You're new here so I'm going to break it down for you!

Relationships nowadays consist of crying and blow jobs!!!
Its nauseating, but that's the shit we have to stay away from or deal with!!

there is a significant difference

prostitutes are more honest

they want $$$$ and supply a service; prostitutes don't dissemble eternal commitment

and prostitues don't drag men throughthe Family Court with a view to fitting butthead with a peonage collar

all costs you in the endhttp://www.daveyonefamilylawman.blogspot.com/

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there is a significant difference

prostitutes are more honest

they want $$$$ and supply a service; prostitutes don't dissemble eternal commitment

and prostitues don't drag men throughthe Family Court with a view to fitting butthead with a peonage collar

And prostitutes are probably cheaper in the long run!!!

One more thing to consider....women your age today are said to be very promiscuous and lie to themselves and others so don't really use protection.

Pro's are very safety concious. You might be safer with the pro these days.

Isn't that something....what a crazy world.

Best part is that with a pro they go home (that's what you pay for) and you get to watch ESPN, have a late night sandwiche and no one bitching you out in the morning.

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One more thing to consider....women your age today are said to be very promiscuous and lie to themselves and others so don't really use protection.

Pro's are very safety concious. You might be safer with the pro these days.

Isn't that something....what a crazy world.

Best part is that with a pro they go home (that's what you pay for) and you get to watch ESPN, have a late night sandwiche and no one bitching you out in the morning.

""Best part is that with a pro they go home (that's what you pay for) and you get to watch ESPN, have a late night sandwiche and no one bitching you out in the morning."


too neat

I lived by ths until i was 47

I'm pretty much satisfied without having 'the finer things' in life.....I know that money can't buy love or happiness or loyalty, or spirituality or true friendship.

That doesn't completely stop me from coveting my neighbor's custom-painted and detailed Corvette, however.

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""Best part is that with a pro they go home (that's what you pay for) and you get to watch ESPN, have a late night sandwiche and no one bitching you out in the morning."


too neat

I lived by ths until i was 47

LOL!!!!!!!

You've gotta be shitting me, man!!!!

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Honestly, What's the difference between postmodern relationships and prostitution?

Both marriage and simple dating have become so dominated by how much money one has in their pocket and bank account that we might as well replace the word marriage or dating with the word prostitution.

It seems women are only generally interested in a man if he has a proficient career and a sizable yearly income along with the sporting toys that comes with such a sizable income.

I always get a laugh when I hear romanticists speaking about how genuine relationships revolve around personality, love,sensitivity, trust, and like minded interests being beyond money because in every expirience I have had today's relationships between the opposite of sexes revolve around economical viability or accessibility.

Maybe this is not even a new phenomena in that perhaps this is what relationships of the opposite sex has always been like.

(I'm twenty two going on twenty three.)

I'm so sick and tired of everybody telling me that I haven't met the right woman in that they don't even bother defining what the right one looks like. ( A sentimental myth told I'm sure.)

I'm so sick and tired of people telling me there are good girls out there considering I haven't met a 'good' one in my entire life that I could tolerate or stand.

I so feel you my brutha.

Im 27 and have come to most of the same conclusions over the past year or 2.

Over my lifetime to date Ive gotten the same BS robotic statements thrown at me, you havent found the right one YET, theres PLENTY() of "good" women out there, YOUR JUST LOOKING IN THE WRONG PLACES, your thinking with "the wrong head",...etc etc etc.

I always get a laugh when I hear romanticists speaking about how genuine relationships revolve around personality, love,sensitivity, trust, and like minded interests being beyond money because in every expirience I have had today's relationships between the opposite of sexes revolve around economical viability or accessibility.

Exactly.

Sure of course a good personality is one thing that helps you get/keep a woman, but it takes a backseat, as does all those other things, to whether or not you have a "nice" car, "decent" job, house of your own and "toys"...etc

But to answer your original question, the difference is that prostitutes are HONEST about what they are after, that being MONEY...Even though, me and you both know that the rest are also after MONEY, they do not admit it, and they go about it in a more subtile and/or manipulative way, that takes a lot longer to break down/elaborate on than Im willing to spend typeing about at the moment.

Sigh, I ended up on roughly this same topic in another post, where I ended up doing something, that I do a lot, which is beating myself up, trying to get a point across to a woman, who when it comes down to the bottom line, simply DOES NOT CARE, about the frustration men go threw with dateing, girlfreinds, relationships, wives and the whole situation surounding them.

On certaint things, she makes sense and seems to understaind, but then has no empathy, no compasion, and the bottom line with her is basicly "get over it" with no attempt on her part to "put herself in those shoes".........Sound familyar?

She pretty well reminded me why "fuck them before they fuck you" is honestly the SAFEST choice for me. Because when it comes down to it there shoes have more value to them than ANY man, and they will show there shoes a lot more RESPECT and concern than they will you, IN FACT they will just use you to get MORE SHOES...In short YOUR best intrest are not even ON the list for consideration, only hers and "stuff" that she acctually CARES about are on that list, of cloths, jewlry...etc etc etc You get the point Im sure!

But, quite frankly a life of "selabacy" is not for me, its just depressing to me, and frustrateing to try to lie TO MYSELF and try to deny that....So im simply gona do what seems to be most successful for men and simply NOT GIVE A FUCK, right back at them, and treat them equally like shit

Then funny enough, they will flock to me, so long as my line of bullshit is good

And once again, so long as the $$$$$ doesnt run out

What a sad lot, this crowd....advocating prostitutes to a young man who is frustrated with women. That'll fix him, won't it? Sure it will.

Tell you what Finrir, don't just take these guys' word for it....do yourself a favor and take a survey on this subject with a larger population and see what you come up with. And maybe while you're doing that, try a cross-section of the population rather than surveying a relatively small group of embittered angry people...the survey might be more valid that way.

You might even consider talking to a clergyman or counselor..heck maybe even a dad or uncle or two.....

Maybe talk to some people who've been married a long time- happily- and see what they might have to say.

You're not alone with your observations or your frustrations...but there are healthy people to listen to and there are those who offer advice that might make the problem worse instead of better.

I hope that despite your frustrations you can tell the difference.

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What a sad lot, this crowd....advocating prostitutes to a young man who is frustrated with women. That'll fix him, won't it? Sure it will.

Tell you what Finrir, don't just take these guys' word for it....do yourself a favor and take a survey on this subject with a larger population and see what you come up with. And maybe while you're doing that, try a cross-section of the population rather than surveying a relatively small group of embittered angry people...the survey might be more valid that way.

You might even consider talking to a clergyman or counselor..heck maybe even a dad or uncle or two.....

Maybe talk to some people who've been married a long time- happily- and see what they might have to say.

You're not alone with your observations or your frustrations...but there are healthy people to listen to and there are those who offer advice that might make the problem worse instead of better.

I hope that despite your frustrations you can tell the difference.

The frustrations of younger men is exacerbated by the misandry of our society and the sheer bad behaviour of so many women that goes unrecognised and uncriticised.

But Tera is right. You need to get a far wider appreciation.

But older men are dismissed by the younger men as easily and readily as feminists dismiss them. Young men can be their own worst enemies.

The problem is not with marriage. Get that into your heads.

The problem is with unilateral no-fault divorce, the family courts, the anti-male laws across the board, the misandric media and society's encouragement of women to rip men off.

Far too many young men on this site think with their cocks and refuse to listen to any other organ.

Prostitutes? Honest? You have to laugh at such naivity.

Lie down with dogs and you get fleas.

Get bitten and you stand a chance of getting rabies too.

I disagree with your focus on money.
I agree with your notion that relationships are prostitution...

I'd just say they're two-sided. Both the man and woman are whoring. The term whoring is applied whenever you're trading something for love, affection or sex.

Its much sneakier than money. A lot of women are dating guys who don't have a lot of money (or even spend the little they have), and a lot of relationships are 50/50 on the money. So I'd just jump straight over your over-focus on money...

However, modern relationships are whoring, since a woman will trade sex, independence, integrity for getting a sense of love, appreciation, security, affection.

Men will trade their independence, honest desires and tone down their beliefs in exchange for sex, affection and feeling needed.

Both are whoring. I'm pretty hardcore on this. I believe any time you conciously trade something in order to get a positive emotion out of someone, that is whoring.

Think about your friends. Do you change who you are, and do things specifically to get friendship/respect/affection from your friends? No. Its genuine, natural and organic. You don't need to "do" stuff to get them to do stuff (whoring).

The truth is, there is absolutely no logic left in going for traditional, conservative, monogamous relationships.

--> If I want affection, respect, feelings of mutual understanding I get it from super close male friends (and once gender transition happens, from female friends)
--> If I want sex, I get it from a hot female friend

The old notion of those 2 having to come from just one person who is the opposite gender than you, is a faulty notion used to opress both genders. The whole marriage/relationship conservative institutions force you to get all your needs met from one person, and dump everything else in your life so that you be a good little worker bee.

We've outevolved relationships. The current "relationships" are not but a desperate attempt to make a dead thing work. We're slowly evolving to there being no distinctions between friendships and relationships. The only difference between your male and your female friends is that you have sex with some of your female friends.

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The truth is, there is absolutely no logic left in going for traditional, conservative, monogamous relationships.

--> If I want affection, respect, feelings of mutual understanding I get it from super close male friends (and once gender transition happens, from female friends)
--> If I want sex, I get it from a hot female friend

The old notion of those 2 having to come from just one person who is the opposite gender than you, is a faulty notion used to opress both genders. The whole marriage/relationship conservative institutions force you to get all your needs met from one person, and dump everything else in your life so that you be a good little worker bee.

We've outevolved relationships. The current "relationships" are not but a desperate attempt to make a dead thing work. We're slowly evolving to there being no distinctions between friendships and relationships. The only difference between your male and your female friends is that you have sex with some of your female friends.

Alek,
You make a lot of good and interesting points. What is your idea about families in light of the things you espouse? How can one have children with such a lifestyle? I will add that I think the government and church concept of "marriage" is manipulative and controlling. I think I can have a relationship and family with someone without state or religious interference.