Open Question: What's the quickest way feminists and non/anti-feminists can resolve their issues?

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I'm talking about western feminism here. What do people suggest be done in order to end this social and political war. For example, there are a number of father's rights activist groups in the US. Some feminists have supported them but most feminist organizations have spoken out against them. Should this be an issue of father's rights vs mother's rights, or simply a matter of equal (or equitable) time with child custody? How do people propose we deal with these wars effectively.