Open Question: Has feminism caused more harm than good?

From Yahoo Answers
Studies indicate that in the 70s, murder of men & women by intimates of the opposite sex were roughly equal - but with the increased help for women-only that our 'equality seeking' sisters have demanded, only women have been given options to 'get away' from hostile environments... Meaning, men have not got walk-out options (and given that women typically get custody, despite criminal activities - it's no wonder men stay around to try and protect the kids - I know this from experience myself as my ex-wife had criminal background for d/v and condoned her mother's abuse of the children repeatedly). Nowadays, more men kill their female intimitates than women kill their male intimates. Given the fact that feminism promoted a one-way system - is it any wonder?