Men's sexuality is a beautiful thing

**Incognito** · 31st-July-2008

We're often inundated through the media that men's sexuality is predatory, primitive, violent, selfish, and emotionally "disconnected." The stereotypes are such that these ideas have become "normalized" in society.

I counter that these myths and perceptions are extremely harmful and utterly false.

His emotions are engaged...the pursuit of the woman he desires is akin to a soulful dance. His touch...it is warm, it is gentle, it is kind. He perceives with all of his senses, he anticipates, he loves, he connects on a level far deeper than that of the physical realm. He cares for the well-being of his partner as much or more than that of himself. He views giving pleasure as a pleasure in and of itself. He bonds on a spiritual level.

He is not only visual when it comes to attraction and sexual stimulation...he breathes the experience and it swallows him whole. He is just as likely to be aroused by the scent of her skin...and to remember it as a permanent imprint in his mind, than be aroused by the size of her breasts.

He is not a beast. He is not an animal. He is a spiritual being with a spirit, mind, and emotions, that run as deeply as the ocean.

He expresses this in his touch, you can see it in his eyes...and feel it in the beating of his heart.

Men's sexuality is a beautiful thing.

**John Dias** · 31st-July-2008

You've come a long way since you first joined us, Tera.

**yesterday's Hero** · 31st-July-2008

its a "false flag" post

**Incognito** · 31st-July-2008

Quote from yesterday's Hero

its a "false flag" post

What's a "false flag" post?

If you mean that my post is false in some way, I will take offense to that. That's really messed up.

Just saying.

**Incognito** · 31st-July-2008

Quote from John Dias

You've come a long way since you first joined us, Tera.

Thanks.

**Incognito** · 31st-July-2008

Quote from Billy

lol
False Flag

Hah!

If it weren't for our sexuality we wouldn't have to jump through hoops to please some woman and we wouldn't be dragged through the misery.

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Could someone please explain to me what "false flag" means?

**Incognito** · 31st-July-2008

O.k. well I looked it up myself:

False flag means: covert operations conducted by governments, corporations, or other organizations, which are designed to appear like they are being carried out by other entities. The name is derived from the military concept of flying false colors; that is, flying the flag of a country other than one's own.

Nice, Yesterday's Hero.

**Percy** · 31st-July-2008

Awwww, shucks, Tera. You sure have a way with words.

But, no, you can't have me.

Not even a 'quick go' at my body.

Not even when you promise to keep quiet and not wake the neighbours with shrieks and moans !

(Take no notice of him. He is envious of my rippling muscles)

**GrizzlyPenguin** · 31st-July-2008

I'm young and legal, lol.

**christianj** · 31st-July-2008

Bloody hell Tera, I am almost beginning to like you.

**Marx** · 31st-July-2008

I've said all along, I strongly doubt Tera to be feminist, though she has labelled herself so in the past.

Looking at what she writes seems closer to equality than the feminist 'demonstrated' definition.

OK, sometimes something is said - but mostly, it is from teachings and unlike feminists, Tera has an open mind and is willing to accept new concepts, new way of looking at life, etc.

**RobYork** · 31st-July-2008

Please place your post onto a "Feminist" site and lets see what happens.

The only thing that I disagree with you in your post is a man smelling a woman, other than her perfume, I have always believed, maybe wrongly, that a woman has a far more powerful sense of smell, and that she will be atracted by the man`s natural smell.

Robert.

**Feckless** · 31st-July-2008

Hooray for Tera......

*Winks at Tera*

Da geht noch was....hrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrr

**Dylan MacVillain** · 1st-August-2008

Quote from TERA

O.k. well I looked it up myself:

False flag means: covert operations conducted by governments, corporations, or other organizations, which are designed to appear like they are being carried out by other entities. The name is derived from the military concept of flying false colors; that is, flying the flag of a country other than one's own.

Nice, Yesterday's Hero.

The opposite idiom for that one is "showing one's true colors." At some point after flying "false flags", ships would go back to their real flag and "show their true colors."