Thread: Little Boy At School

I agree that the way social services are set up is a fraud. It seperates families usually needlessly. It vilifies men as abusers because it very rarely even looks at the possibility that it was the mother who committed the abuse if even any abuse happened.

As I have said before the state of Califionia took my son away from my then wife and I because she slipped in some oil on my foster parents driveway and he fell out of her arms. Then they justified keeping him from us based on my being a war veteran. I was made to jump through hoops for two years to prove I was a good dad. Then finally they told my ex we would never get the kids back so long as she and I were together.

So I packed my stuff and moved back to Arkansas and soon recieved divorce papers. Whiich was not the deal she and I had made.

But on the flipside of that I was abused by my mother and a step father I was finally and thankfully removed from my mother at 15 and put in a really good foster home. Which saved me 5 years of abuse until I married my first wife.

Now they didn't remove me from my mother for the abuse my mother had dished out over the years of my life or even for her drug abuse they did it because my step father and I got into a fist fight {which I lost but am proud of to this day }. So they removed me for one act by one person and ignored the hundreds of acts by the other.

If a bad sytem is all you have sometimes it must be used until a better one comes around.

And as MRA's I am sure we will not rest until something better is put in place.