Male feminist's sexual habits

**Kargan3033** · 23rd-February-2010

Quote from samofsons

i think people should be able to do whatever they like on their own property.
but some of this stuff is just scary to me.

handcuffs/whips/leather/ "cock and ball torture"
that sounds fucking horrible , i don't care to mix pain and pleasure.
but i have a phobia of being restrained too , and i've never done any of these things
so maybe i cannot talk.

to each their own.

Indeed each to their own.
However what most people don't seem to realize that in a Kinky relationship between a Dom(Dominant) and a sub(submissive)
That such a lifestyte is more strongly felt and more fullfilling to a Dom&sub because such kink play does care some very seroius risks of preminet injury, mutilation or death, conventional thinking would say that the people who engage in such kinky love play are insane.
Not so, the reason why such a relationship between a good and loving Dom&sub is so intense, more so then a non kinky realtionship is because of the general consensus of " Keep It Safe, Sane and Consensual ", because that means that the Dom&sub have a more trusting relastionship between then then so called normal couples because they both trust one another to a point that they are willing to engage in such kinky love play, because there Dom&sub relationship is frimly based on mutal trust, respect and love for one another that allows them to explore this lifestye they choice to engage in because of the higher level of trust, respect and love that they have for each other over normal couples because they choise to express their natrual Dominant and submissive nature in this from of kinky loving also because they trust one another not to push them past their limits, Say the Dom enjoys flogging the submissive and the submissive enjoys being branded byt the Dom does not enjoy branding a good sub will not push the Dom in the branding of the sub, also lets say that the sub enjoys being flogged but does not enjoy nipple clamps but the Dom enjoys using nipple clamps on a sub but the Dom does not use the nipple clamps on the sub because that is one of the sub's limits.
However in a good and loving Dom&sub relationship the Dom will push the sub to and past the sub's limits, this is achived not by force but by love, trust and most of all HONEST COMMUNACATIOS, much like a non kink relationship.
You see not only is trust between a Dom&sub or a man and lady for that matter is just solely based in love and respect it'self but it is also based on open and honest communcations that comes from love, trust and respect,

Love, Trust, respect and open and honest communacations are intertwined witheachother and it is these things between a Dom&sub/Man&lady that is the foundation of a stable, solid and loving realtionship kinky or non kinky

Can you see what I am saying?

**Meadester** · 28th-February-2010

Quote from Ambiorix

A Dominant or submissive sexuality should not be confused with feminism or male chauvinism. What turns you on needs not relfect your sociopolitical views and vice versa.

I agree like I said before I don't have a problem with the original subject of this post's sexual fetishes just his hypocrisy. To recap it was his flaunting of those - acceptable but certainly unusual, and understandably unsettling to some - fetishes, while condemning something relatively tame like a sexy buttocks contest.

Quote from Ambiorix

I myself like femdom on a sexual level (not CBT though, my balls are sacred). But I'm definitely no mangina, I'm never afraid to make politically incorrect statements, and have often clashed with feminists id discussions about abortion, positive discrimination, etc. They can tie me up and whip me

, but I'm not gonna budge in my opinions.

Honestly, I'm annoyed by feminist/mangina encroachment in the femdom scene. Feminism should stay the fuck out of femdom, as paradoxal as that may sound. A good Dominatrix should dominate her slave because it turns her on, not because she's bitter at 'stupid men'.

I saw this documenary about a woman who liked her husband to tie her up and whip her... she got a lot of anger from feminists for that hobby.

It is interesting to note that some of the nastiest, most hateful radical feminists are against BDSM in all forms.

**silentblood** · 12th-December-2010

Wow the threads I find
This thread. Erhem...Sutton and her filth should stay away from bedrooms...Sutton is the original reason I became a MRA. Her filth is really common in the Femdom subculture...

" Keep It Safe, Sane and Consensual ",

There's also RACK(Risk Aware Consensual Kink)...

It is interesting to note that some of the nastiest, most hateful radical feminists are against BDSM in all forms.

And I want them out of my bedroom! >:-(

That is all.

Edit: Sorry for thread necromancy.

**Celtic Druid** · 12th-December-2010

There's an undeniable recurring theme with a considerable number of male feminists - whereby their sexual kink of females dominating them has a direct correlation to mindless championing of a broken idea whatever the cost. Yes, they've satisfied their pathetic lust, but at what cost to every other male who doesn't capitulate?

**silentblood** · 12th-December-2010

There's an undeniable recurring theme with a considerable number of male feminists - whereby their sexual kink of females dominating them has a direct correlation to mindless championing of a broken idea whatever the cost. Yes, they've satisfied their pathetic lust, but at what cost to every other male who doesn't capitulate?

It's really an insult that my sexual interests are shared by these weak men, submission shouldn't mean that you have to be a doormat. Hell, my wife absolutely hates feminism and she's a Dominant woman.
(There was a troll yesterday)

@the feminist filth
You insult my intelligence. It's your filth that portrays Dominant women as cruel and hateful towards men. I love my subby hubby, and We do want loving relationships with men. It's because of your filth, that my husband got sexually harassed and he got no help at all. Your kind insults Me, by claiming to speak for all women! NO! I'm an advocate for equal rights and your filth hates men and women who don't conform! You can rot in Nifelheim, you filthy hurtful creature!

The Counter-Feminist: A Reference to Julian Assange For Your Brief Amusement

The troll wa a strawman of a radfem, it riled up my wife, and got her angry...:-s

Edit:Fixed quotes