Open Question: How has feminism affected female identity and gender relations?

From Yahoo Answers

The gender warriors seem to be all over the place when it comes to identity. They want to be taken care of, yet they want to be independent.They want power and preferential treatment but they don't always want responsibility and the feminists certainly do not generally project responsible attitudes.They demand *unconditional* respect as of right, yet they are very disrespectful towards men. They want a masculine man, but they don't want to be a feminine woman.Crazy.