Open Question: what do men honestly think of feminism and equality for women?

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I mean its obvious we are not built the same, but we are capable of being equally intelligent, no? I mean yeah men and women bring about a lot of stereotypes for their genders but not everyone is the same...Anyway, all of this is very debatable but what I'm really getting at is that I've noticed a lot of men get like pissed off when women argue about equal rights, etc etc etc and they always crack women jokes... but why? If these jokes are true, then why do they feel threatened and have the need to get pissed off about it if they know they are superior?And then I got to thinking... are feminists just a huge turn off for men? I mean I personally like to get dominated in most situations... I like men that are taller, stronger, etc than meso does that mean that if a women is "better" than the man, it will be a turn off? cause I know its hard for to date short weak submissive guys (no offense guys) but this is an honest question... and a very awkward question to ask someone in person so thats why I'm doing it here.I'll admit that sometimes woman jokes get annoying but if I try to argue the joke or speak out against it, I dont wanna sound like one of those crazy feminist people... so what do guys honestly think about this? are we equal? would you rather us be unequal because being equal is a turn off? or would you rather have a woman dominate?yes, but I know some women that do sacrifice having a family, husband and a life to work and be just as successful as men... I guess thats where I lack the ability to argue feminism, because I am not one of those women, I dont really consider myself better than men, I look to them as my provider and protector, is that wrong? am I too dependent?