Quote from Popadibs

It's hard for me to be ruthless because I care about or like them not because they're a woman.

If I care about a man it would be hard for me to be ruthless to him too, like my grandpa.

Your kindness can be your weakness that men and women will use against you.
You've probably never grew up around a lot of misandry and term oil. No boy deserves to endure anything of the sort, and you best believe it will put enough resentment in you to last for the rest of your life.