thats a hard one, be there for her as your friend, but watch her and dont let the fact you love/lust her completely cloud your judgement

Hmm... the only issue I have is that if ANY of those four options are true, it's going to shatter me, and break my heart in two.

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So, I was talking to my girlfriend earlier, and she said "I love you", but then said "I'm 4 weeks pregnant" in the same paragraph.

I've never done anything with her that would make her pregnant. She called rape, but not on me, and she only did it when I asked her how she got pregnant.

Keeping in mind that in the years I have known her, she has shown no feminist traits. I'm faced with four options:

1) She really was raped.
2) She was not raped, and was lying to me about being raped and just used it as an excuse for cheating on me.
3) She was not raped, and is not pregnant, but says she is.
4) She was raped, is not pregnant, but either thinks she is, or thinks it's a good idea to fuck with me.

I need wisdom, gentlemen.

The 2 biggest female lies are 1. I've been raped, and 2. I'm pregnant so we have to get married.

First, she was not raped. She was "raped" like "Roe" of "Roe vs. Wade" was "raped." Its the female excuse for being overcome by female hormones and fucking some hot stud she managed to get her legs around. That amounts to "rape" because females LIE to themselves "It's not like me," or "I don't do that" so "I must have been raped."

Second. She is lying to herself, and to you about being raped. She is "in denial" about her own lust and INTENT to get pregnant on ovulation day. Most females are LIKELY to fuck some hot guy on ovulation day, much more likely than any other time. Female behavior studies from Chicago suburbs to London flats to African mud huts are consistent.

Third, she may not actually be pregnant. Some big part of her emotional self wants a baby, and wants to be pregnant. She could be lying to herself about it, and to you. She may be pregnant. You really can't tell right now, and she probably can't tell yet either.

Fourth. She may be telling you that she's pregnant to tell you that she can't get pregnant if you fuck her now -- so she wants sperm to become pregnant. Or, she may just be playing games.


Whatever her reasons, if you definitely haven't been fucking her then your best choice is to stat at least arm's length away, and preferably 500 yards away. Time to run, fast!

Blessings

Bob

Thanks. I knew I could count on you guys to help me.

Danarus,

That sounds like a very tough situation. I think TPTM gave you some good advice. If you wanna talk, you know how to reach me.

get out now

run - run fast, run hard ,run far and never look back

Danarus, mate, you are dealing with a strange creature called a WOMAN. Adam himself was faced with this sort of caper from Day One.

Dealing with the actions, behaviour and unpredicatble nature of a woman is the most difficult, perplexing, confusing, bewildering, aggravating of situations most men will ever have to face in their lifetimes. If women can't cope with all this themselves then what hope is there for blokes?

Any of those combinations could apply in this case - it's no use trying to wrest the truth out of her - she most probably can't work it out herself anyway.

You have my deepest sympathy. Rather you than me. Best of British to you.

It could Be Danarus she wants you to be step Dad that means you marry her and raise someone elses kid.

If a man had a girlfiend/wife and he said he loved her then announced he had got some other girl pregnant can you guess what she would say?

Make her take a lie detector test. That'd clear this right up.

If she refuses...run.

She may take the test as women will lie right until the very end, fuck they'll lie after it as well. Be careful, brother.

Bob is right I've seen this so many times before. She was in heat so she went out and got fucked by some 6'6'' muscle bound thug in a leather jacket, now she wants the solid, dependable guy (you) to look after the badboy's kid. Kick her to curb.

But have you not gotten more information out of her than you've divulged to us? Surely you asked as to the situation surrounding the 'rape'? To be honest, in the minds of those who've read what you've said, there are NUMEROUS questions left unanswered. You need to ask a whole lot of questions to her before conclusions can be drawn. Coming to you calmly (?) four weeks after the 'rape' sounds mighty suspicious from where I'm sitting, though, I must say........

You should tell her that it's your duty to report the rape, since she's now pregnant because of it, then getting DNA will not be a problem. If she has a problem with this, then she's bullshitting you.

With the way the law hates men these days, I'd report it, because if a judge finds out you knew, you'll probably be held accountable for it and sentenced to a few years inside.

You say you've known her for years yet have done nothing to get her pregnant, so I assume you haven't been dating her for years, either way, it's mighty strange for it to take 4 weeks for you to find out she's been raped, it's even more strange that she hasn't reported such an horrendous crime to the coppers.

That's women for you, as soon as they say "I've been raped", most guys think "Really now?". Perhaps they're starting to regret their years and years and years of utter lies, doubtful though.

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You should tell her that it's your duty to report the rape, since she's now pregnant because of it, then getting DNA will not be a problem. If she has a problem with this, then she's bullshitting you.

With the way the law hates men these days, I'd report it, because if a judge finds out you knew, you'll probably be held accountable for it and sentenced to a few years inside.

You say you've known her for years yet have done nothing to get her pregnant, so I assume you haven't been dating her for years, either way, it's mighty strange for it to take 4 weeks for you to find out she's been raped, it's even more strange that she hasn't reported such an horrendous crime to the coppers.

That's women for you, as soon as they say "I've been raped", most guys think "Really now?". Perhaps they're starting to regret their years and years and years of utter lies, doubtful though.

Indeed. If she's telling that feminist misandry story about some other man today, she'll be telling the same story about you tomorrow. As soon as she starts with any of that feminist misandry crap, its time to put her to the curb and find someone else. There are a million better fish in the sea.

Blessings

Bob

Shes taking the piss.