!

Who knows?

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I don't recall flirting with people my parents' age when I was a teen. The thought of it is actually kind of repulsive!

Indeed!

This post of yours I find quite interesting. I am doing a favor for a friend right now, an older woman, a woman in her late 60s.

I am posting personal ads for her, telling her who responds, facilitating her correspondence as she does not have a personal computer in her home.

She is in her late 60s and believe it or not the age demographic that responds to her the most is in the 35-45 range. I am not lying about this; I'd say that half of her responses come from this age range. Only a fourth of the responses she gets are men older than her or about the same age as her.

One wanders what is going on. My friend says the young men who respond to her are only interested in sex or are looking for a sugar mommy, a woman to support them or give them money.

Logically one would have to assume motivations like that.

Anyways Tera, here you are reporting the same phenomenon of much younger men (and teenagers) "chasing after" you, a significantly older woman.

Typically, in terms of marriage, at least how it used to be, most commonly marriages were between men and women very close to the same age, and if anything the man was one or two years older than the woman. Big age differences, say 10 years or more, were much more likely to be older man younger woman combinations than the reverse.

This has a very logical explanation. A woman's "worth" in the romantic marketplace has to do with her beauty and fertility, assets that decline relentlessly with age. Yes there are some advantages an older woman has over a younger woman; maturity, wisdom, sophistication, a predictable life path a man can more securely determine to be compatible with his own goals; but in general age is bad and youth is good.

For a man his "worth" in the romantic marketplace is more determined by how much money he has, how secure and well paying his job is, how "accomplished" and "secure" he is, how much power he has been able to accumulate to himself during his prior years. Furthermore a man's fertility doesn't drop off a cliff after he hits 40, it slowly declines over time.

Point being, women are more about good looks and fertility, things that are very sensitive to age where the older a woman gets the more these important factors decline. A man is more about accomplishment, money, and the overall development of his power. Because of these factors a man develops his "worth" in the romantic marketplace later in life than a woman does and keeps his comparative level of attractiveness for a longer period of time.

This is why older man younger woman is the standard, not the other way around.

However, it appears in the "modern world" these rules of comparative attractiveness are no longer being "obeyed" as consistently as they once were.

One can speculate as to the reasons. Maybe younger men like the idea of having sex with an older woman to avoid the pregnancy issue. They don't want their good times to be complicated by the possibility of a pregnancy, so going after a woman past her fertile years is one way to go. Also, maybe there are more men who are weak, not properly developed as men, and want an older woman to "take care of them" and "be the boss". Because they are not fully or properly developed as men, because they are weak, they seek a kind of role reversal where the woman is the "provider" and "in charge". An older woman is a woman more likely to have developed for herself resources of power that a weak man may seek comfort and protection from.

As for this business of teenage boys "hitting on you" Tera, that is an interesting phenomenon to try to understand. You say that when you were a teenager you wouldn't dream of hitting on men your parents age. I suppose the more relevant question is whether the boys who were teenagers at the same time you were were hitting on the mothers of the girls they were friends with. Maybe boys are more "promiscuous" in their "hitting on" behaviors than girls are during the teenage years and not that much has changed.

I wonder how serious these "flirtations" are. Are your daughter’s friends "just practicing" or do you think they actually are ready for a sexual encounter if you chose to be unwise enough to indulge them?

I guess what comes to mind when hearing about teenage boys "hitting on" the mother of one of their friends who is in her late 30s is "boundaries". It seems like your daughter's male friends are engaging in romantic behaviors that are inappropriate, like they do not have the idea in their heads that they need to be selective about which "girls" they "chase after" and which ones are "off limits". You should be "off limits" because of your age and because you are their friend's mother both.

It is like your daughter's male friends have not made the connection in their minds between romantic pursuit and a long term commitment, between sex and becoming a father. Maybe they think that flirting is a kind of playful activity, that it is not associated with anything serious like "falling in love", that it is just a first step towards "getting laid" if they "get lucky".

I'm thinking that even a teenage boy should have in his mind that flirting is associated with love and love is associated with sex and sex is associated with children and children is associated with lifetime commitment and marriage. That the boy should restrict who he targets his flirting towards precisely because flirtation is the first step on the ever escalating journey of greater and greater levels of commitment towards a woman.

So, if I was to come up with an interpretation of your daughter's male friends flirting with you I would say that such behavior is inappropriate, that it is a sign that they are not taking themselves seriously, they are not taking their feelings towards women and their sexuality seriously, they are "cruising for a bruising" not planning ahead, not taking the responsibilities of romantic behavior seriously.

On a more sad note, they may be signaling that developmentally they are not growing into men ready to make a lifetime commitment towards a woman when they are called upon to do so 5 or 10 or 15 years from now. If sex and flirting is simply a form of entertainment, no commitments need be involved, then what will they do when they finally "get a girl pregnant"? Will their child simply be another addition to the ever growing "out-of-wedlock" birth statistics?

Check this out:

Challenging Trendy Biological Assumptions.

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Did you just say that younger guys aren't as interested in chasing after *****? It hasn't really been my experience...the younger guys seem as horny as ever.....maybe more bold, too. I'm pretty sure the twenty-something yesterday who asked me for my phone number wasn't looking for my *approval* I'm pretty sure he was looking for something else! My son's friends were hitting on me around age 16 (I was 33 or so) and now my daughter's friends are doing it (they're about 16, too) and I'm now 39. I don't think that would have been so common twenty or thirty or fifty years ago? I don't recall flirting with people my parents' age when I was a teen. The thought of it is actually kind of repulsive!

When I was a teen, in our neighbourhood was a very pretty girl that almost all of my mates fancied. Me too. However we all fancied her mum even more. She was gorgeous. But quiet and dignified with it. A 'calm' beauty. I am almsot ashamed to admit that we had a very rude name for her which I will not put here but implied that she was well rooted.

Looking back, I think that young girl (mid teens) must have been in her mother's beauty-shadow and judging by the way some really beautiful women have a timeless quality, will always be in that shadow.

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Did you just say that younger guys aren't as interested in chasing after *****? It hasn't really been my experience...the younger guys seem as horny as ever.....maybe more bold, too. I'm pretty sure the twenty-something yesterday who asked me for my phone number wasn't looking for my *approval* I'm pretty sure he was looking for something else! My son's friends were hitting on me around age 16 (I was 33 or so) and now my daughter's friends are doing it (they're about 16, too) and I'm now 39. I don't think that would have been so common twenty or thirty or fifty years ago? I don't recall flirting with people my parents' age when I was a teen. The thought of it is actually kind of repulsive!

And heres to you Ms Robinson....