I can promise you that even IF, and I use the word 'if' with much generosity, it is the fathers who are doting on their daughters, THEY DO IT BECAUSE THEY LOVE THOSE GIRLS. It is the mothers who are teaching little girls to be that way, not men. Who teaches them how to use makeup? Who teaches them how to wear sexualized clothing? THE MOTHERS. It is the mothers who encourage and enable these girls behaviors, NOT MEN. It is the mothers who buy the clothes and tell them to expect that from any man they encounter.